Swap Fu Podcast

Hang in there for fun! -- Photo courtesy of Cliff and Jaime

What did the Fu do?

Topic

Shout Out

Safety first! -- Photo courtesy of Cliff and Jaime

I can't believe it's taken us this long to feature a song by Future Islands! We've been listening to this band pretty much non-stop for the last few months. This episode's song is "Walking Through that Door" on the album In Evening Air. Learn more about this excellent band at myspace.com/futureislands

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Shout outs to long haul truckers, Australian travelers and  http://caramelcraze.com/ (Great website!!)

What's been bugging the Fu's?Learning to embrace age differencesDifferent Swinging StylesAnd being in the moment... (Thank you Doris!)Also... Halloween Party recap!

We're going to the Moon Party at Pace Bend Park... come join us!!

Episode Music "Never Saw the Point" by Cults.  Awesome music. :)

Sorry for our audio problems... damn USB mics are giving me fits on my slow laptop.

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The Swap Fu Podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only. We are not health or sexuality professionals and anything we say should not be construed as professional advice.

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Pre-production notes!!

Tell us you're not a little impressed.

Thank you for your blog comments and voicemails!

Warming up the house slowly

Mas Vegas: Some more details given in context of how we don't go into details

Mindfulness: Were we in the right headspace?

Thank you Dan Savage for giving us some insight on the dating mind -- we're all newbies so -- cut yourself some slack

Mr Swap Fu is The Period Whisperer

Girls Uncorked redux

This episode's music is "Electronic Fences" by Computer Magic, a solo project based out of Brooklyn -- More information at thecomputermagic.com

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The Swap Fu Podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only. We are not health or sexuality professionals and anything we say should not be construed as professional advice.

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We're finally moved into the new place... mostly.  We're back!

Ms Swap Fu gets Uncorked.  Join the Girls Uncorked chapter in your city.

Las Vegas trip highlights and tips and tricks for swinger travel newbies

The Sex-Related Injury

We talk about staying active in the lifestyle during a life transition

FuGrrl wants to know how you gracefully exit a sexual situation that just got weird... email her [email protected]

Thank you for the your patience, emails and iTunes reviews.  Hopefully we're back on schedule now.

Enjoy this episode's hot, hot music "Come Closer" by Miles Kane

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The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for listeners 18 years of age or older.

The Swap Fu Podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only. We are not health or sexuality professionals and anything we say should not be construed as professional advice.

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What's the Fu been up to? Ms Swap Fu gets her kink on with a guy in LederhosenMs Swap Fu meets Johnny Taser

Booty call -- Buffalo Wild Wings interruptedThe Trojan Truck -- Where's the Wienermobile when you need it?Hotel party -- Our party planned shared. Good setup Topic

Self-improvement and the lifestyle What can you work on? What do you do about what you can't work on?

Repetition is your best tool The sweet gift of the emotionally mature relationship -- allowing yourself to feel big feelings without the world imploding

AnnouncementsFollow Fugrrl on Twitter!Thanks for iTunes reviewsShout out to South Carolina Lizard Sex

The music for this episode is in remembrance of the incomparable Amy Winehouse who died tragically since our last podcast. Ms Winehouse sang her way into my wife's heart to become her favorite singer. I too was fan. The song is "Back to Black" from the album of the same name. Rest in peace, sad little bird.

The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for listeners 18 years of age or older.

The Swap Fu Podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only. We are not health or sexuality professionals and anything we say should not be construed as professional advice.

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What did the Fu do?

1. Meeting our hot friends at the amazing Swinger Mecca: Trapeze Atlanta

Topic

1. Swinger date dynamics. Get private!

This and That

1. After-party participant selection. Yes, you still have to plan.

Episode music is "Topaz" by the Athens, GA band The B-52s. Not only does this song honor of our friends in Atlanta, but also it's Mr Swap Fu's favorite by this most excellent band... Tin Roof! Rusted.

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The Swap Fu Podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only. We are not health or sexuality professionals and anything we say should not be construed as professional advice.

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Howdy!

Your friendly neighborhood swingers, the Fu's take you to the river as they rundown the highs and lows of the Krewe of Swingtown Guadalupe River Trip

Battling vanillas for river domination

In praise of Boris and Doris and the Swingercast Friends

Topic:

Mr Swap Fu talks about relearning to bringing flirting back to his vanilla life.  Where do you draw the line?

Announcements:

We're going to Vegas!  Come meet us!  Sept. 23 - 26

What a Canadian public health worker might look

like after visiting a swinger club back room.

In the news:

Canadian public health research zeros in on swingers

Ask Amy weighs in on swinging

Enjoy!!

In honor of our delirious weekend, we've chose "My Delirium" by Ladyhawke as the episode song.  The album is called Ladyhawke.  We've been listening to this album a lot... haven't fucked to it yet, but that's just a matter of time.

The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for listeners 18 years of age or older.

The Swap Fu Podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only. We are not health or sexuality professionals and anything we say should not be construed as professional advice.

Please contact us:

Follow us on Twitter @swapfu

Call us at 609-3SWAPFU

Just remember Your Marriage May Vary!

People ask us about our musical tastes.  We generally broaden our musical selections by listening to channels we like on Pandora.

Our favorite stations are:

Mr. Swap Fu mourns his 20's last to grunge.

Condom update: Female condoms... Out! (Thanks Allie)

What's the Fu been up to?Enjoying the what all our efforts have yielded.  You should too!Two amazing datesThe new walk of shame!Super fun night at Mystique!

Odds and EndsIsrael police raid swingers party looking for potNew listener erotica page starting this week.  Thank you!!Krewe of Swingtown River Trip in a couple weeks

Thank you!  We love our listeners and thank you for the amazing iTunes reviews!

To J.  Hang in there, baby!!

As much as it pains us, this episode's music is "Cherry Pie" by Warrant.  Our salute to the Hair Bands.  Regarding this song...Mr Swap Fu: This song is ridiculous!Ms Swap Fu: Ridiculously awesome!

The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for listeners 18 years of age or older.

The Swap Fu Podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only. We are not health or sexuality professionals and anything we say should not be construed as professional advice.

Please contact us:

Follow us on Twitter @swapfu

Call us at 609-3SWAPFU

Just remember Your Marriage May Vary!

Shout outs

1. Positive reviews on iTunes. Keep them coming, they help us share the podcast with other swingers and wanna be swingers.

Fu News

1. Naked Condom’s $56 dozen.  Naked Foundation

Topic

Related to Friends First, Fuck First.  Is it a Part II?:

Thank you to the listeners for supplying topic.  How to touch base in the middle of the date to pull the handbrake, or on the positive, let your partner know you want to escalate.

1. Make a Plan and a Plan B

Where are we going?

1. River Trip June 24 - 26

WE LOVE OUR LISTENERS!!

We are featuring the song "Breathe" by Telepopmusik as the episode song because we took a short breather away from the podcast to rethink a few things regarding how we were producing it. Yes, this was Version 2 of this recording... Version 1 ran off the rails and we decided to give it another shot after a soggy but fun Memorial Day weekend in Chicago. Telepopmusik is an amazing band from France. Yes! France! We love that enigmatic country. Check them out here. If you like them, please buy their album, like we did. :)

The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for listeners 18 years of age or older.

The Swap Fu Podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only. We are not health or sexuality professionals and anything we say should not be construed as professional advice.

Please contact us:

Follow us on Twitter @swapfu

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Just remember Your Marriage May Vary!

Meet us on the Guadalupe River with the Krewe of Swingtown: June 24 - 26

Memorial Day in Chicago. Come for the Fu, stay for the Leather: May 27 - 30

Glow in the dark party at Mystique.  Will we reconnect with our raver past?

Pro Tips: Always take time to meet new people at the club.  It will give you a chance to step away and reconnect with your partner... and to make new friends.

New couple makes an effort -- and Ms Swap Fu likes it, bi the way.

Do the hosts of at house party have to stay up? What constitutes a house party?

Today's Topic is ripped from the pages of Kasidie.com -- friends first or play first?

How is swinging like Clash of the Titans?

Are we here to make friends?

Your feedback keeps us going.  Please leave us a comment on iTunes!!

We get a lot of comments about our music selections.  We try to pick songs that relate in some way to the topic being discussed.  This episode's music is "Sick Muse" by the fantastic Canadian band Mertic off their album Fantasies.  We've selected this song because it deals with the way people's expectations of falling in love can get in the way of leading the life we truly want to lead.  We think that this is why so many couples specify that they want to be friends first before they play; they have an expectation to have more meaning connection before having sex with people.  Our episode topic deals with this.

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The Swap Fu podcast contains explicit, adult content, intended for listeners 18 years of age or older.

The Swap Fu Podcast is intended for entertainment purposes only. We are not health or sexuality professionals and anything we say should not be construed as professional advice.

Please contact us:

Follow us on Twitter @swapfu

Call us at 609-3SWAPFU

Just remember Your Marriage May Vary!