This week we're joined by Victoria (@flyforaginger), a plus size fashion blogger that has lots of open & honest conversations with her followers about dating & sex. During our conversation we discuss online dating, bidets, advocating for yourself in the bedroom, sex toys & so much more.

As plus size women we over compensate - in our daily life and relationships. We shouldn't have to! A Tiktok Alex found really got as thinking about why and how we can reframe our thoughts about people who are attractive to fat bodies.

We're back from summer break!! This week we're joined by plus size model & content creator, Ashley Braxton (@itsashleybraxton) to talk about what it's been like for her dating as a queer woman. We discuss everything from lesbian tiktok, not being over sexualized unlike when you're not dating a straight man and body insecurities.

We decided to jump on the NGL trend that all over instagram stories and answered your anonymous questions!

We reflect on our first week of our dating app detox and then discuss how being rejected has been making us feel. What's worse: being rejected for your weight or your personality? 

This week we're joined by dating coach, Lily Womble (@DateBrazen) and it was a rollercoaster emotions! We discuss how to make dating an act of self care with self compassion, bragging and I am for the few not the many. Why the number game and dating apps are a scam and how to have a more joyus dating life with "thank you, more please." Lily also has all of her clients do a dating app detox, and one of us had an emotional response to it.

This week we're joined by Mary Fran (@itsmaryfran) to discuss fat phobia, how being comfortable in your body effects your wardrobe, the 2000's trends & diet culter and how we should normalize that it's okay if you've never been in an adult relationship.

We're joined by Jerrin Nicole (@awkwardfatgirl on tiktok) to learn about her confidence journey, talk about her dating life and gross messages from men on the internet.

Every month on our Patreon we do a Fat Chat - where we talk to you!! Since they're some of our favorite conversations we've had since starting the podcast, we thought we'd give you a taste. 

What's the best opener on dating apps? We found a list of some real losers and then try to come up with our new go-to line!