In this episode we talk about a book that has been transformative in how we identify and work through our fight/conflict cycle. We dive deep into the Vacillator love style and how it plays out in our relationship. 

Resources Mentioned:

How We Love book: https://howwelove.com/shop/how-we-love-book/ 

How We Love quiz: https://howwelove.com/love-style-quiz/ 

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In this episode we unpack how the postmodern church model is designed to yield the results it is producing: pastors that are burning out, & members that are labeled noncommittal. Our desire is to explore what the original intent of the church was as it was described in Ephesians with the various spiritual giftings (apostles, prophets, evangelists, teachers, shepherds).

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In this episode we unpack our thoughts on tithing and where we’re at in the journey of discovering what it means to be generous as a believer. The conversation was sparked by a discussion I had at a bible study where we talked about someone who gave anonymously because it gave them a freedom to know they were supporting a cause without the baggage of being associated with the amount they were giving.

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Today’s episode is a special episode where we have invited our dear friends Albert & Yemi Mutesa to our table. In this episode we talk about the unique cultural backgrounds they are bringing into their family, their experience living in the US, and the best parts of their upbringing and culture that they want to carry forward into the future for their family. 

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In this episode we’re exploring the dire need for mentorship and the conflicting societal forces that is preventing people from experiencing it more broadly. We also talk about our observations on how society is built up that inform how we want to lead our family. We talk about internal vs external forces that shape our decision-making and much more!

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People prioritize emotions differently which predicates the way we process feelings. We talk about the difference between emotions and feelings and have a discussion on whether or not and how to fold feelings/emotions in our everyday conversation.

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In this episode we talk about a podcast clip that Ash listened to where a wife complains to her husband about his lack of intuition in meeting needs around the house. We discuss how stating the problem is a good step towards the solution, but isn’t the solution in and of itself. 

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In this episode we reference a movie: The Farewell as a backdrop to our discussion on truth and love. We talk about how cultural backgrounds play a role in how willing you may be to be more truthful or more loving.

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In this episode we kickoff a new series on relationships! We start it off by walking through the distinction of connecting face-to-face or shoulder-to-shoulder and what we mean by those things.

Resources mentioned: 

Gottman Card Deck (Date night question prompt app):

• iOS: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/gottman-card-decks/id1292398843

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In this episode we take time to answer one of your listener questions!

We mention a study on parenting and happiness and there are several publications that compare families with and without kids with (not surprisingly) mixed results. While we won't point to one specific study, factors like income, geography, availability of parental leave, all play a role in parental satisfaction and happiness.

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