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If you've had kids, you know the toddler phase is fun/amazing/rewarding and also difficult! Parenting in general has changed vastly since we grew up. There are terms like "gentle parenting" that are very popular and unpopular. Learning to let our kids feel their emotions has become a taboo topic - depending on who you are talking to.  Today, our TABOOBS guest is Liz! She is going through the thick of it right now, so it is fresh on her mind with a 3 year old. 

Why is so much expected from our toddlers from the public? Mom's are judged when there are public tantrums for the fit itself, but also how you decide to handle it. Dad's aren't so harshly judged. When it comes to restaurants, toy stores, or any public outing, strangers have comments/looks that are unwanted. How do you handle it? Why can we not reframe our expectations of toddlers? They are toddlers - they should be able to act like toddlers. It's not always pleasant, but we cannot expect adultlike behavior out of our toddlers/kids.

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Today our TABOOBS main guest is my mom! At the end of the episode we do interview my grandma (Nanny). My mom walks us through her story in deciding the best care for my grandma (Nanny). It is not an easy road and she had to pay attention to the tiniest of details to ensure her mom was getting the best care possible. In our society, we know we are to take care of our parents when they no longer cannot do so themselves... However, what does that look like? Does it mean they live with you? Or, does it mean you find the best facility to meet their wants and needs? 

Sources mentioned: 
https://www.caregiver.org

https://www.aarp.org/caregiving/prepare-to-care-planning-guide/?intcmp=AE-CAR-R1-C1

https://www.livingwellspendingless.com/6-things-no-one-told-us-about-being-a-caregiver/amp/?gclid=Cj0KCQiA2-2eBhClARIsAGLQ2RlDWNzDBV4SlIIMoArYdVcUbYmO-rKkcsXvKUo43Q1JwMM3ebQR8z4aAvdcEALw_wcB

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Lauren shares her story about her son who was surprisingly born different than his twin brother.  Lack of knowledge leads this to be a taboo topic.  Momming is hard as it is, but then you add medical complexities and you are on a whirlwind that you don't know how to navigate at the beginning. There is a lot of learning involved, friendship changes, and community showing up that you may not expect. Asking questions is okay! Preferably "What is your diagnosis"? over "What's wrong with you?".

BOOK REFERENCES:
Uniquely Me Foundation - https://www.uniquelymefoundation.org/about-us/
The Wonderful Way You Are by Sarah Elizabeth Brooks
https://www.amazon.com/Wonderful-Way-You-Are-Special/dp/1953550002

TAR Syndrome:
(from medlineplus.gov)
Thrombocytopenia-absent radius (TAR) syndrome is characterized by the absence of a bone called the radius in each forearm and a shortage (deficiency) of blood cells involved in clotting (platelets). This platelet deficiency (thrombocytopenia) usually appears during infancy and becomes less severe over time; in some cases the platelet levels become normal.

Thrombocytopenia prevents normal blood clotting, resulting in easy bruising and frequent nosebleeds. Potentially life-threatening episodes of severe bleeding (hemorrhages) may occur in the brain and other organs, especially during the first year of life. Hemorrhages can damage the brain and lead to intellectual disability. Affected children who survive this period and do not have damaging hemorrhages in the brain usually have a normal life expectancy and normal intellectual development.

The severity of skeletal problems in TAR syndrome varies among affected individuals. The radius, which is the bone on the thumb side of the forearm, is almost always missing in both arms. The other bone in the forearm, which is called the ulna, is sometimes underdeveloped or absent in one or both arms. TAR syndrome is unusual among similar malformations in that affected individuals have thumbs, while people with other conditions involving an absent radius typically do not. However, there may be other abnormalities of the hands, such as webbed or fused fingers (syndactyly) or curved pinky fingers (fifth finger clinodactyly). Some people with TAR syndrome also have skeletal abnormalities affecting the upper arms, legs, or hip sockets.

Other features that can occur in TAR syndrome include malformations of the heart or kidneys. Some people with this disorder have unusual facial features including a small lower jaw (micrognathia), a prominent forehead, and low-set ears. About half of affected individuals have allergic reactions to cow's milk that may worsen the thrombocytopenia associated with this disorder.

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Christine had a great topic she wanted to discuss that most people tend to steer clear of. When it comes to money, we don't like to talk about it with others. We protect our financial status. However, when it is your friends bachelorette party, wedding, or baby shower, we expect people to show up for us physically and financially. How do you choose what you do or not do when it comes to your friends? How have you handled it in the past? How will you handle it in the future?

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Everyone experiences trauma to a variety of degrees. Some traumas are life changing, some are with us for seasons. Regardless if what you have gone through, traumas are here to stay. It becomes part of your makeup. It becomes part of you. Sam discusses how she is living with her traumas, how it has affected her, and how it still affects her. Please listen with caution as we discuss sensitive topics such as car wrecks, injuries, sexual assault, miscarriage, depression, suicidal ideation, and infertility. 

If you would like someone to talk to please visit www.betterhelp.com 

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Rachel shares her maternity leave story in a high-demanding job/field not set up for women. She had to create her own path, create non-existing documents to file, and ask for time off of her cases so she could have a baby and recover/bond with her baby. Maternity leave is basically non-existent for many in the US. Listen to see how Rachel is breaking silence on issues on maternity leave.

For more information on FMLA - https://www.dol.gov/agencies/whd/fmla

Mom Book (not Rachel approved, but Meg approved) - Moms On Call - This book helped me with daily schedules and sleep schedules (and training)
https://momsoncall.com/

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Our TABOOBS expert guest ~ Christie ~ tells us the scoop on standardized tests, what has changed, what we as parents are allowed to do about it, and the pressures on students these days. 

SLUMBERKINS ~ www.slumberkins.com ~ Slumberkins is dedicated to helping families raise caring, confident, and resilient children through affirmations, stories, and creature characters. I've gotten my son a handful of these and I can honestly say we can see the results.

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Dealing with infertility is a lonely road. Kim shares her story and the difficulties that comes along with infertility and her IVF journey. 1 in 8 woman struggle with infertility.  Please listen with caution.

If you are struggling with infertility and need an impartial party to talk to, go to www.betterhelp.com to speak to a licensed therapist. 

When should you see a fertility specialist?
-If you are under 35 and have been trying unsuccessfully for year
-If you are over 35 and have been trying unsuccessfully for 6 months
go to www.fertilityoutloud.com 

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In this episode, Allie explains her and her husbands journey to the things that impacted their decision to not have kids. People definitely have their own opinions when it comes to women choosing not to have kids. I think it is admirable to listen to what you want and not give into the societal norm/pressures. 

Disclaimer: Please listen with caution as we discuss topics such as miscarriage. 

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Meagan shares her incredible home birth story. Although that may not be the route everyone decides to take (like me), she gives great insight on what alternative birthing options can look like if you open your mind to it. 

Miles Smiles children’s book by Abby Patterson! Such a great read for your children before a visit to the dentist! It helps with apprehension and fear about their next trip to the dentist.  Available February 28, 2023! Link to Amazon:
Miles Smiles https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BSRCX3ZN?ref_=cm_sw_r_apin_dp_QH6K330ZBT6HY7P3913B

Books referenced by Meagan: 
1. Childbirth without fear - Grantly Dick-Read; 
2. Unassisted Childbirth - Laura Kaplan Shanley; 
3. Ina May's Complete Guide to Childbirth - Ina May Gaskin; 
4. Gentle Birth Gentle Mothering - Sarah Buckley; 
5. The First Forty Days - Heng Ou (Postpartum wisdom + postpartum cook book). 

The Freebirth Society Offers a podcast + Complete Guide to Freebirth (intensive online course) @freebirthsociety. 

If you care to follow or reach out to Abby for more guidance, she has given us her Instagram handle - @abbyexperiences

Please note: None of the content of this episode is professional or medical advice. This is just a woman sharing her own beliefs/story about what she needed for herself and what she thinks is best for her family.

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