Take everything as an opportunity to better yourself

【Xian'er's says so: “why it everything so difficult?” 】

Xian'er asked Shifu:" Why is it that the more I do, the more criticism I get?

I should just do less or better yet do nothing at all, shouldn’t I?
See, take the cartoon I made as an example.
So many questions and comments,  
So many thoughts and revisions,
So many problems and dilemmas,
And so much difficulty and challenge.  
Shifu, please pay some attention to my delicate little heart. At least give me an ice cream or sth…”
Shifu: " Oh Xian’er, here we are again.
Go away and suit yourself… "

Below are quoted from my Shifu’s new book, Say Good Things—Master Xuecheng’s insight on the path to speaking like a Buddha. 
Take everything as an opportunity to better yourself.
If comments from others are correct, accept them;
If not, take the opportunity to cultivate your generosity and tolerance.
When you choose not to confront the other party,
it loses its opponent as if a fist runs into cotton. 

把一切都当作帮助自己成长的机会

【贤二如是说：为什么这么难】

贤二跟师父说：“为什么我干得越多，
受到的批评就越多？
那我少干不就得了？
干脆不干那不就没事了？
您看看我做个动画片，
这么多的意见，这么多的说法，
这么多的想法，这么多的修改，
这么多的问题，这么多的纠结，
这么多的困难，这么多的矛盾，
师父您抚慰一下我的玻璃心吧，
至少给个冰激凌吧......”
师父说:“你又来了，
去去去，爱咋的咋的......”

以下来自我师父的《好好说话》
把一切当作帮助自己成长的机会。
大家说得对的，接受；
说得不对的，练习增长自己的度量和包容。
自己不上前“迎战”，
挥来的拳头便如同打到了虚空上，
失去了对手。