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Ever dread the heart-pounding moment when someone says, "We need to talk"? Joshua and Jeremy strip away the fear surrounding tough conversations and reveal how embracing them can be a liberating step toward growth. This episode is a treasure trove of insights—from the essentials of effective communication to the freedom of direct, respectful dialogue. They share their personal and professional experiences with difficult discussions and how these have shaped our paths during challenging times.

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Stepping into the new year, we share personal stories like the soulful connection between secular music and worship, and Jeremy's son Caleb’s proactive role with the Black Student Union. We also have an enlightening perspective on MLK at a high school assembly, promising to challenge how we view our heroes and their humanity.

Turning the page, we confront the fears that often tether us to the known, exploring the audacity required to chase dreams. We're here to remind you that the path to freedom often cuts through the forest of our deepest fears.

As we march towards our 100-episode milestone, we emphasize the pillars of support and community that sustain us. Reflecting on the sacrifices of civil rights leaders and the importance of community in fostering growth, we encourage you to make those tough decisions that redefine relationships and ultimately, your life. So, join us on this voyage through sacrifice, hope, and unwavering determination to live authentically.

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Ever wondered how to navigate the complex world of child support, divorce, and societal norms? Discover how to comprehend these intricacies using Tyrese Gibson's recent court battle as our case study, with us – your hosts Jeremy Rubin and Joshua Fields. We dissect not just the court procedures, but the wider implications these situations have on men, especially those of color. We share our personal experiences, the need for accountability in relationships, and how to heal from the trauma of a public break-up. 

Our conversation takes a hard look at societal norms and constructs, dissecting the challenges faced by couples. We share our own tales of personal growth, emphasizing the vital role of authenticity and extreme accountability in leading a satisfied life. 

As we wrap up this enlightening episode, we delve into the significance of community service and maintaining connections in our lives. We examine the impact of social media, the dangers of chasing relevancy, and the importance of celebrating each other. By the end of this compelling discussion, we hope you walk away with a fresh perspective on relationships, personal growth, and the power of community. Don't miss this illuminating episode of Take it Off!

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Join Joshua Fields and Jeremy Rubin, for a transformative journey into self-perception, societal judgments, and the allure of fame. Inspired by Sean "P Diddy" Combs' words, "I’m un-pausable," we'll discuss overcoming self-doubt and unlocking potential. We'll examine the dark aspects of stardom and society's role in creating 'superstars,' referencing Diddy's appearance on The Breakfast Club, and his latest allegations from Casandra Ventura. Our conversation will address the impact of rumors and judgments on influential black men, emphasizing fairness and due process. We'll also explore the concept of pretty privilege and the risks of idolizing celebrities. Join us to gain insights into societal dynamics and the complexities of the human psyche.

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Joshua Fields and Jeremy Rubin, co-hosts of the Take It Off! See. Love. Grow Podcast, we ask: "Who says you can't live separately while married?" In our anniversary episode, we discuss Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith's unconventional living arrangements since 2016. We also touch on Joshua's trip to Egypt and his perspective on the Israeli-Palestinian conflict.

We explore societal expectations, gender double standards, and the pursuit of perfection, analyzing the reaction to Jada Pinkett-Smith's Red Table Talk about her past relationship. We draw examples from famous couples like Beyonce and Jay-Z.

Our discussion peaks with the toll of maintaining a facade of perfection, exemplified by the recent Chris Rock incident involving Will Smith. Will and Jada's journey reflects the courage to live authentically amidst societal pressures. We encourage listeners to confront their pursuit or pause, making brave decisions for happiness. We end with inspiration from Joshua's Egypt trip, emphasizing the importance of reconnecting with our roots. Tune in for this exploration of relationships, expectations, and authenticity.

Jada Pinkett Smith and Will Smith Separated in 2016. (thecut.com)

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Ever felt trapped by your own thoughts, unable to break free from the cycle of negativity and limiting beliefs? Well, you're not alone. This episode invites you on a transformative journey. Together, we traverse the challenging path of maintaining an open mind, particularly when past trauma becomes a hindrance. We dive into the intricacies of our upbringing, education, and family values that shape our perceptions.

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Could you be standing in your way of growth? Ponder that as we converse in this engaging and thought-provoking episode. We're taking a deep dive into the complexities of open-mindedness, challenging our own biases, and the power of empathy in shaping our personal development.

From the onset, the dialogue bubbles with the critical need to remain receptive to life's lessons, the fluidity of right and wrong, and the importance of carving out your unique path. We then segue into a poignant discussion on the potency of open-mindedness and its role in challenging biases. In his episode we provide insight into the importance of generous interpretations, being cognizant of one's beliefs, and the power of questioning for personal evolution.

10 Steps To Become More Open-Minded | Indeed.com

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Can discipline really outshine talent and skill when it comes to success? Join us in our latest podcast episode, where our guest, Joshua, and Jeremy, tackle this provocative question. Through an enriching conversation, we explore the profound impact of discipline and the pivotal role a clear purpose plays in fostering it. Drawing anecdotes from those who've blazed the trail before us, we unwrap how high standards and personal growth are linked, setting a persuasive argument for a life driven by purpose and discipline.

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Co-Host: Joshua Fields ACC, CPC, & Master ELI Practitioner
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Ever wondered why so many talented folks never reach the top? The answer lies in the embrace of discipline. Join us as we discuss how discipline trumps talent, skills or credentials when it comes to achieving success. We'll share personal struggles and triumphs, as well as thought-provoking stories, such as the two-hour call with the IRS, which underscore the often-unnoticed value of discipline and delegation. 

Following that, we delve deeply into the 4R framework and how you can apply discipline in your daily routines. We stress the importance of taking action and committing to seeing your plans through. Also, we'll guide you through the process of crafting a personal mission statement. We'll share our own experiences and show how this process can significantly boost your motivation and provide you with clear direction. 

Finally, we wrap up the conversation by discussing the importance of recognizing the value of tasks that may initially seem uninteresting or mundane. We emphasize how discipline, combined with talent, is the key to success. We end this episode by revisiting the importance of discipline and delegation. We hope that this conversation will encourage you, whether you're struggling with discipline or looking to maximize your talents. This episode promises actionable insights and fresh perspectives that will help propel you towards your goals.

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Ever felt like you're stuck in a loop of constantly enabling someone's behavior without reaping any benefits for yourself? Well, you're not alone.  Joshua, and Jeremy engage in a deep discussion on enabling behavior in relationships, based on insights from the article, How to Stop Being an Enabler in a Relationship: Five Ways from Marriage.com. We  explore the power of reframing and re-envisioning our relationships with difficult conversations to spark growth and evolution.

It is no secret that communicating tough information or initiating challenging conversations can be daunting. However, articulating our thoughts clearly is a cornerstone of creating an environment where people understand what to expect from us, and where we can protect ourselves from being exploited. Without such boundaries, be prepared to be overwhelmed by others' drama, and stuck in a cycle of enabling behavior.

Finally, we invite you to join us in creating momentum conversations and revisiting these topics together, encouraging a journey of self-improvement and personal growth. Packed with personal stories, practical steps, and much-needed conversations, this episode is sure to leave you deeply enlightened and empowered.

Resource: How to Stop Being an Enabler in a Relationship: 5 Ways (marriage.com)

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Co-Host: Joshua Fields ACC, CPC, & Master ELI Practitioner
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Email List: https://archive.aweber.com/newsletter/awlist6189433 

Co-Host: Jeremy Rubin, Keynote Speaker, Author, Consultant, Sales Leader
Website: http://faceconsultinggroup.com/