What ever happened to you is a result of the way you were thinking at the time, the choices you made and the action you took. There's no point holding on to it, let it go. Learn to use it as fuel to help propel you further along your path so you can grow, evolve and live your best life. Learn from the mistake, remember the lesson. 

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Even if it wasn't your fault, own it. It allows you to forgive people and it allows you to forgive yourself. It brings peace and when you're at peace, you sleep better at night.

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You can't change what happened. Own the good, the bad and the ugly. Learn from it, keep moving forward so you can finish strong.