In times of COVID, as our grief process has been stunted due to lack of in person services, it is so important to move at your own pace. There is no hurry. You move as you need to move. Slow and steady. The society may want you to be done already. People are uncomfortable being around grieving individuals. Sometimes they feel helpless. It is ok. It is not about them. I am giving us permission to take our sweet time until we are good and ready.