Kathleen Gramzay, Founder of Kinessage LLC, is a Body-Mind Resilience Innovator, Speaker, Neurosomatic Intelligence Practitioner & Facilitator, Author, and Developer of Kinessage® Applied Resilience and the Kinessage® Release Your Pain Self-Care System.
Her lived experience partnering with her nervous system to end chronic muscular pain while a board-certified massage therapist and educator, and then restoring her nervous system after severe burnout, created two things: a unique 25-year expertise in body-mind resilience and a passion to empower others to partner with theirs.
Kinessage LLC supports performance- and culture-conscious organizations with resilience strategy and root-solution body-mind resilience programs that reduce stress, chronic tension, and pain, while increasing mental resilience and long-term health for greater overall well-being and sustainable success.
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In addition to working with organizational leader teams, Kathleen facilitates Applied Resilience cohorts for women leaders and professionals.
Chronic Stress
Chronic stress affects every single area of your life. It causes mental and physical distress and can lead to illness.
Investigating Behaviors
Find out why something is difficult for you or why you keep avoiding it. What happened in your past that made your body want to avoid that thing or activity?
Trauma comes in all shapes and sizes. It’s your body trying to protect you from getting harmed again.
Movement
Short movement breaks throughout your day are a simple and effective way to relieve stress.
Your body needs different kinds of sensory input. Take a break from your screen to give your brain other kinds of information to process.
Building Resilience
You’re never too young or old to learn how to regulate your nervous system.
Improving nervous system regulation improves overall wellness.
Reward yourself when you do something you’ve been avoiding or struggling with. Having a reward system helps rewire the nervous system to be okay with the activity.
Baby steps: do the difficult thing a little bit at a time. You don’t need to do it all right away.
Holding yourself in moments of distress can be helpful if you don’t have anyone else to hold you. It’s still calming when it’s your own hands and arms holding you.
Relationships
Don’t expect your partner to read your mind. Be clear when asking them to do something to avoid stress.
Sometimes what you want from a partner is projection. Investigate if it’s really something you want them to do or if it’s something you know you should be doing.
When you step up, your partner will likely be inspired to follow your lead.
Books
Release Your Pain, Expand Your Life by Kathleen Gramzay