Talk Of 12 Oaks

In this episode, I am excited to be introducing you to another neighbor and he is a force to be reckoned with.  I am talking with a junior olympian swimmer, singer, traveler, and fisherman.  We talk a lot about toys in this episode and you won’t want to miss the big announcement. You may have heard this neighbor perform at the 12 Oaks Summer Slam, Raleigh’s High Park Bar or Woody’s Sports Tavern and Grill. This is the first EVER episode where our neighbor sings for YOU. 

Chris Cofoni is the Founder and CEO of TriAction Toys. Chris is also a singer-songwriter. Chris was born in Westerly, Rhode Island.  He was raised in an Italian family along with his older sister by his Mom and Dad. His family moved quite a bit during his childhood years.  While attending high school, Chris discovered, after much nudging from his Mom, that he had a true musical talent. Last year Chris launched “Instraspection” which is his best album yet, recorded here in Raleigh. Chris is married with three children.  

12 Oakers, we are so fortunate to have Chris as a neighbor and as an onsite performer, rockstar to boot. We look forward two Chris’ next performance, here in 12 Oaks.  

In This Episode:

• [04:14] Welcome Chris Cofoni our 19th “P” in the pod[cast]. He is the CEO of TriAction Toys and a Music Performer.
• [04:33] TriAction, which stands for “innovate, design, and play” introduces popular European design and quality toys to American audiences, with distribution, specifically focused on independent toy stores and specialty retailers.
• [06:52] Chris had major roles in high school community theatre and professional theatre with Off Broadway runs and formed a rock band named Lucid.
• [07:38] In 2000, Chris had his first major release “Born Backwards.” 
• [09:32] He has been to 31 countries and the Misquamicut Beach in Rhode Island is still the best beach he has ever walked on in the world.  
• [10:17] He was a junior olympian for freestyle swimming when his family lived in California. 
• [11:18] Some of the first people he made friends with after moving to Mystic, Connecticut approached him about singing with them in a rock band and they are still his best friends to this day. 
• [13:01] He was singing in Italian, German, and French at the age of 15.   
• [14:45] Chris was chosen to sing a solo out of the whole country with the National Symphony Orchestra in Washington D.C. 
• [16:10] He received a full talent scholarship to Hartt School of Music. 
• [17:39] His father showed him that nothing was more important than a hard day’s work other than family because that is why you work.   
• [19:02] There were times in his career when he took the next step and it was a very difficult decision but he made it based on something his grandfather told him.
• [20:40] His brand is a guy that never gives up. 
• [23:44] His assertiveness and passion together got him a promotion to the A&R department at Lunar Records.  The second record he worked on was with Norah Jones.
• [24:20] Of all the records he worked on, the one with Al Green had the biggest impact on Chris. 
• [25:40] Working with Norah Jones, Chris has Gold and Platinum plagues.  
• [27:13] Chris performs a small part of a song he wrote called Claustrophobia.  
• [33:43] He transitioned to the toy industry because the record industry had a huge drop. 
• [36:40] Chris started a new job at Melissa and Doug. 
• [38:52] He moved on and became VP of Sales for Jazwares. They launched Fortnite toys.  
• [41:07] Chris is doing licensed toys for Boglins now.  He is manufacturing at this time.
• [43:19] Through his experience, he has learned that out of a weakness can come a strength.  
• [45:13] After several years, he bumped into Daniela literally in Time Square on Valentine’s Day. 
• [47:52] Chris loves to fish.  He was in a Bass Club with his grandfather. 
• [49:48] Why did you choose North Carolina and 12 Oaks?  
• [52:42] Chris recommends having fun and traveling in your 20’s and make sure you know who you are before you commit to a life with someone else.
• [54:59] What are you most proud of?
• [56:24] If you had a chance to redo something in life, what would you do differently and why?
• [58:31] The one thing Chris learned from all of his travels was not to judge.  
• [60:23] What would you be known for?
• [61:07] Which actor would play Chris Cofoni?

Links and Resources for Episode 20

• 12 Oaks Community Website
• Team Anderson Realty
• All About Chris Cofoni:
  • Westerly, RI: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Westerly,_Rhode_Island
  • Solana Beach, CA: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Solana_Beach,_California
  • Mystic, CT: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mystic,_Connecticut
  • Early Influencer:Dr. Andre´ J. Thomas http://www.drandrethomas.com
  • Music Career Influencers:Bruce Lundvall (Blue Note Label Group) https://www.britannica.com/biography/Bruce-Lundvall
  • Willie Mitchell and Lawrence “Boo” Mitchell (Royal Studios) https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lawrence_%22Boo%22_Mitchell
  • Irv Kratka (Music Minus One) https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Music_Minus_One
  • Toy Industry Influencers:Melissa and Doug Bernstein (Melissa & Doug, LLC) https://www.melissaanddoug.com/meet-melissa-and-doug.html
  • Jazwares: https://www.jazwares.com
  • TriAction Toys: https://triactiontoys.com
  • Les Deglingos
  • Teddy Kompaniet
  • Boglins: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boglin

In this episode, we learn more about another amazing 12 Oaks neighbor.  I am talking with the Maggy Award winner for Best Therapist in Western Wake and the Food Truck Queen of 12 Oaks. She was also a finalist during Indy Week, Best of the Triangle 2020 for Best Couples Therapist and Best Therapist. We talk about her move from Rhode Island, Virginia, then Florida and finally to North Carolina.   

Erin Bircher is a Psychotherapist, Life Coach, and owner and founder of Foundations 4-Change.   She helps individuals break through barriers, work through difficult situations, set boundaries, and helps to explore any limiting belief systems that may be preventing them from leading the life they truly desire.  Erin was born in Providence, Rhode Island.  At the age of two, she and her mom moved to Northern Virginia where she grew up in the small town of Leesburg.  After graduating high school, Erin’s mom told her she had to take at least one class at the local community college.  She ended up taking psychology and that class captured Erin’s love and focus on what she wanted to do with her life.  Erin has been married to her husband Jay since 2017 and has two boys, Ashton and Dylan. 

It was wonderful getting to know Erin and learning more about her and how she helps people every day through some of the most difficult times in their lives. We are so fortunate to have Erin as our neighbor and soon to be a friend to many more of us. 

In This Episode:

• [02:35] Welcome Erin Bircher our 18th “P” in the pod[cast]. She is a Psychotherapist and Life Coach.  
• [04:52] In 2003, she moved to Miami to gain her Masters of Counseling degree from Florida International University. 
• [06:11] In 2019, Erin completed the certification to become a Life Coach. 
• [08:23] She grew up in the small town of Leesburg, Virginia.  She played a lot of soccer growing up and also spent a lot of time working with children. 
• [09:24] Even though Erin had no interest in college her mom pushed her to take one class at the community college.  The one class she took was psychology and she realized what she wanted to do with the rest of her life.  
• [10:07] She went to the Dominican Republic and worked in an orphanage for a week.  It was a life changing experience. 
• [11:22] She values all of her experiences because she has learned and grown a lot and she has helped a lot of people because of the things she has gone through.  
• [11:56] She has a true love of the outdoors which she credits to growing up on 8-10 acres as a child.  
• [13:08] Respect goes a long way.  Everybody wants to feel appreciated and respected.
• [13:47] One of the biggest things that stood out to Erin is the importance of working hard.  
• [15:19] Erin shares why she fell in love with psychology.     
• [16:14] Working in the Nonprofit Agencies was a lot of hard work, she learned a lot, and it laid the groundwork for what she is doing now.  
• [18:12] She shares that everyone that comes into therapy has some aspect of their life that they want to be different, so they have to do something different.
• [20:12] She realized that the more vulnerable that she became, the more vulnerable her clients became.  
• [21:25] Erin tells what it's like as a Day in the Life of a psychotherapist.  It is different since the pandemic because now she sees her clients virtually. 
• [22:52] At first the virtual meetings were hard for Erin because she liked sitting with people, but she is getting used to it now. 
• [25:35] Being a life coach opens up more doors for Erin to be able to do different work in different capacities and mix it up. 
• [27:14] In the next 5-10 years Erin hopes to be doing more speaking engagements and workshops. She is putting her hands in different areas and meeting new people to see what different doors open.   
• [29:45] She is working towards different credentials for life coaching.  
• [31:44] Erin is the Food Truck Queen of 12 Oaks and is excited to host more food trucks in the future. 
• [34:30] Erin met Jay online. They had an instant commonality because of their fur babies.  They met downtown at a restaurant and they hit it off.  
• [35:29] Erin and Jay like to stay busy, travel a lot, and have fun.  
• [36:47] She shares how there's never a dull moment hanging out with her boys.  They are full of life and always want to be on the go. They love their two golden doodles and their bernedoodle. 
• [38:50] Why did you choose 12 Oaks?  They have lived in 12 Oaks for 4 years. 
• [40:34] If you’re looking for resort style living with a lot of fun and different activities for all different ages 12 Oaks is your place to be. 
• [42:22] What are you most proud of?
• [43:23] If you had a do-over in life, what would it be?
• [45:04] In the closing chapter of your life, what would the work you’ve done say about you?
• [46:04] Is there a question I should have asked but I didn’t?

Links and Resources for Episode 19

• 12 Oaks Community Website
• Team Anderson Realty
• All About Erin Bircher:
  • Erin’s early years: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Leesburg,_Virginia 
  • Erin’s Higher Education: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/George_Mason_University https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Florida_International_University
  • InterAct: https://interactofwake.org
  • Erin, the Founder of her Business: https://www.foundations4change.com
  • Emotional PPE Project: https://www.today.com/health/mental-health-support-health-care-workers-emotional-ppe-project-more-t188246
  • The 3 Bircher 4-legged kids…Titan, Scarlett, and Brutus: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Goldendoodle
  • Erin’s 2020 Maggy Award - Cary Magazine’s Jan/Feb 2020 Edition: https://www.carymagazine.com/series/2020-01jan/

In this episode, we mixed it up a bit.  Instead of interviewing one neighbor, I am actually interviewing three neighbors. You may have seen these amazing neighbors on the cover and feature article in the “Meet your Neighbors” section of the March 2020 edition of the 12 Oaks Living Magazine, or getting their cajun, low-country boil on at the 12 Oaks, Club’s Mardi Gras Party, or hosting the end of Summer Slam at the Pond. One of these neighbors is also responsible for the daily “pee in your pants jokes” on the 12 Oaks Community Facebook page.  We also talk about insurance, relationships, jokes, hockey, sports cars, and of course Frozen 2.  

Ryan Wagner is a 3rd generation State Farm Agent. Ryan was born and raised in Dearborn Heights, Michigan.  Ryan is a trivia extraordinaire, enjoys playing golf, and is an avid runner. Katrina Wagner is the owner of Goosehead Independent Insurance Agency.  She was born and raised in Capac, Michigan.  At the age of 27, Katrina was a Dale Carnegie Instructor for seven years.  She has also been a music minister since 1995. Their daughter Ellorie started kindergarten this year and is all things Frozen 2. She can often be found cruising the neighborhood in her sports car. 

It was  great “Hangin’ Out with the Wagners.” They are a blast and a very special family.    

In This Episode:

• [03:19] Welcome Ryan, Katrina, and Ellorie Wagner. They are our 17th “P” in the pod[cast]. 
• [04:49] We have all come to love Ryan’s “pee in your pants” jokes on the 12 Oaks Community Facebook page.  
• [07:21] Ellorie, their soon to be six-year-old daughter loves all things Frozen 2 and driving her sports car around the neighborhood.   
• [08:45] Katrina had a great childhood and is one of three strong and capable girls. She is the baby of the family.  
• [09:21] Katrina shares all about growing up on a dirt road and riding around on her banana seat bike. Her parents were amazing gardeners and taught them to live by the earth. 
• [10:47] After high school she went to Japan as an exchange student. She shares this experience and it was a life-changing experience.  
• [13:13] Wendell connected with Katrina because he is also the baby of the family.  His mom was a major seamstress.  
• [13:49] Ryan had a unique early childhood experience living in a foster care home. 
• [15:24] Ryan learned how to skate and his parents signed him up for a hockey league at age 5.  He played hockey all the way through high school.  He played baseball for most of high school as well.  
• [17:32] Katrina shares about her new blog on Instagram called The Pretend Food Blog.  She started the blog to be a tourist in her own town.  
• [19:31] Ryan shares about the half marathon where he got to run out of the tunnel at Lambeau Field.  He was so proud of this accomplishment because he is not a natural long-distance runner.     
• [21:21] He has his eyes and feet set on conquering the Annual Walt Disney World half-marathon. 
• [22:01] Hard work, persistence, and giving back are Ryan’s top values.  Katrina shares the importance of investing in yourself and others.  
• [24:46] Katrina shares about the importance of being aware of what the people in your life need even if they can’t say it and showing up for them.   
• [26:34] Ryan shares about the hard work he put in at his first job at the golf club and how after a rough year it finally paid off. 
• [29:53] Ryan joined the Kiwanis Club and later became president.  
• [32:21] Ryan actually tried to avoid the insurance field at first, but then he realized the power of helping families with important insurance needs.   
• [33:33] Katrina became a small business owner right out of school and much faster than she had anticipated.  She is really passionate about owning her own business.   
• [35:27] In the class of 2012 Ryan received national recognition as one of the top 100 new insurance agents with State Farm.  
• [37:02] Ryan really focused on the people and processes in his business.  
• [38:58] Ryan’s learned it is important to hire for his weakness.
• [40:42] In order to be successful in business you have to create visibility and that leads to credibility and ultimately profitability.  
• [41:04] Katrina’s business philosophy is to surround yourself with people with like minds and like goals and be a part of their success.  
• [42:44] She engages with other people in a way that is intentional and genuine because ultimately it comes down to relationships.  
• [44:34] She is all about collaboration over competition.
• [45:16] Ellorie joins Wendell and shares that she likes math and reading best at school this year. She wants to be a dentist when she grows up.  
• [46:26] Katrina was the co-partner of the Summer Slam at the Pond.
• [47:59] The biggest benefit of the Summer Slam at the Pond was that people were able to get together and for just a few hours it seemed like it was back to normal. Another big event is coming soon. 
• [49:05] Ryan’s has always used humor to alleviate difficult situations. Some of his humor is sarcasm and got him in trouble growing up.  
• [50:32] Ryan is happy that his jokes bring laughter to the community during these difficult times.
• [51:58] Ellorie shares some of her own jokes.  
• [52:57] Ryan and Katrina share how they met online. 
• [54:46] Their first four dates were all within five nights.  Then Katrina shares her version. 
• [56:26] They share how they knew they were soul mates.
• [58:03] what’s it like hanging out with Charlie, their 6 ½-year-old Maltese dog.
• [59:55] Charlie watches TV too.  He goes on full bark mode if he sees any animals on the TV. 
• [62:05] Why did you choose 12 Oaks?   
• [65:11] The Wagner family has lived in 12 Oaks for a year now. 
• [66:36] What is your fondest, most memorable moment in 12 Oaks?
• [67:15] Halloween shortly after moving to 12 Oaks was a very fond memory for them. They are really looking forward to this year.  
• [68:42] Katrina, what are you most proud of?
• [70:57] Investing in young people and giving them fire and confidence is the number one thing she has done aside from being a great mom and wife. 
• [71:59] Ryan, If you had a mulligan in life, what would it be?
• [73:54] Katrina, when it is time to say farewell, what would Ryan be known for?
• [75:29] Ryan, when it is time to say farewell, what would Katrina be known for?
• [79:02] Katrina helps people find those talents they didn’t know they had, embrace them, and making them life long skills they use. 
• [80:24] What question did Wendell not ask that he should have?
• [81:37] The investment of time her dad made to drive her 90 minutes away for 12 weeks was huge for her.  The relationship between a father and the commitment he has to his daughter sets the tone for what kind of man will fill that role in her life in the future.  

Links and Resources for Episode 18

• 12 Oaks Community Website
• Team Anderson Realty

 All About Katrina Wagner:

• Birthplace: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Capac,_Michigan
• Education: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Northwood_University https://www.dalecarnegie.com/en
• Where Mrs. “Swagner” transformed the Children’s Choir: http://www.stvalentineschool.com https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=tF8iIeBoTK4
• eHarmony…The Tale of Two Perspectives: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/EHarmony
• Insurance Agency: https://agents.gooseheadinsurance.com/nc/raleigh/555-fayetteville-road

All About Ryan Wagner:

• Birthplace: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dearborn_Heights,_Michigan
• Education: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Detroit_Catholic_Central_High_School https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wayne_State_University
• Half-Marathons: http://www.cellcomgreenbaymarathon.com/half-marathon/ https://www.rundisney.com/events/disneyworld/disneyworld-marathon-weekend/
• CNBC…The Profit: https://www.cnbc.com/the-profit/
• Insurance Agency: https://www.statefarm.com/agent/US/MI/Livonia/Ryan-Wagner-KFZRD4M4BP5

In this episode, we meet a fraternal twin, a Minnesotan, a Californian, and a Halloween enthusiast.  She played the violin as a child and classical music is very calming to her. She likes baking, healthy cooking, art, yoga, walking, and listening to music.   This neighbor even considered changing careers to become a police detective. Who is this amazing neighbor? Listen in to find out all the details.

Amber Duerbig is a local Professional Dental Hygienist and has been in the dentistry field for 20 years.  She has the vision to bring neighbors together even during a global pandemic and she is the official founder of the 12 Oaks Golf Cart “Posse.” Amber was born in Rochester, Minnesota.  When she was six months old her family moved to the San Bernardino Redlands area of California where she grew up.  She and her sister are fraternal twins.  Amber has been married to her husband Billy for 14 years and they have two children.   

It was great getting to know Amber even more. We are so fortunate to have Amber as our neighbor. Be sure to join the Golf Cart “Posse” and watch for upcoming events. 

In This Episode:

• [03:47] Welcome Amber Duerbig our 16th “P” in the pod[cast]. She is the founder of the 12 Oaks Golf Cart “Posse” and a loca Professional Dental Hygienist. 
• [05:11] Amber and Billy have been married for 14 years.  
• [06:30] Amber shares about growing up in the San Bernardino, Redlands, Empire Area. She lived in California for almost her whole life.  
• [07:41] Halloween is more special than Christmas for Amber.
• [08:33] Amber likes baking, healthy cooking, art, yoga, walking, and listening to music. 
• [10:18] She believes in just trying to put out there what you want to get back.  It is very important to be honest as a friend and human. 
• [11:38] There is just so much noise around us and if we can just sit back, listen, and take one breath at a time that’s how I find my inner peace and happiness. 
• [13:05] She saw a lot of ugly and decided at a young age that she didn’t want to live her life with so much hate.  
• [14:19] In third grade she chipped her front tooth on the monkey bars and she went to the dentist and he fixed her tooth. 
• [15:46] Amber shares a typical “day in the life” as a dental hygienist. 
• [18:08] Amber just recently accepted a position in Holly Springs at Sunset Ridge Family Dentistry.  
• [20:45] Wendell shares a story about finding a poisonous snake in his yard one Sunday morning.    
• [22:34] Her dream since she got into dentistry is to be established with a dental office where she retires with the dentist.  She hopes to retire in twenty years.
• [25:12] Amber wanted to create a community connection where a couple of times a year people could volunteer their time, decorate their golf carts, do some fun stuff, and bring some smiles to peoples’ faces. This was the beginning of the 12 Oaks Golf Cart “Posse.”
• [27:39] The next Golf Cart “Posse” parade will be the day before Halloween.  
• [29:49] A neighbor Billy had never met before played with him in the Member Member Golf tournament and they ended up winning.   
• [32:05] Anyone that lives in 12 Oaks can become a member of the Golf Cart “Posse.” They currently have 202 members.    
• [35:08] Amber hopes other neighbors would continue the Golf Cart “Posse” tradition if they ever move. 
• [36:59] After high school, she hadn’t seen Billy in three years.  She was working as a dental assistant and he came in as a patient. At the end of the appointment, Billy gave her his numbers.   
• [39:20] In March of 2002 she went over to Billy’s house for a surprise dinner.  He was sleeping on the couch, but when he woke up she felt the electricity. 
• [41:03] They wrote letters every single day for six months while he was away at boot camp.  
• [42:20] Amber’s kids are the most curious kids in the whole world.  They ask questions all the time and they are super fun.
• [43:36] Why did you choose 12 Oaks?   
• [47:20] She loves that her kids get to grow up with the neighbor kids.   
• [48:58] What is your fondest, most memorable moment in 12 Oaks?
• [49:41] What are you most proud of?
• [50:13] Amber and her sister are fraternal twins.  
• [51:46] When it is time to say farewell, what would you be known for?
• [52:31] Which actress would play Amber Duerbig?

Links and Resources for Episode 16

• 12 Oaks Community Website
• Team Anderson Realty
• Amber’s birthplace: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rochester,_Minnesota
• Where Amber grew-up: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/San_Bernardino,_California
• Southern Cali: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Inland_Empire
• Amber’s Profession: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dental_hygienist
• Amber’s current employment as a Dental Hygienist: http://www.smilesofhollysprings.com

What does the largest outdoor swimming pool in the country, Portugal, the University of Rhode Island, and lots of golf have to do with 12 Oaks? Golf may be an easy connection, but you don’t want to miss this conversation including the question I should have asked, but didn’t. Do you know someone in the neighborhood that resembles Richard Gere? Tune in as we put these pieces together to learn about another 12 Oaks member. 

Ed Hanley is a PGA professional and our own general manager, right here in 12 Oaks.  At the age of 14, he started working at a golf course and immediately fell in love.  He has been a PGA professional for 20 years and a general manager for the past 10 years. Sports have been a part of his life for as long as he can remember and are responsible for his work ethic and business style.    

Ed was born and raised in Cranston, Rhode Island.  He is the oldest child from a proud Portguese family. They gather together each summer at his aunt’s house in Portugal to catch up with his family that are still living in Portugal.  After high school, Ed went to the University of Rhode Island. Ed is married to his wife Maclin and they have two children, but we can’t forget their four-legged 3rd child.   

It was great getting to know Ed even more. We are so fortunate to have Ed as our general manager and golf pro. Be sure to stop into the club and visit Ed.  

In This Episode:

• [02:24] Welcome Ed Hanley our 15th “P” in the pod[cast]. He is a PGA professional and general manager of 12 Oaks.
• [04:11] Ed and Maclin recently celebrated their 20th wedding anniversary. 
• [05:53] Ed shares about growing up in Rhode Island. 
• [06:11] His mother was from Portugal and his father from an Irish family.  He lived in a diverse neighborhood. It was a great way to experience life.  
• [07:49] His mother’s family is/was from San Miguel, Portugal.  
• [08:28] When you immigrate to a new country everyone has to stick together and that played a huge part in their family’s closeness.  Your bigger family is truly your entire family.  
• [10:07] When you recognize and see the sacrifice of what my aunts and uncles did by leaving, it truly empowers you to know that you can do anything.  There are no limitations or ceiling.
• [11:12] Ed enjoys putting smiles on peoples’ faces the most.  
• [11:02] His values and how he puts smiles on peoples’ faces starts with respect. You have to respect everybody.  
• [13:25] One of the most important things he learned was the value of hard work.  Once you are taking responsibility for something, you now have an obligation to work as hard as possible to deliver on whatever it was that you took responsibility for. 
• [16:01] His employment began at age fourteen when the golf course said they might as well put him to work since he was already there everyday.  His first job was as a weekend starter before they took tee times.  
• [17:05] He did very well and climbed up the ranks. He fell in love with the golf business.  
• [18:55] Ed was the men’s golf coach at Brown University from 2002-2007.  He learned a lot about managing and motivating as the golf coach.  
• [21:31] He loved learning from the players about their background, what motivated them, and where they were going with their lives.  It was a very enriching experience for him. 
• [24:15] Today is today, but how you work today is going to explain what you are doing tomorrow and the next day.  The better you are at what you do, the better the team performs.
• [27:26] He took the job at 12 Oaks to have a positive impact on all the departments and elevate the experience for the members of 12 Oaks.  
• [28:08] Ed shares a typical “day in the life” as a general manager at 12 Oaks.  
• [30:01] He is a golf guy and will always be a golf guy.  He loves the business of golf and golfers.  It is in his blood. 
• [32:41] Planning is a challenge at the club because of the pandemic and the unknown.  The focus now is safety.  
• [34:06] We really need to be creative in our thinking right now.  The pandemic is just another challenge. 
• [36:11] The pandemic has almost put a microscope over things, so we have to be good at what we do all the time.  
• [39:09] The advisory committee is the voice of the people.  Their role is to share what the people are saying so Ed can act on that.  He really enjoys making everything better.
• [41:17] Ed shares his fondest memories in 12 Oaks. He loved the reaction after the Fall Ball.  
• [44:08] He met Maclin at a club called The Elbow Room in downtown Providence. It was fate that they met, because it was a place that neither of them would have typically gone to. 
• [46:57] Ed shares about their two children, William and AnaClaire.  
• [47:45] Ed loves hanging out with his kids. William is serious and very to the point and AnaClaire is more on the fun side and enjoys laughing and enjoying life. They are very different from each other and they are both successful in their own endeavors.
• [49:19] They rescued their four-legged third child, AnaBelle. 
• [50:40] What are you most proud of?
• [52:01] If you had a mulligan in life, what would that be?
• [53:19] When it is time to say farewell, what would you be known for?
• [53:47] Which actor would play Ed Hanley?
• [54:18] What question should I have asked you, but I didn’t? 

Links and Resources for Episode 16

• 12 Oaks Community Website
• Team Anderson Realty
• Sao Miguel, Portugal (Family History): https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/São_Miguel_Island
• Ed’ s birthplace: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cranston,_Rhode_Island
• Ed’s All Male Catholic High School: http://www.olpseminary.com/history.html
• University of Rhode Island: https://www.uri.edu
• Where Ed and Maclin met - Images of the Elbow Room in downtown Providence: https://images.search.yahoo.com/yhs/search;_ylt=AwrEZ66EMDVf5GIAgAcPxQt.;_ylu=X3oDMTByMjB0aG5zBGNvbG8DYmYxBHBvcwMxBHZ0aWQDBHNlYwNzYw--?p=elbow+room+in+downtown+providence&fr=yhs-iry-fullyhosted_011&hspart=iry&hsimp=yhs-fullyhosted_011
• Ed as former Golf Coach at Brown University: https://brownbears.com/sports/mens-golf
• William’s High School: https://www.mccallie.org/about/welcome

We are changing things up a bit for our 14th episode.  For our lucky number 13 interview we are catching back up with a prior guest from Episode Two.  By a very popular demand,  I am talking with Rudy.  Rudy jumped on TALK OF 12 OAKS...THE PODCAST on January 21st, with a bang.   

Rudy grew up in South and North Florida.  In Episode Two, he shared about his amazing relationship with his Dad and how that relationship formed his views and decisions in all aspects of his life. Rudy is a serial entrepreneur and proprietor who has spent his life looking to better the world through food and reinvention. He’s been building his own businesses since he was 17 years old and continues to do so today. Learn all about Rudy’s journey from mowing lawns, to creating subscription-less cell service, to working in the restaurant industry. His interests are wide and varied and have served him well over the years. Rudy shares the impact golf has had in his life and how golf is a big part of his son’s life now too.  

Rudy is a guy who I view with having an incredible vision, a master of relationships building, a wealth of knowledge and experiences, and in the short time that I’ve known him, it feels like it’s been a lifetime. I still remember key words Rudy used during his interview, such as empathy toward people, true kindness, trust, and being sympathetic, while genuine.  I thought it would be a great treat for all of us, to catch up and hear where Rudy, Bernadette, and Nautico are today. 

In This Episode:

• [02:16] Welcome a returning guest, Rudy Theale, our 13th “P” in the pod[cast]. He is a proprietor and serial entrepreneur.  
• [03:22] Rudy is thankful for his family and health and cautious about the future during these uncertain times.  
• [03:43] Things were pretty tough the first month or two of the pandemic.  Nautico will be doing virtual schooling at the beginning of the year.  
• [04:56] Bernadette was doing about 275 themed trivia events prior to the pandemic.  During the pandemic she went to zero events, but it is starting to rebound.  
• [06:41] They were making masks as part of a project for their church. 
• [07:35] They sold over 700 masks and they loved the experience. They gave their remaining supplies to a friend that has carried on their special project.  
• [08:37] During this mask making project, Rudy said they felt like a combination of a Nike factory and Jimmy Johns.  
• [09:11] Rudy shares what COVID-19 has done to him and for him.  
• [11:12] He put a deal together and bought the Chubbys Taco brand and restaurants. 
• [12:40] Rudy’s goal is to have 7 or 8 Chubbys Taco locations in this area and then expand out to other areas.  
• [14:12] Rudy shares the progress of the Cut & Gather Project. The restaurant business is going to look much differently after COVID-19.  
• [15:58] The Cut & Gather Project is on hold at the moment, but Rudy is optimistic that they will be able to open at some point, but it may not be this year.
• [16:54] Unfortunately the “Cause for Paws” Golf Tournament didn’t happen.  The pandemic has affected many businesses and events. They are hoping to reschedule for 2021. 
• [18:16] The tough times have created the opportunity to rise above this and get through it. 
• [19:45] Rudy and his family moved to 12 Oaks in 2016. 
• [21:44] Rudy loved sharing a simple non-elegant holiday with his family.  
• [23:25] Rudy and Wendell start the conversation off by discussing personal growth and early values.
• [25:49] Learn more about Rudy’s relationship with his dad and its impact on his life.
• [28:49] Who is Rudy and what’s his personal brand?
• [29:22] He wants to continue to refine who he is. 
• [31:22] He tries to meet people genuinely and bring value to them.  
• [33:58] How entrepreneurship has changed Rudy’s life? He started his first business when he was seventeen years old. He personally had always been excited about creating something new. 
• [34:41] Smartfone (Tracfone) was his first real business.  
• [37:55] Rudy shares stories about working in restaurants and with amazing chefs.
• [38:22] He has learned that the restaurant business is a methodical and system business.  
• [39:04] An incredible chef can merge systems and creativity.   
• [45:09] Hear Rudy chat about his relationship with Bernadette and the glow she brings to his life.
• [46:57] Bernadette builds furniture from scratch, has an eye for design and is unique and unmatched.  
• [48:39] Learn more about Rudy’s family and his kids.
• [49:02] His son’s name, Nautico, was inspired by Rudy’s love of boating. 
• [50:17] Why did Rudy and his family choose to live in 12 Oaks? 
• [53:54] How has golf been an asset in Rudy’s life?
• [55:47] Rudy shares about Nautico’s involvement with golf. 
• [60:39] Rudy talks about his dog Dash, why he loves dogs so much, and his heroism. [61:05] Rudy fell in love with animals and especially dogs very early on in life.
• [63:12] Rudy works very closely with Cause for Paws of North Carolina.   
• [64:47] What is Rudy most proud of?
• [67:28] Would Rudy take a mulligan on any decisions in his life? 
• [71:35] When all is said and done, what will Rudy be known for?

Links and Resources for Episode 14...for additional links and resources regarding Rudy Theale, please check them out in Episode 2:

• 12 Oaks Community Website
• Team Anderson Realty
• https://chubbystacos.com
• https://www.facebook.com/AmericasThemedTrivia/ 
• https://www.thalesacademy.org

Darren is a Strategic Account Manager for Ernest Packaging Solutions, but that is not all.  He is also a Mental Performance Coach, and a college Division 1 Men’s Basketball Referee.  Darren was born and lived in San Diego.  At the age of nine, his family left the gorgeous weather of San Diego to take on Seattle, the “rain capital” of the United States. It was quite an adjustment, but Darren learned to appreciate the beauty of the Pacific Northwest. 

Darren’s love for sports started at a very young age.  He played both basketball and baseball in high school and continued playing baseball in college. After two semesters of college, his course changed and he joined the Navy. The Navy influence sparked a Darren that was more mentally tough with good habits and supercharged towards learning. So Darren returned to college and earned a Bachelor’s and later Master’s degree.  During Darren’s time in college, he was introduced to refereeing basketball first with little kids and then moving up to the college level.  After college, he entered “Darren’s World of Packaging” and worked for several Fortune 500 companies before finding his way to North Carolina.  Darren is married to Jen and they are proud parents of a son and daughter.  

We are so fortunate to have Darren, Jen, and the kids as neighbors.  This puts some finishing touches on completing our own little paradise right here in Holly Springs. By the way, if you are up for a pickleball game, Darren is your guy. 

In This Episode:

• [03:07] Welcome Darren Drake our 12th “P” in the pod[cast]. He is a Mental Performance Coach, a college Division 1 Men’s Basketball Referee, and a Strategic Account Manager with Ernest Packaging Solutions.
• [04:46] After two semesters in college, Darren joined the Navy.  
• [07:43] He shares about life growing up in San Diego and later Seattle.  His two favorite activities in San Diego were snorkeling and boogie boarding.  
• [08:17] It was a big change for him moving from San Diego to Seattle.  It took a few years for him to appreciate the beauty of the Pacific Northwest.  
• [08:56] Darren’s dad was achieving at a high level in everything he did and he instilled that same competitive determination and drive into him.  
• [09:44] He started playing sports at the age of five and especially loves basketball and baseball.  Now he loves to play pickleball.  
• [12:15] The Navy was an eye-opening experience for Darren.  He was in the Navy for 2 years.  
• [13:35] When he got out of the Navy he went to college. He had learned to go to class every day, sit in the front row, take notes as appropriate, and create a to-do list.  
• [14:28] His packaging career actually started with refereeing when he met the VP of Sales of a local company, at a referee camp. 
• [15:59] Darren has worked in packaging for twelve years.   
• [16:45] Darren shares about a typical day working as a Strategic Account Manager. 
• [18:27] In five to ten years, Darren would like to be in more of a leadership role.  
• [19:25] Mental Performance Coaching is training your mind. Mental Performance Coaching includes drills and strategies that help with your mental toughness, fitness, job, and more.  
• [20:35] He focuses on the 3 P’s of performance: positive mindset, present moment focus, and a process that helps you get closer to your long-term goals.    
• [23:01] Darren shares what it is like to be a Division 1 Men’s basketball referee. 
• [25:21] He does bodyweight exercises, bike riding, swimming, pickleball to stay fit for refereeing.  
• [25:49] John is currently a Referee in the Southern Conference, but he also referees some Division 2, Division 3, and junior college games.  
• [26:44] Growing as a Referee is just like anything in life. It is a lot of hard work, dedication, effort, and being in the right place at the right time. 
• [27:57] March Madness is a phenomenal experience because you have worked all year to get to that point.
• [29:01] All of Darren’s careers are connected and require him to be a professional at the top of his game and to be able to perform at a high level. 
• [31:11] Darren shares the fun story about meeting Jen. 
• [33:41] They celebrated their 10-year anniversary on April 10th. 
• [34:33] He shares about their pandemic 10-year anniversary story. Plans changed from their original plans, but it was a really special day.  
• [36:13] Darren’s nickname was Double D growing up.   
• [36:15] It is a phenomenal experience having our two kids. Deanna is super sweet, intelligent, and always has a book in her hand.  Dylan has a heart for animals and is a good athlete.  
• [38:25] Why did you choose to live in 12 Oaks?
• [38:55] Darren’s family has been living in 12 Oaks for a year now and they love it.  They have made a ton of friends and created a family here in 12 Oaks.    
• [39:49] Darren shares his fondest memories in 12 Oaks. 
• [40:25] The fundamentals of being a healthy human being are eating properly, sleeping, moving, and meditation.
• [41:18] What are you most proud of?
• [42:12] When it is time to say farewell, what would you be known for?
• [43:22] Which actor would play Darren Drake?
• [44:13] What would be a surprise that most people wouldn’t know about you?

Links and Resources:

• 12 Oaks Community Website
• Team Anderson Realty
• Darren moved to Seattle at age 9: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seattle
• Darren obtained his BA: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Western_Washington_University
• Darren obtained his Master’s Degree: https://www.gonzaga.edu/about/our-campus-location
• Ernest Packaging first East Coast facility: https://www.ernestpackaging.com/contact/raleigh-durham-north-carolina/ 
• Darren’s Mentor: https://briancain.com
• Deanna is accepted: https://www.wcpss.net/aig

John is an Enterprise Account Executive for RiskIQ, but is commonly known as “The Snake Guy”.  His love for snakes, and all nature and wildlife (except spiders) started very early on in life.  He was born and raised in the San Francisco Bay area and is a huge San Francisco 49ers and Giants fan.  John was always very adventurous and had many experiences including working with muscle cars, playing in pool hall tournaments, gambling, racing and free diving. 

His vacation plans often included opportunities to find and photograph snakes and he has found over 80 different types of snakes.  John also has a YouTube series called the “Snakes of 12 Oaks.” He enjoys educating people in hopes of calming their nerves when it comes to snakes. After leaving San Jose he briefly lived in Arizona and then moved to Hawaii for seven years.   After the “perfect date” he married his wife Kim and they are very proud parents of Wes.  

John is so amazing, adventurous, heroic, heart-warming, and intelligent. I’m honored to share his story with all of you.  We are fortunate to have John and his family as our neighbors.  There is a ton to know and love about John Worden. 

In This Episode:

• [02:38] Welcome John Worden our 11th “P” in the pod[cast]. He is an Enterprise Account Executive with RiskIQ. 
• [04:16] John spent a lot of time in the ocean when he lived in Hawaii and even dived with seven different shark species.  
• [06:58] He enjoyed growing up in the Bay area and said he had a great childhood with many fond memories. 
• [08:21] John shares about his youthful times working with muscle cars, playing in pool hall tournaments, gambling and racing.      
• [09:28] He spent 7 years on the island of Maui.  
• [10:03] In Maui, he learned a lot about how to read and understand people and earn his place on the island.  
• [11:44] John is very big into the nature, wildlife and the natural world around him.  
• [13:41] There is some fear involved with free diving. He shares a story where something dangerous almost happened when free diving. 
• [15:07] John was able to go on the Great White Expedition on Guadalupe Island and dive with sharks for 3 days. 
• [16:44] He has always tried to be a real genuine person and be true to himself.
• [17:14] He has always focused on curiosity around the world and people around him.  It is important to keep learning and be respectful.  
• [18:38] Through any job you have in life, you have an opportunity to learn about the basics.  It is super important to make strong connections.   
• [20:51] John shares about a typical day working as an Enterprise Account Executive. 
• [23:21] In five years, he sees himself wherever he needs to be to be successful and take care of his family.  For now, right where he is, is a great place to be. 
• [25:04] He has loved snakes since at least kindergarten and remembers a time when a  snake visited his class. 
• [26:32] His vacation plans would often include finding and photographing snakes.   
• [27:24] He has found over 80 different types of snakes.  He enjoys seeing the snakes in their natural habitats, photographing them and observing their life for a short time. 
• [29:49] He shares the amazing opportunity he had to visit tribal lands.    
• [31:21] Hawaii is a very delicate ecosystem.  
• [34:23] John has a YouTube series titled “Snakes of 12 Oaks.”  He credits the idea and videography to his wife Kim.  
• [35:40] The goal of the YouTube series is to calm the nerves of people when it comes to snakes.  He wants to help people feel comfortable in a neighborhood where snakes are going to be part of the environment.  
• [36:42] He believes he has been bitten hundreds of times by harmless, nonvenomous snakes.  He describes them as uneventful. 
• [37:58] John shares about the “perfect date”.   
• [42:23] John shares about his son Wes, known as “Mr. Wes.” He has absolutely loved watching him grow up and change.  He enjoys watching his thirst for life and knowledge. 
• [44:01] Their beagle puppy Jackson has been part of their family for almost a year. 
• [44:27] Having a beagle puppy and a toddler at the same time have proven to be one of the biggest challenges he has  faced in his life. 
• [46:31] Why did you choose to live in 12 Oaks?
• [47:02] John’s family has been living in 12 Oaks for 4 years and they love it.  They love how easy it is to make friends and build their network in 12 Oaks.   
• [48:22] John shares his fondest memories in 12 Oaks. 
• [50:29] He shares about his experience when Wendell treated his family like they had been friends for 20 years.  Wendell shares his perspective as well.  
• [52:24] What are you most proud of?
• [53:25] When it is time to say farewell, what would you be known for?
• [54:15] Which actor would play John Worden?
• [55:37] What would be a surprise that most people wouldn’t know about you?

Links and Resources:

• 12 Oaks Community Website
• Team Anderson Realty
• San Jose, CA: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/San_Jose,_California
• Maui, Hawaii: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maui
• “Haole” meaning: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Haole
• Free-Diving: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Freediving
• Great White Expedition/Guadalupe Island: http://www.greatwhiteadventures.com/guadalupe.html
• RiskIQ: https://www.riskiq.com
• “Snakes of 12 Oaks”: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l-9qjY3K9L8
• Matt Cain…PERFECT Game: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Matt_Cain%27s_perfect_game
• “Death to Smoochy”: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Death_to_Smoochy

Siobhan Carroll was born and raised in Bloomfield, New Jersey just outside of New York City. She is the middle of three daughters, born to Irish Catholic, New Yorkers.  Siobhan attended Catholic schools her entire life including Villanova University in Pennsylvania.  After one “ill-conceived semester at Seton Hall Law School” she moved to Washington, D.C.  During her 20 years in the DC area, her world changed, significantly.  14 years ago she married her husband Marc.  Marc and Siobhan are very proud parents of 3 daughters.  

I am intrigued by Siobhan’s ability to have a “pulse” on everything.  This interview was “waaay” too much fun.  She is so amazing, heart-warming, and smart too. I’m honored to share her story with all of you.  There’s no doubt in my mind that this will be one of those “edge of your seat” experiences, for all.  We are delighted to have Siobhan, Marc, and the girls as part of the 12 Oaks family, for the past 11 months and hopefully, many more to come.  

In This Episode:

• [02:01] Welcome Siobhan Carroll our 10th “P” in the pod[cast]. She has spent her entire life, developing skills in pursuit of proprietorship.
• [02:49] Siobhan has realized the formula to success is reading the customer right and leveraging the talents of subject matter experts.   
• [04:44] Lucky for all of us 12 Oakers, Siobhan, Marc and the girls moved to 12 Oaks 11 months ago.  
• [06:29] She was born and raised in Bloomfield, New Jersey and describes this experience as fun.     
• [07:44] She spent a lot of time on her bike and played outside until the lights came on.
• [08:37] Siobhan learned the value of education from her parents. 
• [10:34] She was instilled with the belief if you work hard, learn, and you continue to have curiosity about the world around you, you are setting yourself up for success down the line.  
• [13:24] She loved her time and had a blast at Villanova.  She is also a huge college basketball fan.  
• [15:28] Siobhan shares the story about when her and her friends camped out for basketball season tickets.  
• [18:08] Law school felt like the right path for her based on a number of things. 
• [19:14] For many different reasons, she decided to leave law school, start working at a temp agency and she never looked back.  
• [20:12] She had a variety of careers in her pursuit to proprietorship.  
• [20:19] In terms of the work ethic that was instilled in her by her family, it is hard for her to think of a time when she didn’t have a job.  Early on in her life she became the lawn mower of the family.  
• [21:12] In high school she transitioned from a well-loved babysitter to working at McDonald’s. 
• [22:21] During her time at McDonald’s she learned how to make delicious fries of course, but she also learned the basics of the customer service...needs and other skill sets that really helped transfer over to the rest of her career.  
• [24:26] The other thing she really learned at McDonald’s is how other people think and how their experience(s) wasn’t the same as her’s.     
• [25:45] Siobhan started waitressing at an Italian restaurant in Bloomfield.  The most fascinating people she has ever met have been chefs.  
• [27:44] She learned very early on when to let things roll off her back and when to push back and put her foot down.  
• [28:16] You will always come across people in your life who you don’t agree with, who don’t treat you well, who don’t like you, or who you don’t like and in some way you have to find a way to either get along with them or contain and move along in your life, away from those sort of folks.  
• [30:23] At Blackboard, Siobhan managed higher education accounts mostly in the states.   
• [32:44] She chose to move on from Blackboard and try some other things.  Her friendship with Sarah persisted and then she came back to Blackboard a few years later.  
• [35:36] Siobhan and Marc were not finding the new home they wanted and when they came to visit her sister-in-law and they decided to look around and found 12 Oaks.  
• [35:57] 12 Oaks has a lot that is very attractive as well as the high tension wires which made her feel right at home. 
• [36:48] Driving through 12 Oaks reminds her of the Truman Show.  It is a beautiful neighborhood with great amenities.  
• [37:16] Siobhan shares how she got into the Wine and Beer business.  
• [38:37] She loves that wine has the ability to bring people together.  
• [40:12] At the new member orientation back in August there were many people interested in forming a new, additional Wine Club. 
• [42:15] The Wine Club has been a great way to get to know people and a great way to get out of the house.  
• [43:24] She doesn’t like to complain, instead she likes to contribute something that is going to be constructive.
• [44:27] Siobhan feels that if she has a conversation with someone and has not learned something she has really missed out.   She has a curiosity around people, society, who we are and where we are going, plus a continued curiosity about how things work. 
• [46:25] Siobhan loves social media and feels like it is a great distraction.  
• [48:49] She does like new experiences, but she needs to feel a certain element of control.
• [52:04] Middle children are usually referred to as the diplomat, because you are usually between two strong personalities and are trying to negotiate and figure out how you can get what you want out of the situation.  
• [54:01] Being around people is what she needs, but she also tries to give it back as much as humanly possible.  
• [54:38] Siobhan shares the story about how her and Marc met.  
• [57:13] She loves hanging out with her girls a lot.  All three of them are curious and fun kids.  
• [59:04] One of the main things she has learned from her girls is their love for nature. 
• [59:53] Siobhan shares the story about their recent animal excursion at the farms. 
• [60:40] She hates snakes and has been blessed with Nora who is obsessed with all reptiles and amphibians.  
• [62:57] She shares about her love for cooking. 
• [65:09] When her first daughter was born she decided to buckle down and learn how to cook and she loved it.  She loves cooking baked meals and having people over.  
• [67:46] She loves exposing her kids to new things and they love helping her cook.   
• [67:30] What are you most proud of?
• [69:24] What would be a surprise that most people wouldn’t know about you?

Links and Resources:

• 12 Oaks Community Website
• Team Anderson Realty
• Bloomfield, NJ where Siobhan was born and raised: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bloomfield,_New_Jersey
• Irish Catholic New Yorkers: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Irish_Americans_in_New_York_City
• Siobhan’s 1st Job outside of home (post the newspaper route days): https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/McDonald%27s
• Middle child personality traits: https://www.rd.com/culture/middle-child-traits/
• Villanova University: https://www1.villanova.edu/university.html
• Silver Spring, Maryland: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Silver_Spring,_Maryland
• Blackboard: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blackboard_Inc.
• Just Fun Facts about Wine: http://justfunfacts.com/interesting-facts-about-wine/
• Siobhan and Marc’s 1st date: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dude,_Where's_My_Car%3F

It is hard to believe it is already our 10th episode and 9th neighbor interview. It was my complete honor to interview the Legendary Coach, Wes Moore.   

Coach Wes Moore was born and raised in Dallas, Texas. His mom raised him and his two older sisters.  He could be found playing whatever sport was in season until it got dark outside.  Then college brought him to the state of Tennessee where he earned his Bachelor’s and Master’s degrees.  He is married to Linda, a former Miss North Carolina contestant and absolutely the sweetest woman you would ever want to meet.  

Coach Moore was named the 4th Head Coach in the program history of the North Carolina State University, Women’s Basketball team on April 4th, 2013.  In his seven years coaching the Wolfpack women, he has achieved numerous accolades including a 73% winning record, 4 NCAA tournament appearances, and most recently Coach Moore led the NC State Wolfpack to become the ACC Tournament Title Champs.  This was the program’s first conference tournament championship in 29 years.  Prior to his time at NC State, Coach Moore racked up more stats as a coach in South Carolina and Tennessee.   Coach Moore has been a head coach for 31 years and 12 of those years received “Coach of the Year” honors including the 2019 Associated Press National Coach of the Year Runner-Up. He was the only coach in NCAA history, to take three different teams to a national tournament, at each NCAA level…Division I, Division II, and Division III.

I truly appreciated the conversation and hated to see it come to an end.  Coach Moore is such an inspiration. He is a powerful, articulate, and dynamic speaker. He taught me so much about him, his profession, and life in general.   We are delighted to have them as part of the 12 Oaks family for the past 7 years and hopefully many more to come.  

In This Episode:

• [01:34] Welcome Coach Wes Moore our 9th “P” in the pod[cast]. 
• [01:45] Coach Moore was named as the 4th Head Coach in program history, of the North Carolina State University, Women’s Basketball team, on April 4th, 2013. 
• [02:42] Most recently, Coach Moore led the NC State Wolfpack Women, to the 2020, ACC Tournament Title. This was the program’s first conference tournament championship in 29 years. 
• [04:47] Coach Moore has been a Head Coach for 31 years. He has 12 “Coach of the Year” honors and the 2019 Associated Press National Coach of the Year, Runner-Up.
• [05:04] Coach Moore was born and raised in Dallas, Texas. He earned his Bachelor’s and Master’s degrees in Tennessee.  
• [07:12] Coach Moore had a great childhood, his mom raised him and his two older sisters.  
• [08:36] He shares his motivation and reasoning for going to college.  
• [10:10] Coach Moore had a great influence by being around Pat Summit.  
• [11:27] The biggest influence was his mom made sure they were in church on Sundays. By being involved in the church, Royal Ambassadors, and sports his friends were all from families that have good values and created lifelong friendships.  
• [13:54] Coach Moore shares the story about the older gentleman walking along the beach, picking up things and throwing them in the ocean.    
• [15:24] Wendell shares about some of the teachers that made a huge impact on his life. 
• [16:39] Coach Moore pursued a career in coaching because he loved sports his entire life. 
• [17:37] Why did you choose to coach Women’s Basketball?
• [20:19] Coach Moore always tries to recruit character.  The off the court character needs to be something they want to bring in their locker room.  They try to recruit high character people that are going to work hard on and off the court.  
• [22:18] During the pandemic, we have been doing Zoom calls with recruits and parents.  We are also having weekly Zoom calls with the athletic department as well as with staff.  
• [24:42] As a head coach, where do you see yourself and your program in the next five to ten years?
• [26:30] Our team has a lot of momentum this year and a lot of things to be excited about as well as a lot of work to do.  
• [26:51] Our team had the opportunity to host the first and second-round games the last two years for being one of the top 16 seeds in the country. 
• [28:44] Coach Moore was the only coach in NCAA history, to take three different teams to a national tournament at each NCAA level…Division I, Division II, and Division III.
• [29:48] Coach Moore shares how and where he met Linda. 
• [32:22] What is a normal “day-in-the-life” of Coach Moore as the husband and Head Coach prior to this pandemic? 
• [34:42] Film watching is what consumes most of the basketball season from November  until March every night.  
• [37:16] Why did you choose to live in 12 Oaks? 
• [38:28] He loves the lot they chose and the view from the 14th hole.  
• [40:02] Coach Moore shares something that is true, but almost no one agrees with him about.  
• [42:00] What is Coach Moore most proud of? 
• [43:39] If you had a mulligan in life, what would it be and why?
• [46:28] The chancellor stood up for his team to be able to play in the arena.  Then they went on to win 12 conference championships in the next 15 years.  
• [47:34] Coach said, “One of these days someone is going to give me a chance, and when they do, I am going to make them look good.”
• [50:21] So many things have happened along the way and he can’t help but think how fortunate he is.  
• [50:39] When it’s your time to say farewell, what will Coach Moore be known for? 
• [53:02] What question should I have asked you that I didn’t?

Links and Resources:

• 12 Oaks Community Website
• Team Anderson Realty
• Wendie on Facebook 
• WML Wellness on Facebook
• Dallas, TX (Coach Moore born and raised) https://www.visitdallas.com
• Royal Ambassadors (Instrumental in Coach Moore’s development as a boy) http://www.royalambassadors.com
• Dallas Christian College (Coach Moore’s first year of higher education) https://www.dallas.edu
• Johnson University (Wes meets Linda – former Miss Martin County, NC) https://johnsonu.edu
• University of Tennessee-Chattanooga (Coach Moore’s 1st Division I Head Coach and 3rd Head Coach position) https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/University_of_Tennessee_at_Chattanooga
• Frances Marion University (2nd Head Coach position) https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Francis_Marion_University
• Maryville College (1st Head Coach position) https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maryville_College#
• Coach Pat Summit (Mentor) – Head Coach Women’s Basketball @ University of Tennessee and where Wes Moore achieved his Masters’ graduating with Honors https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pat_Summitt https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/University_of_Tennessee
• Coach Randy Lambert (Mentor) – Head Basketball Coach @ Maryville College https://www.mcscots.com/sports/mbkb/coaches/lambert_randy?view=bio
• North Carolina State University  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/North_Carolina_State_University