Self-respect, Self-determination, Self-esteem, Self-motivation, Self- pride, Self-love.. All these words Begin with Self..If we can not do or be these things for ourSELF, then we can NOT expect to get it from others...sometimes the fear of being by ourSELF makes us hold on to people we should let go of..but how can we build up all the SELF stuff if we are never by ourSELF..letting go of that fear will give us the strength we need to focus on SELF..and then and only then is it okay to goto OUR RESPECT. OUR DETERMINATION, OUR ESTEEM, OUR MOTIVATION, OUR PRIDE, OUR LOVE, OUR FUTURE