Talk Thirty

Breaking up is hard to do folks…no doubt about it. There’s no easy way around it. It’s hard for the person who chose to end the relationship, and it’s hard for the person who got broken up with. The truth is that even if you were expecting the breakup to happen, you can get completely blindsided by how hard your emotions hit you. The fact of the matter is that breakups are this hard because they are the death of something that was important to you. The pain you’re experiencing right now are feelings of loss, and can be compared to grief.

In this episode, Lauren and I dive into destructive and constructive ways of dealing with a breakup. Tune in and enjoy!

Hanging out with my brother, Stephen, talking modern dating. 

Stephen plugs The Banc Cafe in NYC. Official Instagram of Murray Hill's famous Banc Café is @ bancnyc. 

"If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay." - Oprah Winfrey 

“Your task is not to seek for Love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” — Rumi

Amanda Marit shares her journey from working in the corporate setting to building a thriving career as a Life & Business Coach.  She has worked with hundreds of women around the world to build up their confidence, create thriving businesses, and embody their highest selves.  

Books she recommended: 

Be sure to check her out on Instagram at @theamandamarit and her Podcast at The Illuminated Woman. 

This is a hilarious episode with two of my friends who started their own podcast, Healthy Scratches.  You can find them on Instagram at healthyscratchespod.  Be sure to check them out! 

 We touch on: 

- Life in the pandemic

- Navigating life in your 20's 

- Building your confidence 

- Modern Dating 

Lindsay and I talk about her experience navigating how she and her husband blended their families in the early stages of dating.  

We also touch on: 

- When do you introduce a significant other to your kid?

- How do you deal with your spouse's ex and their baggage?

- When/how is it ok to discipline someone else's, kid?

- What do you guys do as a couple that keeps those romantic embers burning?

- Do you believe love at first sight?

Please join Michaela and I as she talks about her family powering through adversity, women working in a male-dominated industry, and the life-changing decision around freezing her eggs. 

If you have any questions for Michaela, please Instagram direct message her at michaelaryan.  

Lauren and I catch up on her recent dating adventures as a follow up to my first episode.  We also touch on hot topics around relationship alone time and financial spending habits. 

"Alone time" keeps relationships healthy - says this article below: 

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/lifetime-connections/201803/alone-time-keeps-relationships-healthy 

Check out this article that highlights 5 tips for couples with different spending habits: 

https://www.dnainfo.com/new-york/20141015/astoria/5-tips-for-couples-with-different-spending-habits/

There is nothing to lose when it comes to my friends Gretchen & Anne's dating adventures.  They both share how they took their dating lives into their own hands by making that first move and putting themselves out there.  

Anne talks about navigating a long-distance relationship with her now-husband. Gretch talks about how she made up a fake bracelet in order to make the first move on the man who is also now her husband. 

Tune in to hear advice on how communication is the key to all relationships, love languages, and planning a wedding during a hurricane.  

If you are in need of expert help on architectural or interior design, Gretch is your girl.  Follow her at simplearrowhome on Instagram. 

Follow Anne's Instagram to see all her fun travel adventures at anne.m.hogarth.  Also, if you are interested in checking out her AMAZING wedding venue (castle) in Scotland, check out the Drumtochty Castle - https://www.drumtochtycastle.com/. 

Join Nick & Britt as they talk through their Ross & Rachel relationship.  "WE WERE ON A BREAK!"

- The infamous break(s)

- Married life 

- Is it normal for significant others to be friends with their ex's? 

- Managing friendships and relationships