In this first part of a two-part deep dive into role play, Tom and Isabelle unleash their inner beasts as they explore the raw and untamed world of primal play. From chasing, wrestling, growling, and clawing, to predator-and-prey dynamics, this kink taps into something ancient, instinctive, and deeply erotic.

What makes primal play so electrifying? Why do some people crave being the hunter while others revel in being the hunted? Tom and Isabelle pull apart the psychology, the thrill, and the boundaries that make this kink both exciting and safe.

Expect laughs, honest reflections, and a candid exploration of how letting go of “civilized” sex can create some of the most powerful connections.

Join us as we sink our teeth into the wild side of desire—this is just the beginning of our primal adventure, with part two coming next episode.

Connect to Spark (no its not an electrostim episode) , Tom and Isabelle get real about the role of connection in lasting relationships. Whether you’re in a long-term partnership, newly dating, or navigating the ups and downs of intimacy, connection is the foundation stone that keeps love alive.

No connection = No desire, No desire = No intimacy, No intimacy = NO KINK!

In this heartfelt episode, they share stories, insights, and practical tips on how connection shapes desire, trust, and intimacy and why it’s the piece so many couples overlook.

There is also a small cameo of 30 Days of Connection, the team's guided programme of curated daily activities, including some kink, that are designed to help couples reignite passion, rebuild intimacy, and rediscover each other, one day at a time.

If you’ve ever felt the relationship spark slipping, this episode will remind you how to find it again.

In this episode, Tom & Isabelle are stirring the pot with a little Vanilla & Spice. Discussing what happens when one partner is kinky and the other isn’t?

How do you navigate the differences without losing intimacy or connection? We’ll dive into the challenges, the joys, and the creative ways couples can bridge the gap between different sexual appetites.

And that’s not all—today we’re also tackling the big, brave step of coming out kinky. Whether it’s to a partner, friends, or even yourself, we’ll unpack the fears, the freedom, and the community waiting on the other side.

Honest, funny, and full of heart—this is one conversation you won’t want to miss.

In this revealing and witty episode of Talking Kinky, Tom and Isabelle explore the world of sissification — a kink that blends elements of feminization, role-play, and erotic power dynamics. With their trademark mix of curiosity, humour, and non-judgement, they unpack where fantasy meets identity, the psychology behind the practice, and how it plays out in both consensual kink and lifestyle choices.

From the allure of silky lingerie and stockings to the deeper emotional and psychological layers, the hosts cover safety, consent, and the importance of clear boundaries in sissification play. They also highlight popular online communities where enthusiasts connect, share, and learn — including FetLife’s Sissification & Feminization groups, SissyKiss, and Reddit’s r/sissies — showing how these spaces help people explore and express their kink in a supportive environment.

Whether you’re a curious newbie, an experienced player, or simply fascinated by the psychology of transformation, this episode offers insight, empathy, and a few laughs along the way.

I Wanna Be Your Panda

Furries, fluff, and full-on fantasies — in this episode, co-hosts Tom and Isabelle go whiskers-first into the furry fandom, uncovering what makes it such a fascinating and often misunderstood corner of the kink world.

From playful cosplay and anthropomorphic crushes to full-blown fursuiting and fursonas, we explore the blend of identity, community, kink, and comfort that defines furry culture. Why do some people feel most like themselves in a tail and paws? Where does the erotic element come in — and where does it absolutely not?

What’s the difference between being a furry and being into animal roleplay?

We look at the history of the fandom, its explosive growth online, and how mainstream media continues to get it mostly wrong — with a healthy dose of humour, curiosity, and cuddly panda references.

Whether you're a seasoned fur-tastic explorer, curious newcomer, or someone who just wants to know why Tom wrote a whole ska-reggae song about being a ⁠PANDA⁠… this episode is for you.References & Communities Mentioned:

• FurScience.com – Ongoing academic research project dedicated to studying the furry fandom

• FurAffinity.net – One of the largest online art and community platforms for furries

• r/furry on Reddit – A bustling online community where thousands of furries share, discuss, and connect

• Psychology Today: What the Furry? – Dr. Courtney Plante explores the psychology of furries and the media myths

• Anthrocon – One of the largest furry conventions in the world

• BBC: Inside the World of Furries – A documentary look at furry life and love

We’re kicking off Season 10 with a bang — or should we say, a boot — as Tom and Isabelle slide into the world of foot and stocking kinks. From silky nylons to wrinkled soles, this episode toes the line between fascination and fetish, with the usual mix of humour, warmth, and open-minded curiosity you’ve come to love from Talking Kinky.

Why are feet such a common turn-on? What is it about a pair of sheer stockings or a cheeky arch that stirs up desire? And how does one navigate foot play, from massage to worship, in a way that feels sexy, safe, and consensual?

Tom shares a rather memorable moment with a pair of hold ups, while Isabelle offers insight into why feet and legs are such a rich landscape of erotic potential.

Whether you're a seasoned sole-lover or just foot-curious, this episode is a playful and respectful journey into one of the most popular (and misunderstood) kinks around.

In this bold and revealing episode of Talking Kinky, Isabelle and Tom sit down with the extraordinary Colin Richards – intimacy coach, somatic sex engineer, and the man behind some of London’s exclusive sex parties.

Colin opens up about the intersection of power, pleasure, and presence, sharing his journey from therapist to sensual facilitator, and what it really takes to help people unlock their erotic potential in a safe, conscious, and playful way.

We discuss the art of creating exquisite group experiences, the dynamics of intimacy coaching, the importance of consent and somatic awareness, and what truly separates performative kink from embodied intimacy.

Whether you're curious about elite sex parties or looking to deepen your connection in the bedroom, this episode is packed with insight, real talk, and a few jaw-dropping stories.

Find Colin online:

Website: www.intimacymatters.co.uk

Instagram: @intimacymatters

In this thought-provoking episode, Tom and Isabelle discuss the state of sex education — or the lack thereof. They explore how porn has become the default sex educator for many young people, why pleasure, consent, and diversity are still missing from mainstream curriculums, and what a truly inclusive and empowering sex education could look like.

With humor, honesty, and a healthy dose of frustration, your favourite co-hosts examine the long-term effects of abstinence-only teaching, the role of parents, and how the digital age is shaping sexual understanding (and misunderstanding). They also share real-world examples, including the moving story of a rape survivor, to illustrate the importance of comprehensive and compassionate sex education.

Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussion of sexual assault, including the mention of a rape survivor’s experience, which some listeners may find distressing.

This week on Talking Kinky, Tom and Isabelle are diving lock-first into the world of chastity – where pleasure, power, and patience collide. Whether you're curious about caging the cock, padlocking panties, or just want to understand why anyone would voluntarily hand over the key to their orgasms… this one’s for you.

We explore the history of chastity devices (yes, they go way back), the psychology behind denial and control, and the kinky thrill of being locked up—with or without release. From long-distance key-holding dynamics to orgasm control in established couples, we're unpacking how chastity can be both torturous and tantalising.

Plus, we chat about the different types of devices for men and women, safety tips, hygiene (yes, please), and how to negotiate a chastity scene with trust and communication at the core.

Expect laughs, confessions, and more than one “blue ball” reference as we tease out all the juicy details of this fascinating kink. Who’s holding the key to your pleasure?

This week, Tom and Isabelle are getting handy as they dive into the wonderfully wide world of masturbation. From solo pleasure to mutual play, from women’s clit-orientated routines to penetrative fantasies, this episode unzips the myths, mess, and magic of self-touch.

Whether you're into edging, exploring your G-spot with toys, or jacking off with an audience on Chaturbate, this one’s for you. The duo discuss the rise of video-led guided masturbation, group play, kinkier turn-ons like being told what to do, and even some good old-fashioned 'me time' with your favourite imagination.

With humour, heat, and hard truths, they’ll cover:

• Clitoral, penetrative, and combo orgasms for women

• The psychological power of mutual masturbation

• Masturbation in long-term relationships

• Masturbation as kink (yes, watching counts)

• And why it’s totally normal to talk about it

Plus, your listener confessions, the latest research on who’s doing what and how often, and Tom’s attempt to explain “ruined orgasms” without blushing.

So dim the lights, charge your toys, and get ready to embrace the most loyal lover you’ll ever have: yourself.