Would you really want to know every sexual fantasy your partner has? Pippa is back...

This week on Talking Kinky, Tom and Pippa get into dangerous territory: the fantasies we have, the secrets we keep, and whether total honesty is always a good thing.

What if the person appearing in your partner’s fantasy is someone you both know? What if it’s your best friend? Is confessing that desire a sign of trust and intimacy, or the kind of honesty that can never be unheard?

Tom and Pippa debate where openness ends and oversharing begins, why fantasy doesn’t necessarily mean intention, and whether couples should have the right to keep part of their erotic imagination completely private.

And they’re not quite on the same page.

Some fantasies are exciting to share. Others might change everything. So… do you really want to know?

Is the foundation of your intimacy being sabotaged by your lack of effort to create a space for intention and connection?

In the opening episode of Season 13, Tom sits down with Pippa from Intimate Spaces to explore the fascinating intersection between interior design, intimacy, kink and self-expression.

We talk about what it means to create a space specifically designed for pleasure and play, from subtle, beautifully designed rooms where everything has a hidden purpose, to more adventurous spaces built around the things their owners genuinely enjoy.

Pippa shares how she approaches conversations that many people might initially find difficult or embarrassing, how good design can make intimacy feel more natural, and why creating an intimate space doesn't have to mean turning your bedroom into a dungeon.

It’s a conversation about design, desire, discretion and the freedom that comes from creating a space in which you can truly be yourself.

Whether you're simply curious, dreaming about your own private play space, or wondering just how far bespoke interior design can go, this is a fascinating way to begin Season 13 of Talking Kinky.

Discover Intimate Spaces:
https://www.intimatespaces.co.uk/

Talking Kinky, real conversations about kink, intimacy, relationships and the people who make this extraordinary world what it is.

Taryn helps Tom understand women’s pleasure in a bit more detail...

In this episode of Talking Kinky, Tom is joined by Taryn, a somatic sex and relationship coach and founder of Alive With Pleasure, to challenge some of the most persistent myths surrounding women’s pleasure.

Why are so many men taught to focus on performance rather than connection? Why is penetration so often treated as the main event? And how can couples communicate their needs without criticism, embarrassment or fear of ruining the mood?

Taryn explores the importance of slowing down, listening to the body and creating the emotional safety that allows genuine desire and pleasure to emerge. The conversation also covers lubrication, body shame, orgasm pressure, asking for what you want and why great intimacy is less about technique and more about curiosity, presence and communication.

An open, honest and deeply insightful conversation for anyone who wants to better understand pleasure, connection and the realities of women’s intimate experiences.

Discover Taryn’s work: www.alive-withpleasure.com/

Sexsomnia: When Your Body Has Sex While You're Asleep - Tom meets Lacey a living breathing Sexomniac.

What happens when your body becomes sexual while your mind is completely asleep?

In this fascinating and deeply personal episode of Talking Kinky, Tom sits down with Lacey, who lives with sexsomnia, a little-known sleep disorder that can cause people to engage in sexual behaviours while asleep, with little or no memory of the events afterwards.

Lacey shares her journey of discovering she had sexsomnia, the impact it has had on her relationships, the confusion and embarrassment that often accompanies the condition, and how she learned to navigate intimacy while living with a disorder that many people have never even heard of.

Together, Tom and Lacey explore:

• What sexsomnia actually is
• How it differs from sleepwalking and other parasomnias
• The challenges it creates in relationships
• Consent, communication, and safety considerations
• Common triggers and treatment options
• The emotional impact of living with a misunderstood condition

• The surprising science behind sleeping and sexual behaviour

This episode shines a light on a condition that sits at the intersection of sleep, sexuality, psychology, and human relationships. Whether you're hearing about sexsomnia for the first time or have personal experience with it, this conversation is eye-opening, educational, and surprisingly relatable.

As always, Talking Kinky approaches the topic with curiosity, humour, compassion, and a commitment to helping people better understand the wonderfully complex world of human sexuality.

Because sometimes the most surprising things happen when we're fast asleep. Lacey can be found here on Instagram

In this episode of Talking Kinky, Tom steps into the provocative world of the Mozambican professional dominatrix, Mistress Martina, for a raw and revealing conversation why her male clients love pain, humiliation, and domination. (Tom gets a provocative offer at the end of the episode, the question is will he take it?)

Together Tom and Martina explore the psychology, pleasure, and power dynamics behind BDSM, uncovering how trust, consent, and control shape some of the most intense fetish experiences. From dungeon realities to emotional transformation, this episode delivers an unfiltered look into the art of professional domination. It’s a cracker !

What really happens behind the velvet curtains of London’s high-society sex club scene?

With Isabelle out of commission for a while due to other commitments, Tom is going to be interviewing some special guests.

So, in this episode of Talking Kinky, Tom sits down with Jasmine to lift the lid on a world of elegance, secrecy, flirtation, and carefully negotiated desire. From cocktails and conversation to the rules of consent, safety, and discretion, Jasmine shares what it’s actually like to step into these exclusive spaces where sophistication and sexuality meet. Tom may even have a new wingwoman... if he ever frequents a sex club!

Expect curiosity, candour, a few laughs, and a rare glimpse into one of the most intriguing corners of kink culture.

Sleep Tight… or Do You? | Exploring Somnophilia

In this week’s episode of Talking Kinky, Tom and Isabelle explore one of the more controversial and often misunderstood kinks: Somnophilia, the fantasy of intimacy with a sleeping partner.

Handled with their signature blend of humour, curiosity, and honesty, the duo unpack what’s really going on beneath the surface of this taboo subject. Is it about vulnerability? Trust? Control? Or something deeper rooted in human desire and psychology?

As always, this isn’t about shock value, it’s about understanding.

Together, they explore:

• The psychological drivers behind somnophilia fantasies

• The crucial role of explicit consent and boundaries

• How fantasy differs from real-world dynamics

• Why taboo desires don’t automatically make someone “wrong”

• And how couples can safely communicate about sensitive kinks

Expect laughter, surprising insights, and a refreshingly open conversation that challenges assumptions while keeping things grounded and respectful. Tune in and join Tom and Isabelle as they shine a light on another corner of human desire, no judgement, just curiosity.

'Men Only': The Art of Desire

In this men-only episode, Tom explores the often-misunderstood truth about female desire: great sex doesn’t begin in the bedroom, it begins in the moments that come before it.

Introducing the concept of Core Play, Tom unpacks how everyday attention, emotional presence, and genuine connection throughout the day build arousal, trust, and intimacy with female partners. From small acts of care and meaningful communication to understanding the biological and psychological rhythms of desire, this episode re-frames intimacy as something cultivated, not requested at 10pm!

Blending humour, straight-talk, and practical insight, The Art of Desire offers men a powerful shift in perspective: invest in connection, and desire follows. Whether you’re in a long-term relationship, marriage, or navigating modern partnerships, this episode reveals how showing up differently can transform your sex life and deepen your relationship in the process.

Creampie & Breeding Kink - In this playful and provocative episode, Tom and Isabelle dive into one of the most searched and widely fantasised kinks: the breeding and creampie fetish. But beyond the shock value and taboo appeal lies a deeper psychological cocktail of intimacy, surrender, risk, and primal connection.

With their signature humour and curiosity, the duo unpack why the idea of “breeding” can feel intensely erotic for some, how it connects to trust, power dynamics, and evolutionary wiring, and why fantasy often plays a bigger role than reality. They explore the emotional layers, relationship dynamics, and communication required when partners want to experiment safely and consensually.

Expect laughter, candid honesty, and a thoughtful look at the difference between fantasy and practice, plus guidance on navigating conversations, boundaries, contraception, and consent.

Whether you’re curious, intrigued, or simply here for the ride, Breed Me Baby One More Time blends insight, irreverence, and real-world wisdom in the way only Talking Kinky can.

Aftercare whether its freaky or not, isn’t just a nice-to-have, it’s the glue that holds great kink, connection, and even vanilla sex together. In this laugh-out-loud episode of Talking Kinky, Tom and Isabelle dive head-first (and maybe a little too honestly) into the wonderfully messy world of aftercare.

From cuddles and check-ins to snacks, space, reassurance, and the unexpected ways people need care after intimacy, this episode explores why aftercare looks wildly different for everyone and why getting it wrong can feel just as intense as getting it right.

Along the way, Tom and Isabelle overshare (naturally), unpack real-life experiences, and highlight how emotional drop, sub-drop, and vulnerability can show up long after the fun is over. It’s educational, reassuring, and then… slightly unhinged by the end, with a finale that will definitely have you laughing out loud.

Whether you’re deeply kinky, kink-curious, or just wondering why you sometimes feel weird after great sex, this episode is essential listening.

Insightful. Honest. Freaky. And very, very funny.

Listener discretion advised… mostly because of the oversharing.