Talking Titos – Episode 8: Relationships, Culture & Lessons We Learned -- In this episode of Talking Tito’s: Chronicles of the Filipino American Experience, we get real about relationships the good, the messy, and the lessons that only time can teach.

Episode Description: Welcome back to Talking Titos! In Episode 7, Tito Mal and Tito Jo dive into the aftermath of a magical Chicago Bears season. From the heartbreak of that final field goal to the way the city unites when the team is winning, we break down why being a die-hard Bears fan is both a blessing and a curse.Then, we the talk about traditions, superstitions, and customs we grew up with in Filipino householdsWhy Vicks VapoRub is the "cure-all" for everything from allergies to cold feet.The real reason you never step over someone sleeping on the floor.The life-changing magic of the bidets#TalkingTitos #FilipinoAmerican #ChicagoBears #FilipinoSuperstitions #BidetLife #Podcast #PinoyPride

Welcome back to another episode of Talking Titos with your hosts, Tito Jo and Tito Mel.In this episode, we’re diving deep into the heart of Filipino culture: the legendary family party! Fresh off the New Year's celebrations, we discuss the "typical Filipino" struggle of cooking for 40 people when only five are coming over. From lechon and pancit to the sheer embarrassment of ever running out of food, we break down what makes a Pinoy gathering so unique (and delicious).We also shift gears to talk about lifestyle and health. Mel shares his experience with intermittent fasting—how he balances a 20-hour fast with hard Jiu-Jitsu training sessions and why it’s become more than just a routine, but a total lifestyle shift.

Join us in Episode 5 of the podcast as we dive into the messy, rewarding, and often hilarious world of parenting. In this episode, we share our own experiences—from the mistakes we made as young parents to the lessons we’re still learning today.In this episode, you’ll hear about:Our Parenting Journey: Personal stories about raising kids at different stages of life, from age 10 to 23.Mistakes & Lessons: A candid look at the "bad mistakes" we made and how they shaped us.The Gaming Balance: How to handle kids who just want to stay in the basement and game.The "Mat Time" Rule: Why physical activity and discipline are non-negotiable.

In Episode 4 of Talking Titos, we kick back and talk about everything from Thanksgiving chaos and old-school Filipino traditions to mahjong tables, Lola stories, and banana leaf cigars. We reflect on growing up Filipino in the Midwest, family gatherings, and the unforgettable characters that shape who we are.

The conversation flows into Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, gym culture, starting later in life, and why BJJ becomes more than just a workout—it’s therapy, community, and a lifelong bond. We also dive into Decatur family history, Filipino “handy” construction, small-town life, and the kind of lessons you only learn by doing things the hard way.

In Episode 3 of Talking Titos, Jo and Mel break down what Filipino Thanksgiving look like — turkey with gravy, lumpia that never reaches the table, pancit, lechon, and all the chaos of big Filipino families.

Episode 2 of Talking Titos is here! In this one, Tito Jo and Tito Mel take a trip back to the 80s and 90s and talk about what it was like growing up Filipino American during that time. From curio cabinets and giant wooden spoons, to husky pants at Sears, homemade outfits, Atari games, family traditions, Filipino food, and all the funny stuff our parents did — we cover it all.We also talk about raising our own kids today, keeping Filipino culture alive, and how different things look now compared to when we grew up. If you grew up in a Filipino household (or had Filipino friends), this episode is for you.Don’t forget to Like & Subscribe to support Talking Titos and Filipino American stories.

Two Filipino Americans from Chicago—Jo and Mel—kick off Talking Titos, a down-to-earth take on growing up Filipino in America. We swap stories about family, culture, and life lessons from the 70s to now.