Talking With Chivalry

As we all navigate through our very own journeys of life, some of us may come to realize that we are constantly searching for something. We may not know what it is and it may not reveal itself until later in our lives but we are unconsciously searching. In this post, I want to discuss the Three Ps which are finding your purpose, aligning yourself with your path, and to remain persistent.

Most people often wonder how some successful individuals go from having the bare minimum to having an abundant amount of content, wealth, and even experiences. Or how about how the individual seems to have become something that you are striving for overnight? Consistency is their key to this formation and with it, this plants the seeds of growth for their future.

Are you in a situation that is stressing you out but choose not to leave? Are you always looking for another opportunity but find ways to discourage yourself from making the transition? This is something I call becoming comfortable being uncomfortable. It happens to some of us but allow me to elaborate for a better understanding.

Today is not like yesterday, and yesterday is different from last week. Why, because you have been building a foundation for yourself. You have been creating something solid for yourself to stand on and this slab cannot be damaged by anyone else. This is what I say to myself every morning as soon as I awake so that I can shine before I rise. Allow me to elaborate on this thought method.

Society, while not entirely, can shape our minds and beliefs whether we want it to or not.  In this particular post, I am referring to how society can make one feel like quitting something is a symbol of giving up.  But what about the things that are hurting us, preventing us from growing, or even stressing us out?  Is that good for our mental state and spirit?  Allow me to share a few points in encouraging yourself to grow from the situation.

Have you ever felt that something or someone is draining the energy, life force, or the love out of you?  Do you feel like if you remove yourself from the situation that you would be considered a quitting or giving up?  Well in this post, I just want to provide and highlight an insight to a way of thinking.  Sometimes it is best to learn from the experience and let go than to let it draw your vitality.

During these times where people are resigning from their jobs, pursuing different careers, and even building their own brands for businesses in record numbers, I often ask myself, what makes one person motivated to do so and another not?  What made even me quit my job after 12 years and begin to pursue my vision?  So I researched myself and broke my process down in a way that I believe can be relatable to the majority of us.  That process is figuring out your destination, your vehicle, and your fuel.

Ever come across an idea, thought, or had a wish and thought that would be truly great for me to pursue?  Or even saw someone else pursing a particular line of work that always sought for yourself.  Did you act on it then and there or did you put it off until never?  These are the type of situations we should be preparing ourselves for when we should pursue opportunities when they may present themselves.

As I have gotten older and wiser, I have noticed that the more you give, the more that you will receive. This may sound cliché but I find it to be truer each and every day. By giving and providing value, we are putting ourselves within a position or aligning one’s self into an abundance of wealth.