Thomas Parham stated people of color should be cautious where they seek validation because seeking validation from the oppressor may lead to disaffirming and dehumanizing interactions. The invisibility syndrome may leave individuals with unmet needs which can lead to disconnection from others as well as themselves. There are strategies to work through this process of being seen and heard in ways that are affirming and validating. Tune into the podcast via www.talkingwithdrtoy.com.