Have you or someone ever made this statement after a conflictual interaction? "It happen, no need to discuss it further, let's just move on." Yes, that can be the ultimate exit strategy out of a disagreement, etc., but it may also breed resentment and more shallow and unfulfilling interpersonal interactions. According to Braham, "When we engage rupture, it can help us to understand and change our patterns of being in relationship" and help us to move towards repair. Tune into the podcast via www.talkingwithdrtoy.com