In this episode of Talks With Tonte, I sit down with Rasheeda Loves to discuss spirituality and the effect it can have on life and relationships. We discuss soulmates and twin flames, the meaning, the difference and how you can find out if you meet someone that fits one of the two categories.

Women proposing to men is an interesting topic. Leading on from the discussion I had with Fourens on women 'shooting their shot' with men, I decided to take it a step further and discuss everything around women proposing to their men.

I had LifeOfAls on this episode of Talks With Tonte to talk about the topic - do we agree with the idea of women proposing to men? We discuss the effect that a woman proposing to her man can have on their relationship, their wedding and their marriage.

This was definitely an interesting conversation here.

Link to LifeOfAls YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5VuruVrlafQAC_A8krW9oQ

'Securing the bag' is definitely a mood for 2018 and beyond. This can mean trying to progress to the highest level in our careers or trying to achieve our dreams in other areas such as business. There is a bag that's out there for all of us but it's all about taking the steps to get yourself out there to achieve it.

In this episode of Talks With Tonte, I talk to Stephanie Itimi about 'securing the bag', how we can look to monetize our skills, talents and platforms and leverage into further opportunities. We also talk about the power of collaborations and how this can allow us to succeed in what we are trying to do.

Link to Stephanie on Linkedin - https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephanie-itimi-9b981183/

To block your own blessings means: to self sabotage or get in your own way of good things happening in your life. This can happen in relationships, your career, your social life and in many other areas.

In this episode of #TalksWithTonte, SamFloating talk in detail about the ways in which we can block our own blessings in life and steps we can take to prevent this from happening to us in the future.

We cover topics such as self sabotaging relationships, going on holidays, starting new projects you feel strongly about, removing self doubt for your mind, helping others, shamelessly promoting yourself as a content creator and much more.

Link to SamFloating's Blog - https://medium.com/@samfloating

Valentines Day is a very interesting day for many different reasons. The race for some people to secure a date for the day is likened to the football transfer market in several ways, in this episode of Talks With Tonte, L.J and I discuss this comparison in detail and explain that the 'Valentines Day Transfer Deadline' is.

We go into detail about Valentines Day, is it that serious? What kind of situations can arise from the wish to have someone on the day. Laughter ensues.

Fourens and I discuss the concept of 'shooting your shots'. Over time we are hearing more and more stories of women sliding in the DMs of men and making the first step in approaching them, in the hopes of romance.

We talk about the idea of shooting your shot to a potential and the dynamic depending on whether the man approaching the woman first and when the woman takes the initiative to approach the man first.

Link to Fourens YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5SRG_bcqZahEg6RfT-g3vw