Father Iain Matthew OCD: "For prayer to blossom, be free, be detached, don’t be self-indulgent, be loving, don't be an egotist, be humble, don't think you're the greatest thing in the world, you know, for prayer to blossom. St Teresa's message in life is 'Don't wait to get to your lives together, don't wait to be loving, detached and humble, before you start praying. Enter into that relationship now, and see where God takes you.' So, love of our brothers and sisters, this isn't people pleasing or being hostage to our likes and dislikes. But loving without self-seeking, and she notes that people who love like that 'Do you think that such people will not love anyone but God?' She says 'They will love people much more than others do, and with a love that is more genuine, more feeling, a love that really does the other person good, in short there really is love. .. Secondly, detachment. This means not so much a 'no' to what attracts us as a 'yes' to the centre of all our loves. Well, she says, you will say no if you've got a bigger yes. 'So it's not so much a no to what attracts us, as a yes to the centre of all our loves. With determination the person embraces the good Jesus Our Lord. Since she finds everything there, she forgets everything.' And, thirdly and finally, humility which, if I put it thus, is the main one and includes them all …. Teresa is laying out a horizon, it's about prayer but it's also about life, and it is light. So we're saying here that she's encouraging us to live for them, to have that sense of mission, vocation, that Jesus is the one who is sent and we are the ones who are sent. Secondly and mainly, that the horizon, the one who sends is the risen Jesus Christ, and it's the anticipated power of His love that colours everything. Thirdly, if it's about relationship and if it's about mission, and not just about an exercise, then I really want it to hum, and for it to hum, then I've got to let my life be brought in tune, and so determination, and love and freedom and humility." For much more, visit Totus2us.com which is inspired by Blessed John Paul II and Papa Benedict XVI. Totus Tuus (All Yours) was JPII's motto to Our Lady. Totus2us is also dedicated to Mary.