Why Do I Have to Share?

In this episode of Tantrum of the Week, Lynn McLean explores a common and exhausting parenting moment: a four-year-old who melts down when a younger sibling picks up a toy they weren’t even using.

When screaming, grabbing, or pushing happens, parents are often left wondering how to stop the behavior and teach important lessons about sharing, generosity, and turn-taking. This episode explains what’s really going on beneath these sibling toy battles and how to respond in ways that actually help children learn.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why sharing is developmentally hard for young children
• What to do immediately when hitting or pushing happens
• Why teaching lessons during a tantrum doesn’t work
• How turn-taking helps kids feel secure and reduces meltdowns
• How true sharing grows when children feel they have enough

If sibling fights over toys are a regular struggle in your home, this episode will help you feel calmer, clearer, and more confident about how to handle them.

This content is for educational purposes only and is not therapy.

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A police dad says no to a sleepover without parents home, and a ten-year-old explodes. We show how to hold a firm safety rule, calm the storm, and offer choices that protect connection without caving.

• law enforcement as a distinct family culture shaping safety rules
• why tweens crave belonging and autonomy at sleepovers
• de-escalation first: pause, breathe, lower words
• reflect feelings instead of lecturing after a tantrum
• validate the loss while holding a clear boundary
• offer aligned choices: attend during supervision or host at home
• name your lens and your values without judging other families
• teach scripts that help kids navigate different house rules
• build trust through empathy plus consistency

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We unpack a real bilingual dinner blow-up and show how calm presence, simple scripts, and playful rituals can turn pressure into connection. We honor cultural pride while giving kids tools to switch languages without shame or meltdown.

• Co-regulation first: breathe, pause, ensure safety
• Reflect feelings instead of asking “why” questions
• Understand language switching as cognitive load
• Notice peer awareness and identity sensitivity at six
• Offer scripts: “Can I answer in English?” “What’s that word?”
• Shift from rules to rituals to lower pressure
• Use games, stories, and songs to embed Spanish warmly
• Repair briefly: acknowledge impact and plan a next step
• Normalize code-switching as flexible fluency
• Reassure parents: resistance signals bandwidth, not rejection

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Does your child melt down when it’s time to leave, stop playing, or switch activities?
Child therapist and parent coach Lynn McLean shares why transitions are tough for kids — and how to make them easier with empathy and structure.

Transitions can overwhelm children who struggle with flexibility and emotional regulation. This episode breaks down what’s happening and how to help.

You’ll learn:

• The brain science behind transition meltdowns
• Why sudden changes trigger big emotions
• How to use routines, countdowns, and visual cues to prepare your child
• Words and phrases that calm instead of escalate
• How to respond when meltdowns happen anyway

🎧 Listen for simple strategies that turn stressful transitions into smooth moments of connection.

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Tantrums, Transition Meltdowns, Child Behavior, Emotional Regulation, Parenting Strategies, Gentle Parenting, Play Therapy, Parenting Podcast

Thanks for listening to *Tantrum of the Week* with Lynn McLean, LCSW-S, Registered Play Therapist–Supervisor™.

New episodes each week to help parents understand and respond to their child’s biggest feelings with calm, confidence, and connection.

Learn more about play therapy and parent coaching in Houston, Texas: https://www.houstonfamilytherapyassociates.com/

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Does your child fight, cry, or explode when it’s time to do chores?
Child therapist and parent coach Lynn McLean explains why kids resist chores — and how to handle those “I don’t want to!” moments with calm, confidence, and connection.

Chores can trigger power struggles, but tantrums often mean your child needs more structure, support, or control.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why children resist chores and directions
• How to set warm, firm limits that reduce pushback
• Ways to build motivation and cooperation
• How play therapy principles teach responsibility without punishment

🎧 Tune in to learn how to turn chore time from a battle into a learning moment for emotional growth.

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Tantrums, Chore Tantrums, Child Behavior, Parenting Podcast, Gentle Parenting, Warm Firm Limits, Play Therapy, Parenting Tips, Emotional Regulation

Thanks for listening to *Tantrum of the Week* with Lynn McLean, LCSW-S, Registered Play Therapist–Supervisor™.

New episodes each week to help parents understand and respond to their child’s biggest feelings with calm, confidence, and connection.

Learn more about play therapy and parent coaching in Houston, Texas: https://www.houstonfamilytherapyassociates.com/

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When your child melts down at the grocery store checkout over candy, what should you do?
 

Play Therapist Lynn McLean breaks down the “no candy” tantrum and shares calm, practical strategies to handle public meltdowns with confidence.

Public tantrums are one of the most stressful moments for parents — but they don’t have to derail your day.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

• Why grocery store tantrums happen
• How embarrassment and pressure affect parent reactions
• What your child’s behavior is really telling you
• How to stay calm, set boundaries, and still show empathy
• What to do after the meltdown to help your child learn

🎧 Learn how to turn your next checkout-line meltdown into a teaching moment for connection and growth.

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Tantrums, Grocery Store Tantrum, Public Meltdown, Child Behavior, Gentle Parenting, Play Therapy, Parenting Podcast, Emotional Regulation, Parenting Strategies

Thanks for listening to *Tantrum of the Week* with Lynn McLean, LCSW-S, Registered Play Therapist–Supervisor™.

New episodes each week to help parents understand and respond to their child’s biggest feelings with calm, confidence, and connection.

Learn more about play therapy and parent coaching in Houston, Texas: https://www.houstonfamilytherapyassociates.com/

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Why do tantrums happen — and how can you stop them without yelling or giving in?
In this first episode of Tantrum of the Week, Play Therapist Lynn McLean helps parents understand what’s really behind children’s meltdowns — and how to respond with calm, connection, and confidence.

Tantrums aren’t just “bad behavior.” They’re a signal that your child’s emotions are bigger than their coping skills.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• The difference between tantrums and meltdowns
• What’s happening in your child’s brain and body
• Why traditional discipline often backfires
• Play therapy-informed tools to build emotional regulation
• How to respond with empathy and structure — not shame

🎧 Tune in to learn how understanding the why behind tantrums can transform how you parent during the hardest moments.

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Keywords:
Tantrums, Parenting Podcast, Child Behavior, Emotional Regulation, Play Therapy, Gentle Parenting, Parenting Tips, Child Development, Positive Parenting

Thanks for listening to *Tantrum of the Week* with Lynn McLean, LCSW-S, Registered Play Therapist–Supervisor™.

New episodes each week to help parents understand and respond to their child’s biggest feelings with calm, confidence, and connection.

Learn more about play therapy and parent coaching in Houston, Texas: https://www.houstonfamilytherapyassociates.com/

Follow us on Instagram: @lmcleanlcsw

Check us out on Facebook: Lynn M. McLean, LCSW

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