Tapped In: A JiuJitsu Podcast

In this short-form episode of Tapped In, we dive into the Tap Team Jiu-Jitsu event that we decided to do in order to mix things up. It was a blast to put on and I’m excited to see how I can develop this a bit further for our students.

What You’ll Learn:

* Why I Put It On

* The Rule Structure

* How It Was Received

One Quote to Reflect On:

"We don’t stop playing because we grow old; we grow old because we stop playing." –George Bernard Shaw

Hope you enjoyed the article and the audio companion. I’m looking forward to continuing a these. Both for the growth of Substack but also for own personal development.

Thank you,

David Figueroa-MartinezFounder, DFM CoachingCoach | Writer | Grappler

DFM Coaching is dedicated to helping you overcome mental hurdles and achieve your full potential in BJJ. Whether through in-person instruction, seminars, private lessons, remote coaching, or video analysis, I provide personalized support tailored to your needs. Keep pushing forward, and let’s grow together!

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In this short-form episode of Tapped In, we dive into the “Taps, Traps, and Drop Outs.” Covering some of the main issues that we have a sport along with suggestions on what we can do to fix it.

What You’ll Learn:

* Some Statistics

* What’s Causing The High Attrition Rates

* Perhaps Some Things That Can Help.

One Quote to Reflect On:

"Don’t be the reasons someone quits." – Me

Hope you enjoyed the article and the audio companion. I’m looking forward to continuing a these. Both for the growth of Substack but also for own personal development.

Thank you,

David Figueroa-MartinezFounder, DFM CoachingCoach | Writer | Grappler

DFM Coaching is dedicated to helping you overcome mental hurdles and achieve your full potential in BJJ. Whether through in-person instruction, seminars, private lessons, remote coaching, or video analysis, I provide personalized support tailored to your needs. Keep pushing forward, and let’s grow together!

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In this short-form episode of Tapped In, I discuss the passing of Danny Harvey, who was a friend and coworker. Danny’s passing has been difficult for us all, but I felt like I needed to express how the passing of this unique and compassionate man affected me.

What You’ll Learn:

* Who was Danny Harvey

* How It Affected Us

* How I’ve Been Dealing

One Quote to Reflect On:

“Grief is the price we pay for love.”— Queen Elizabeth II

Hope you enjoyed the article and the audio companion. I’m looking forward to continuing a these. Both for the growth of Substack but also for own personal development.

Thank you,

David Figueroa-MartinezFounder, DFM CoachingCoach | Writer | Grappler

DFM Coaching is dedicated to helping you overcome mental hurdles and achieve your full potential in BJJ. Whether through in-person instruction, seminars, private lessons, remote coaching, or video analysis, I provide personalized support tailored to your needs. Keep pushing forward, and let’s grow together!

🔊 EPISODE 1: “Why Tapping is a Skill, Not a Shame”

Rewiring how you view loss, pain, and quitting• Reframe tapping as a decision, not a defeat• Learn why pain is feedback—not failure• Discover how the tap protects your longevity and growth

🔊 EPISODE 2: “From Proving to Improving”

Outgrowing gym performance anxiety• Stop rolling to impress and start rolling with intent• Let go of fear-driven intensity and chase progress• Build quiet confidence rooted in awareness, not approval

🔊 EPISODE 3: “Respect Doesn’t Mean Submission”

How to train assertively and kindly• Stand your ground while being a safe partner• Hold standards when no one’s watching• Build a balanced training style—push hard, protect spirits

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In this short-form episode of Tapped In, we dive into the “Nobody Tells You This About Jiu-Jitsu, But They Should” post. We’ll cover the many unwritten rules and approaches that can make your experience within Jiu-Jitsu easier.

What You’ll Learn:

* Skill Over Belts

* Understanding Progress

* Coachability

One Quote to Reflect On:

"Not everything in Jiu-Jitsu is taught—some things you’re expected to feel, observe, and figure out in silence." – Unknown

Hope you enjoyed the article and the audio companion. I’m looking forward to continuing a these. Both for the growth of Substack but also for own personal development.

Thank you,

David Figueroa-MartinezFounder, DFM CoachingCoach | Writer | Grappler

DFM Coaching is dedicated to helping you overcome mental hurdles and achieve your full potential in BJJ. Whether through in-person instruction, seminars, private lessons, remote coaching, or video analysis, I provide personalized support tailored to your needs. Keep pushing forward, and let’s grow together!

🔊 EPISODE 1: “Why Tapping is a Skill, Not a Shame”

Rewiring how you view loss, pain, and quitting• Reframe tapping as a decision, not a defeat• Learn why pain is feedback—not failure• Discover how the tap protects your longevity and growth

🔊 EPISODE 2: “From Proving to Improving”

Outgrowing gym performance anxiety• Stop rolling to impress and start rolling with intent• Let go of fear-driven intensity and chase progress• Build quiet confidence rooted in awareness, not approval

🔊 EPISODE 3: “Respect Doesn’t Mean Submission”

How to train assertively and kindly• Stand your ground while being a safe partner• Hold standards when no one’s watching• Build a balanced training style—push hard, protect spirits

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In this short-form episode of Tapped In, we dive into the Mount position. What I use to trick my opponents into giving what I want. How I generate pressure and the various attacks that I love to torture my training partners with.

What You’ll Learn:

* Ways I Set Things Up

* What Submissions I’m Looking For

* Why I Love The Position

One Quote to Reflect On:

“The man who grasps principles can successfully select his own methods. The man who tries methods, ignoring principles, is sure to have trouble.”-Ralph Waldo Emerson

Hope you enjoyed the article and the audio companion. I’m looking forward to continuing a these. Both for the growth of Substack but also for own personal development.

Thank you,

David Figueroa-MartinezFounder, DFM CoachingCoach | Writer | Grappler

DFM Coaching is dedicated to helping you overcome mental hurdles and achieve your full potential in BJJ. Whether through in-person instruction, seminars, private lessons, remote coaching, or video analysis, I provide personalized support tailored to your needs. Keep pushing forward, and let’s grow together!

🔊 EPISODE 1: “Why Tapping is a Skill, Not a Shame”

Rewiring how you view loss, pain, and quitting• Reframe tapping as a decision, not a defeat• Learn why pain is feedback—not failure• Discover how the tap protects your longevity and growth

🔊 EPISODE 2: “From Proving to Improving”

Outgrowing gym performance anxiety• Stop rolling to impress and start rolling with intent• Let go of fear-driven intensity and chase progress• Build quiet confidence rooted in awareness, not approval

🔊 EPISODE 3: “Respect Doesn’t Mean Submission”

How to train assertively and kindly• Stand your ground while being a safe partner• Hold standards when no one’s watching• Build a balanced training style—push hard, protect spirits

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In this short-form episode of Tapped In, we dive into the “First Fight Jitters, What Happen When A Hobbyist Enter the Arena” post. We’ll cover my experiences during my competition days. The Highs of competing, what we’re actually pulling for, and how nasty the bathrooms will be.

What You’ll Learn:

* What To Expect

* What To Do

* What To Bring

One Quote to Reflect On:

"The first time you compete, you're not chasing medals—you're chasing nerve."— Anonymous

Hope you enjoyed the article and the audio companion. I’m looking forward to continuing a these. Both for the growth of Substack but also for own personal development.

Thank you,

David Figueroa-MartinezFounder, DFM CoachingCoach | Writer | Grappler

DFM Coaching is dedicated to helping you overcome mental hurdles and achieve your full potential in BJJ. Whether through in-person instruction, seminars, private lessons, remote coaching, or video analysis, I provide personalized support tailored to your needs. Keep pushing forward, and let’s grow together!

🔊 EPISODE 1: “Why Tapping is a Skill, Not a Shame”

Rewiring how you view loss, pain, and quitting• Reframe tapping as a decision, not a defeat• Learn why pain is feedback—not failure• Discover how the tap protects your longevity and growth

🔊 EPISODE 2: “From Proving to Improving”

Outgrowing gym performance anxiety• Stop rolling to impress and start rolling with intent• Let go of fear-driven intensity and chase progress• Build quiet confidence rooted in awareness, not approval

🔊 EPISODE 3: “Respect Doesn’t Mean Submission”

How to train assertively and kindly• Stand your ground while being a safe partner• Hold standards when no one’s watching• Build a balanced training style—push hard, protect spirits

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In this short episode I discuss my journey with how I deal with emotions and what I try model to my students. I also discuss the difficult week that we’ve had in the office after the passing of a friend and coworker.

What You’ll Learn:

* My Personal Story

* How Important Vulnerability Is

* How I Feel It Helps Others

One Quote to Reflect On:

“The best coaches don’t just correct your posture—they model presence. Vulnerability teaches more than any technique ever will.” -Unknown

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David Figueroa-MartinezFounder, DFM CoachingCoach | Writer | Grappler

DFM Coaching is dedicated to helping you overcome mental hurdles and achieve your full potential in BJJ. Whether through in-person instruction, seminars, private lessons, remote coaching, or video analysis, I provide personalized support tailored to your needs. Keep pushing forward, and let’s grow together!

🔊 EPISODE 1: “Why Tapping is a Skill, Not a Shame”

Rewiring how you view loss, pain, and quitting• Reframe tapping as a decision, not a defeat• Learn why pain is feedback—not failure• Discover how the tap protects your longevity and growth

🔊 EPISODE 2: “From Proving to Improving”

Outgrowing gym performance anxiety• Stop rolling to impress and start rolling with intent• Let go of fear-driven intensity and chase progress• Build quiet confidence rooted in awareness, not approval

🔊 EPISODE 3: “Respect Doesn’t Mean Submission”

How to train assertively and kindly• Stand your ground while being a safe partner• Hold standards when no one’s watching• Build a balanced training style—push hard, protect spirits

In this short-form episode of Tapped In, we dive into the “Increasing Our Rate Of Failure” post. I discuss my adventure into getting good at Mounted Armbars, and the amount of failure I had to endure.

What You’ll Learn:

* The Traits You’ll Develop

* My Journey Into Mounted Armbars

One Quote to Reflect On:

"The difference between the impossible and the possible lies in a person’s determination."— Tommy Lasorda

The Blog Post:

Thank you,

David Figueroa-MartinezFounder, DFM CoachingCoach | Writer | Grappler

DFM Coaching is dedicated to helping you overcome mental hurdles and achieve your full potential in BJJ. Whether through in-person instruction, seminars, private lessons, remote coaching, or video analysis, I provide personalized support tailored to your needs. Keep pushing forward, and let’s grow together!

In this short-form episode of Tapped In, we dive into the “The Lens I Use To Build My Game” post. We’ll cover my experiences, how being a bit picky helped me, and why I think it’s so important to understand you and how they connect to each potential technique.

What You’ll Learn:

* The Lenses I Use

* The Why Behind Each

* The Importance of Owning Your Identity

One Quote to Reflect On:

"One detail adjusted every roll beats one overhaul every year."-Unknown

Hope you enjoyed the article and the audio companion. I’m looking forward to continuing a these. Both for the growth of Substack but also for own personal development.

Thank you,

David Figueroa-MartinezFounder, DFM CoachingCoach | Writer | Grappler

DFM Coaching is dedicated to helping you overcome mental hurdles and achieve your full potential in BJJ. Whether through in-person instruction, seminars, private lessons, remote coaching, or video analysis, I provide personalized support tailored to your needs. Keep pushing forward, and let’s grow together!

In this short-form episode of Tapped In, we dive into the “Level Up Faster: What Camps Do That Cross-Training Can’t” post. We’ll cover my experience while at Rough Hands Bjj, how it helped me and why I think it’s a much needed experience if you can make it happen.

What You’ll Learn:

* My Personal Experience at Bjj Mental Models Camp

* Various Benefits for Students

* How It Helped Me As An Instructor

One Quote to Reflect On:

“As our island of knowledge grows, so does the shore of our ignorance.”– John Archibald Wheeler

Hope you enjoyed the article and the audio companion. I’m looking forward to continuing a these. Both for the growth of Substack but also for own personal development.

Thank you,

David Figueroa-MartinezFounder, DFM CoachingCoach | Writer | Grappler

DFM Coaching is dedicated to helping you overcome mental hurdles and achieve your full potential in BJJ. Whether through in-person instruction, seminars, private lessons, remote coaching, or video analysis, I provide personalized support tailored to your needs. Keep pushing forward, and let’s grow together!