Why does success fade so quickly? Why do promotions, money, relationships and possessions rarely deliver the lasting happiness we expect?
More than 200 years ago, German philosopher Arthur Schopenhauer argued that human life swings like a pendulum between the pain of wanting and the boredom that follows when desire is satisfied. Today, his unsettling philosophy appears more relevant than ever.
In this episode, Taylor Tailored explores how Schopenhauer’s ideas explain modern anxiety, burnout, consumerism, social media addiction, dating apps, endless comparison and the attention economy. We examine the science of hedonic adaptation, why achievements rapidly become normal, how algorithms keep human desire permanently activated, and why having more does not necessarily create a sense of having enough.
The episode also tests Schopenhauer’s pessimism against modern psychology, neuroscience and wellbeing research. Was he right that reason often serves deeper impulses? Can mindfulness create space between desire and action? Does solitude strengthen the mind, or does it risk becoming isolation? And can art, music, compassion and deliberate attention offer a genuine escape from compulsive striving?
Discover:
- • Why success rarely creates permanent fulfilment
- How hedonic adaptation moves the psychological finish line
- Why social media intensifies comparison and dissatisfaction
- How artificial intelligence could become increasingly effective at shaping desire
- Why dating apps make commitment more difficult
• The difference between loneliness and chosen solitude - How consumerism turns identity into an endless subscription
- Why boredom has become commercially valuable
- What Schopenhauer believed art and music could teach us
- How to pursue ambition without becoming controlled by it
Schopenhauer did not predict smartphones, TikTok or artificial intelligence. He predicted the human machinery these technologies would eventually learn to exploit.
This is not an argument against progress, wealth, relationships or ambition. It is an investigation into the difference between improving your circumstances and expecting them to permanently complete you.
The real question is not whether you should stop wanting.
It is whether every desire deserves to control you.
Listen now to discover why one of history’s darkest philosophers may offer one of the clearest explanations of modern life.