Lesson 7 of Teach Me How To Love You Better is here ladies and gentlemen! We have a very special lesson, and guest, to discuss a very important topic that you hear women speak on every day in their social lives and gossip columns. We have Mrs. Monroe Bishop of the T with Monroe Podcast here with us to discuss INTENTION. Intention has been the most used word among our women. And is often mentioned in debates between the sexes about what men lack. Monroe had a very interesting perspective to this conversation. And interesting enough, intention has something for men and women to play a part of.We discussed how intention doesn't just mean what you intend to do for another person. It has more to do with what your standards, morals, and character embody. How you will conduct yourself, despite your interests. It's more internal than most believe. She laid down quite a few ways she see the intentional behaviors of today's couples or daters. And from her views, she is not impressed with the men, or the women. So she gave a constructive criticism on her views of intentions, marriage, and dealing with broken people.Monroe and BJ had a great conversation that I'm sure you will enjoy. She talks from a very real place. And even shared personal accounts of how she met, dated, and almost divorced her husband Larry....who is also her co host of the T with Monroe Podcast. Tune in as she tells her story of how intentions actually saved her marriage!!

Welcome Ladies and Gentleman to Lesson 6 of Teach Me How To Love You Better. This is a very great lesson that discusses a sensitive subject that most women struggle with in silence. The uncertainty of attraction and desire can be very disheartening and depressing. And knowing this, BJ decided to find someone who understands the struggle, and can explain the details of this issue with dignity and respect.I was honored to have this conversation, titled Fetishes, with none other than Bad Ass Jones...former co host of Love, Lust and Bad Ass Soul Podcast. She has curated a new venture, called The Pum Pum Chronicles, that deals with the edgy subjects of sex, kinks, culture, education, and feminism. She brought all of those things with her. And with those things, came a phenomenal conversation about the women of size who are mistreated and misused in disgusting ways.Tune in as we discuss the imbalances and inequality of most relationships, the lack of male communication and transparency...as well as the detriment of fetishizing and shaming of women of size. How labeling can create insecurities. The types of men who are secretly attracted to these women, and how they reveal their true intentions and character by how they treat these women. It was very enlightening and detailed. AJ held no punches, and told us how important it is to treat our women like ladies, despite their differences. This was a much needed conversation. We can all learn a thing or two from this lesson!

Welcome back to Teach Me How To Love You Better. We are here with a very exciting lesson, and guest. Today's Lesson, which is Lesson 5, is titled Lead. We held this conversation with none other than Cherry Poppins, of The Officially Street Podcast, that she Co Hosts with alongside Syer and JayOmega. Cherry brought perspective to what it's been like for most women who date men today: and their lack of fluid communication.Despite the conversation being mostly centered around Communicating, LEAD was the most powerful word in the conversation (for it not to be the initial focal point). The conversation started with Cherry Poppins describing the process that is required when taking her on a date. She detailed how forthcoming you would have to be, in order to get from behind the phone to the dinner table. But simply having conversation is not good enough. She wants to see your effort, consistency, and intention. You have to make her want to go on a date with you. Despite the fact that may be exactly what you are talking about doing. She follows your LEAD, which is how the show titled became what it was. Based on how you LEAD off, is how she responds. In any way, shape, or form.Following a man"s lead has been a lost art to some, and Cherry truly believes it matters. And from this conversation, it clearly shows that leadership is what it takes to win her. And she doesn't care if you aren't up for the challenge. She is confident that somebody will be. But her tolerance and esteem will not change. We had an amazing conversation that i believe will help men and women of all ages. Tune in to Lesson 5 of Teach Me How To Love You Better!!!

We are here with a bonus episode of Teach Me How To Love You Better! Today's teacher is none other than Queen Poiison, a self published author and poet. She and I go a ways back. But we have also seen each other grow. So it has been a while since we have connected on audio. So, BJ took advantage of the opportunity that they were both in New York...to sit her down to discuss gender inequalities, in terms of communication. She brought an interesting point to the conversation that no one ever tends to consider in this communication debate."Can we COMPREHEND whats being communicated to us" ???We then begin to break down the various ways misinterpretation contributes to failed communication. We discuss techniques to help both men and women in comprehension. We even discuss how a wellness check benefits communication between men and women. This is a conversation that is loaded with so much jewelry, that I'm just gonna suggest you PRESS PRAY. Otherwise, this description would be an essay. This hour long conversation is packed with good conversation, and forward thinking communicative ideals. You will enjoy this!!!

Listen to Lesson 4 of Teach Me How To Love You Better...titled Shadow Work. You will enjoy this!

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Welcome to Lesson 3 of Teach Me How To Love You Better. This lesson is about Expansion. This gives men perspective on what is needed from them in the event that they encounter an independent woman. There are ways men can be very effective in love without being providers, protectors, and provision makers. There is room for men becoming something other than they have grown accustomed to be used for.This lesson was administered by Autumn Woodland, and old podcast friend who has just come into a sense of independence of her own in recent times. Just becoming a brand new homeowner, she has grown accustomed to providing and taking care of herself...but lately has found her sense of independence has appeared threatening to the men she comes across. So we discussed this, and so many other things.We talk about the idea behind needing someone. How we communicate our responsibilities for one another differently. We talked about how better communication is needed much more than being taken care of...because oftentimes both men and women are very capable to take care of someone else...but rarely know how to properly take care of themselves correctly. And lastly, realizing that gender roles can box you in...and actually destroy your concepts of how you care for someone. We as men and women learn that women don't always need men for their typical expectations women place on them. There is a dire need for things much more intimate and personal. so Autumn insists that you find unique ways to add value to a person who is equipped with potentially everything you may have to offer. A new way of saying "Step Your Game Up"!!!!

Ladies and Gentleman...Thank you for tuning into this amazing experience called Teach Me How To Love You Better! Today we are here with Lesson 2. And to give a fair warning...men definitely need pencils/pens and paper for this one. This conversation picked up where the last lesson left off. And it's HEAVY. I hope men and women are ready.Today's lesson is given to us by none other than Christal Clear, one of the elite women of color and podcasting. She has such amazing insight, profound wisdom, and the ability to see things very clear (hence the name of her podcast lol)...She provided the listeners a small compass for men to follow, in terms of giving women something that they so rightfully deserve....SUPPORT.Christal tackled support from such unorthodox angles, She encouraged men to take the backseat to and show your passenger capabilities while she steers towards her goals. She encourages words of encouragement and affirmation. She even convinces BJ that men could even afford to use their 5 senses completely different in terms of women. This was an amazing experience that BJ is sharing with the listener,Sit back and take in all of what Christal has to offer. Men and Women can benefit from this. Welcome to Lesson 2 of Teach Me How To Love You Better!!!!

Welcome to the very first installment of Teach Me How To Love You Better. This is a segment presented by Dergobj and Change The Subject. The purpose of this is to create a safe space for women to keep it real with men. But the beauty of this is that men are NOT being argumentative in this space. We are actually here to listen, encourage, and support our queens in a conducive way. And in turn, we learn something about the women we intend to love. Our first host is a queen by the name of Erica Butler. She has branded herself and a movement called The Brown Girl Experience. This woman is an incredible mind who shared so many things about herself, her sisters, and the honorable men she has encountered in life. We spoke on so many subjects...like her experiences with having a chronic illness called Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS). She talked dating men with a chronic illness, and how it effects her relationships with men. And then...we got into her constructive criticisms of men. Luckily for men...it wasn't as harsh as we thought.The focal point of Erica's views were centered around Identity. How men tend to place margins on women with various excuses and tactics that actually have nothing to do with them. She even addresses things that women do to women, in terms of identity. The conversation was very healthy and informative...and Erica does an exceptional job at getting her points across without making men or women feel uncomfortable or persecuted (which she also talked about as well)...There are so many great points in this hour long installment. I truly hope that the people enjoy this....and that this is a step in the right direction for reconnecting and communication between men and women. Without further ado...here is Lesson 1: Identity by Erica Butler "The Brown Girl"