We all want to raise responsible kids—ones who remember their tasks, help out without nagging, and grow into capable adults. But let’s be real: sometimes our own childhood baggage sneaks into the mix. Guilt, shame, and old expectations can make parenting feel heavier than it needs to be. In this episode, I share practical tools to help kids take ownership (no yelling required), some common missteps we all make, and how shifting from “you” to “I” statements can change everything. I’ll also open up about my own struggles in this area—and the small, powerful ways we can move forward with grace and connection. This one’s for every parent trying to teach responsibility without losing their mind. You’re not alone—and you’re doing better than you think. Mentioned in this episode: 🟡 aParently.community – Free articles and parenting tools 🟡 Schedule a free coaching session – Get clarity, confidence, and support 🟡 Related article: “Shut Up and Listen: Becoming the Parent Your Kids Can Talk To”