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In this solo episode of the Tell Her podcast, Sharni reflects on an unforgettable evening spent listening to live classical music and how it reminded her of all the hidden aspects of herself she has learned to embrace over the years.
From secret loves (like classical piano and quirky collections) to the courage it takes to enjoy things that don’t “fit the box,” this episode is an honest and calming reminder to follow your own joy, even if it looks different from everyone else’s.
Sharni also shares thoughts on the beauty of doing things alone, the power of choosing yourself in relationships, and why life is far too short to live for other people’s opinions.
If you’ve ever felt like you had to hide parts of yourself to fit in, this is your permission to let them shine.
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🔗 Listen now and let this episode inspire you to uncover, embrace, and enjoy the parts of you nobody sees yet.
00:00 Introduction to the Tell Her Podcast
00:13 Personal Update and Weekend Experience
01:01 Embracing Personal Joys and Hobbies
06:40 The Power of Solitude and Self-Discovery
08:35 The Importance of Individuality in Relationships
10:03 Final Thoughts and Reflections
https://ludovicoeinaudi.com/concerts/
ABOUT YOUR HOST — SHARNI KNIGHTON
I’m Sharni Knighton, the creator and host of Tell Her. I was inspired to start this podcast after meeting so many extraordinary ordinary women through my hair loss and wig clinic. I wanted to give these women a space to share their stories and help them realize that what they see as “ordinary” is truly extraordinary.
As an educator, I also train stylists in the hair loss industry around the world — and I’m passionate about showing them who these incredible women are. I believe you should only step into this work if you’re ready to truly help and connect with the women you serve.
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In this heartfelt and eye-opening episode of the Tell Her podcast, Sharni sits down with her longest-standing client, an extraordinary woman now 87 years young who has truly lived through it all.
Together, they explore her deeply personal journey navigating life alongside her beloved husband Ken, who was diagnosed with dementia. She speaks candidly about the broken care system, nearly losing their home to afford care, and the emotional toll of advocating for someone you love.
But her story doesn’t stop there. She also takes us back to her childhood during World War II, sharing memories of rationing, evacuation, and the strength it took to grow up in such uncertain times.
This conversation is a powerful reflection on resilience, love, and the importance of community. And spoiler alert it ran so long (and was so full of giggles and bloopers!) that we had to split it into two parts. Stay tuned for part two!
00:00 Introduction to the Tell Her Podcast
00:16 Life on the Move: From Hull to Kent
01:25 Settling Down for the Kids
01:43 Meeting Ken: A Love Story
02:08 Navigating Early Marriage and Career
07:58 Facing Dementia: Ken's Diagnosis
16:08 Challenges of Caring for a Loved One
30:50 The Struggles with Social Services
33:53 Exploring Care Home Options
35:02 Financial Struggles and Assessments
36:18 Social Services and Housing Issues
38:36 Systemic Issues and Personal Experiences
49:40 Reflections on War and Rationing
58:27 Advocating for Dementia Care
01:05:37 Challenges of Aging and Socializing
01:08:52 Struggles with Weekends
01:09:25 Coping with Loneliness
01:11:52 Cooking and Socializing
01:16:15 Reflections on Life and Regrets
01:22:11 Challenges with Dementia Care
01:27:57 Advocating for Better Care
01:40:00 Concluding Thoughts
🧠 What is Dementia?
🧬 Types of Dementia
ABOUT YOUR HOST — SHARNI KNIGHTON
I’m Sharni Knighton, the creator and host of Tell Her. I was inspired to start this podcast after meeting so many extraordinary ordinary women through my hair loss and wig clinic. I wanted to give these women a space to share their stories and help them realize that what they see as “ordinary” is truly extraordinary.
As an educator, I also train stylists in the hair loss industry around the world — and I’m passionate about showing them who these incredible women are. I believe you should only step into this work if you’re ready to truly help and connect with the women you serve.
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In this episode, we revisit Joe's journey since her last appearance. Jo opens up about her ongoing battle with cancer, the importance of self-advocacy in the healthcare system, and the crucial need for genetic testing in families with a history of cancer. She provides invaluable insights into navigating the NHS, understanding cancer markers, and the importance of molecular profiling. As Jo continues her fight, her cousin has started a GoFundMe campaign to access life-extending molecular treatment not available on the NHS. Host Sharni emphasises the need for awareness and the power of community support to make a meaningful difference. Don't miss this touching and informative episode, and find out how you can contribute to Joe's journey.
00:00 Introduction to the Tell Her Podcast
00:29 Updates and Personal Journey
01:10 Advocating for Yourself in Healthcare
02:17 The Importance of Awareness and Information
03:38 Personal Stories and Experiences
10:59 Genetic Testing and Family History
16:38 Targeted Treatments and Future Outlook
18:35 Understanding Complex Treatment Plans
19:38 Discovering Molecular Profiling
21:21 Challenges with NHS and Treatment Costs
22:38 Emotional Impact and Family Support
23:17 Advocating for Better Healthcare
24:23 Exploring Alternative Treatment Options
25:16 Reflecting on Quality of Life
28:02 Community Support and Awareness
32:17 Final Thoughts and Call to Action
Jo Go fund me page
https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-support-my-cousin-search-specialist-cancer-treatmemts
ABOUT YOUR HOST — SHARNI KNIGHTON
I’m Sharni Knighton, the creator and host of Tell Her. I was inspired to start this podcast after meeting so many extraordinary ordinary women through my hair loss and wig clinic. I wanted to give these women a space to share their stories and help them realize that what they see as “ordinary” is truly extraordinary.
As an educator, I also train stylists in the hair loss industry around the world — and I’m passionate about showing them who these incredible women are. I believe you should only step into this work if you’re ready to truly help and connect with the women you serve.
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In this episode of Tell Her, Jordan Cracknell shares her powerful journey from Wall Street analyst to children’s book author. With degrees from Baruch College and Cambridge, Jordan carved her path through the high-pressure world of finance, often one of the most male-dominated spaces there is.
She opens up about what it took to not just survive in that environment, but to thrive, without sacrificing her feminine energy. Jordan speaks candidly about learning to lead with grace and intuition in rooms where she was often the only woman, and how staying true to herself became her greatest strength.
We also explore the cultural differences between the US and UK when it comes to money, the importance of financial mentorship, and her new mission: inspiring young girls to feel confident with numbers through her book You Can Count on Penny.
This conversation is a celebration of resilience, self-trust, and the power of rewriting the rules in finance, and in life.
00:00 Introduction to the Tell Her Podcast
00:32 Meet Jordan Cracknell: From Wall Street to Finance Expert
02:00 Journey into Finance: From Event Planning to Investment Banking
04:19 Cultural Differences in Finance: US vs UK
05:43 Empowering Women in Finance
12:59 The Inspiration Behind 'You Can Count on Penny'
21:48 Navigating Male-Dominated Spaces
27:29 A New Chapter: Studying at Cambridge and Meeting Her Husband
32:01 Sarcasm in the Bible and Dumb Conversations
32:44 Balancing Motivation in Relationships
33:55 Traveling and Moving In Together
34:50 Wedding Planning Challenges
37:41 Financial Education and Budgeting
39:15 Navigating Financial Challenges in Business
41:10 Importance of Financial Education for Children
47:09 Women in Finance and Career Goals
53:49 Encouraging Financial Conversations
58:17 Final Thoughts and Social Media Links
Connect with Jordan Cracknell
Buy Count on Penny - Amazon
https://www.amazon.co.uk/You-Count-Penny-Jordan-Cracknell/dp/B0DDLGV1LH
Learn more about Jordan Cracknell
https://jordancracknell.com/
https://www.instagram.com/msjordancracknell/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/jconnell26/
ABOUT YOUR HOST — SHARNI KNIGHTON
I’m Sharni Knighton, the creator and host of Tell Her. I was inspired to start this podcast after meeting so many extraordinary ordinary women through my hair loss and wig clinic. I wanted to give these women a space to share their stories and help them realize that what they see as “ordinary” is truly extraordinary.
As an educator, I also train stylists in the hair loss industry around the world — and I’m passionate about showing them who these incredible women are. I believe you should only step into this work if you’re ready to truly help and connect with the women you serve.
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In this solo episode of the Tell Her podcast, the host Sharni Knighton, reflects on attending Mel Robbins' "Let Them" event in London and delves into the profound impact of the Let Them theory on both personal and family relationships. Key topics include allowing others to make their own mistakes, letting go of control, and the importance of personal accountability encapsulated in the 'Let Me' aspect of the theory. The host shares personal anecdotes about friendships, parenting, and the transformative power of releasing expectations. Join this introspective journey to understand how these principles can lead to more authentic and fulfilling connections.
00:00 Welcome to the Tell Her Podcast
00:23 Attending the Mel Robbins Event
00:48 The Let Them Theory
01:20 Tattoo Stories and Personal Reflections
02:43 Parenting and Letting Go
05:54 Friendship Dynamics and Realisations
08:53 Reconnecting with Old Friends
13:04 New Friendships and Personal Growth
17:21 The Let Me Theory
24:26 Concluding Thoughts and Future Plans
ABOUT YOUR HOST — SHARNI KNIGHTON
I’m Sharni Knighton, the creator and host of Tell Her. I was inspired to start this podcast after meeting so many extraordinary ordinary women through my hair loss and wig clinic. I wanted to give these women a space to share their stories and help them realize that what they see as “ordinary” is truly extraordinary.
As an educator, I also train stylists in the hair loss industry around the world — and I’m passionate about showing them who these incredible women are. I believe you should only step into this work if you’re ready to truly help and connect with the women you serve.
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In this enlightening episode, we sit down with Marie Nieuwoudt, Global Ambassador and Group Education Manager at CLOUD NINE, to explore the power of heat styling—and how it can be used as a force for good in hair care. With over 38 years in the hair industry and a deep passion for education, Marie shares her expertise on using heat safely, effectively, and inclusively.
We go right back to basics—because the truth is, many of us aren’t taught the foundational principles when it comes to styling and hair health. It’s often these overlooked basics that lead to damage or long-term issues. By understanding how heat really works, we can take a rounded, safe, and educated approach—empowering both professionals and clients to make healthier choices for every hair type and texture.
We also dive into how CLOUD NINE’s innovation, like their exclusive Revive Mode™ with Axial Vibration™ technology, is transforming the industry. Their commitment to creating tools that work for everyone—no matter the hair type or texture—shows how important inclusivity and care are to their mission.
This episode is all about working with brands you trust—and aligning with companies and stylists who share your ethos and values, so you can take care of your clients with confidence.
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00:00 Introduction to the Tell Her Podcast
00:13 Meet Marie from Cloud Nine
01:51 The Importance of Hairdressing
02:50 Understanding Hair Loss and Menopausal Hair
05:35 The Evolution of Hair Care
06:30 Heat Awareness and Hair Care
07:46 The Role of Consultation in Hair Care
11:15 The Science of Hair Care
30:01 The Importance of Proper Hair Washing
42:26 Cloud Nine's Kind Approach to Hair Care
43:26 A Wholesome Family Environment
45:00 Empowering the Next Generation
47:03 The Impact of COVID on Social Skills
48:58 Innovative Tools for Hair Care
51:01 The Art of Hair Styling
01:05:42 Embracing Change and Menopause
01:17:39 The Future of Cloud Nine
ABOUT YOUR HOST — SHARNI KNIGHTON
I’m Sharni Knighton, the creator and host of Tell Her. I was inspired to start this podcast after meeting so many extraordinary ordinary women through my hair loss and wig clinic. I wanted to give these women a space to share their stories and help them realize that what they see as “ordinary” is truly extraordinary.
As an educator, I also train stylists in the hair loss industry around the world — and I’m passionate about showing them who these incredible women are. I believe you should only step into this work if you’re ready to truly help and connect with the women you serve.
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In this episode of the Tell Her podcast, the host shares a deeply personal story of health struggles, spanning multiple misdiagnoses and significant chronic pain. She details her three-year journey battling symptoms that were initially dismissed as fibromyalgia and sciatica, but ultimately diagnosed as cauda equina syndrome. The narrative underscores the importance of self-advocacy in the healthcare system, spotlighting both the positive and negative interactions with healthcare professionals. The host concludes by expressing gratitude for the healthcare workers who eventually provided effective care, and emphasizes the importance of not comparing one's struggles with others, highlighting that everyone's experience matters. Despite the adversity, her story ends on a hopeful note as she recovers and returns to a fulfilling life.
00:00 Introduction and Podcast Overview
00:58 Personal Health Journey Begins
01:59 Struggles with the NHS
04:13 Misdiagnosis and Persistent Pain
05:20 A Year of Chronic Pain
07:47 Severe Symptoms and Hospital Visits
26:55 Pancreatitis Diagnosis
34:07 Fighting for Proper Diagnosis
40:14 The Worst Pain Experience
44:31 The Ambulance Crew Arrives
45:27 Struggling to Get Help
47:30 Desperate for Pain Relief
01:01:22 The Physio's Urgent Advice
01:02:53 Hospital and Surgery
01:12:56 Reflecting on the Journey
01:17:45 Final Thoughts and Future Plans
ABOUT YOUR HOST — SHARNI KNIGHTON
I’m Sharni Knighton, the creator and host of Tell Her. I was inspired to start this podcast after meeting so many extraordinary ordinary women through my hair loss and wig clinic. I wanted to give these women a space to share their stories and help them realize that what they see as “ordinary” is truly extraordinary.
As an educator, I also train stylists in the hair loss industry around the world — and I’m passionate about showing them who these incredible women are. I believe you should only step into this work if you’re ready to truly help and connect with the women you serve.
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In this episode of the Tell Her Podcast, we chat with Terri-leigh, a performance mindset coach, about the profound differences between coaching and therapy. Terri-Leigh specializes in working with individuals on their limiting beliefs and self-worth using the DEMARTINI method. We delve into the subconscious reprogramming needed to navigate life's challenges, highlighting how past experiences shape our current selves. Terri-Leigh shares insights on balancing emotions, handling guilt, and breaking free from societal expectations. This conversation is packed with valuable advice for anyone looking to transform their mindset and reclaim personal power.
00:00 Introduction to the Tell Her Podcast
00:40 Meet Terri-Leigh : Performance Mindset Coach
00:57 Understanding the DEMARTINI Method
01:21 Personal Growth and Limiting Beliefs
03:03 Therapy vs. Mindset Coaching
04:14 Parenting and Deserve Levels
09:27 Balancing Support and Challenge in Parenting
14:43 Identity and Personal Growth
26:37 Communication in Relationships
38:51 Understanding Grief and Personal Growth
39:51 The Power of Being Present
41:07 Balancing Emotions and Authenticity
43:23 The Role of External Support
45:03 Transforming Trauma and Pain
48:59 The Impact of Mindset on Physical Health
52:07 Identity and the Journey Through Treatment
55:54 The Importance of Self-Investment
01:00:17 Finding Purpose After Loss
01:05:10 The Value of Support Groups and Personal Growth
01:13:10 A Light Bulb Moment
01:13:38 The Power of Coaching
01:14:23 Understanding Trauma and Therapy
01:14:57 Owning Your Traits
01:16:03 Generational Impact and Family Dynamics
01:19:04 Communication in Relationships
01:27:15 Personal Growth and Career Transitions
01:31:50 The Importance of Self-Care
01:33:36 Final Thoughts and Contact Information
Connect Wit Terri-leigh
https://masteryourperformance.co.uk/book-a-call
https://www.tiktok.com/@terrileigh_liddle
ABOUT YOUR HOST — SHARNI KNIGHTON
I’m Sharni Knighton, the creator and host of Tell Her. I was inspired to start this podcast after meeting so many extraordinary ordinary women through my hair loss and wig clinic. I wanted to give these women a space to share their stories and help them realize that what they see as “ordinary” is truly extraordinary.
As an educator, I also train stylists in the hair loss industry around the world — and I’m passionate about showing them who these incredible women are. I believe you should only step into this work if you’re ready to truly help and connect with the women you serve.
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In this heartfelt solo episode of the Tell Her podcast, Sharni opens up about recent reflections on privacy, the shift away from chasing online validation, and the quiet joy of living more intentionally.
After sharing a glimpse into a spontaneous trip to New York with her daughter Molly, Sharni recounts a powerful story from their journey home, sitting beside a woman paralysed by an extreme fear of flying.
What unfolds is a moving reminder of the strength found in vulnerability, the power of choosing compassion over judgment, and the profound connections that can be made when we simply take the time to see each other.
This is an episode about holding space for others, even at 30,000 feet — and the beautiful, unexpected lessons that can come from it.
Timestamps:
00:00 – Introduction and Episode Overview
00:26 – Thoughts on Privacy and Quiet Confidence
01:22 – Cancelled Teaching Plans & Shifting Priorities
02:39 – Turning a Work Trip into a Mother-Daughter Holiday
04:10 – Meeting a Woman with a Deep Fear of Flying
08:04 – Holding Space: What Understanding Really Looks Like
18:44 – What the Experience Taught Me
28:41 – Final Thoughts and What’s Coming Next
https://www.sharniknightonacademy.com/
https://www.instagram.com/tell_her_podcast/
ABOUT YOUR HOST — SHARNI KNIGHTON
I’m Sharni Knighton, the creator and host of Tell Her. I was inspired to start this podcast after meeting so many extraordinary ordinary women through my hair loss and wig clinic. I wanted to give these women a space to share their stories and help them realize that what they see as “ordinary” is truly extraordinary.
As an educator, I also train stylists in the hair loss industry around the world — and I’m passionate about showing them who these incredible women are. I believe you should only step into this work if you’re ready to truly help and connect with the women you serve.
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In this profoundly moving episode of Tell Her, we sit down with Jo from Durham—a courageous mother and wife—who opens up about her journey after being diagnosed with cancer at the age of 53. Today, Jo lives with the knowledge that her cancer is now untreatable, and she’s been given just 8 months to live. Despite this heartbreaking prognosis, Jo shares her story with grace, humor, and an unwavering determination to make a difference.
She speaks candidly about the challenges she faced within the medical system, the frustration of having her symptoms initially dismissed as hormonal, and her mission to ensure other women are seen, heard, and properly diagnosed. Her powerful message is clear: Health Before Hormones.
Through laughter, tears, and raw honesty, Jo reminds us of the importance of self-advocacy, comprehensive health checks, and living life boldly—even in the face of unimaginable odds.
This episode is a tribute to Jo’s strength, her voice, and her unwavering fight to leave a legacy of awareness, courage, and hope.
00:00 Introduction to the Tell Her Podcast
00:24 Meet Joel: A Story of Resilience
01:33 Early Symptoms and Initial Doctor Visits
02:43 Struggles with Misdiagnosis
04:36 The Importance of Advocating for Your Health
05:55 The Diagnosis: Cancer and Its Impact
08:06 Navigating the Healthcare System
11:01 Raising Awareness and Fighting for Women's Health
12:43 The Emotional Journey and Family Support
14:37 Challenges with the Medical System
17:32 Exploring Treatment Options and Molecular Profiling
19:53 Balancing Awareness Efforts and Personal Life
22:50 Final Thoughts and Call to Action
46:27 Discussing Symptoms and Misdiagnosis
48:54 Genetic Factors and Family History
49:57 The Emotional Toll and Coping Mechanisms
52:29 Planning for the Future
54:11 The Impact of Chemotherapy
57:27 Navigating the Healthcare System
01:00:19 Advocating for Better Care
01:07:30 The Importance of Hope and Positivity
01:12:47 Final Thoughts and Reflections
Connect with Jo, and help her spread her message.
https://www.facebook.com/joanne.forster.52
https://www.tiktok.com/@jomarieart?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cholangiocarcinoma
Connect with Sharni on social media
Tell her podcast -
https://www.facebook.com/sharnisoul/
https://www.tiktok.com/@tell.her.podcast?_t=ZN-8w4edqAQRuA&_r=1
Hairloss education and wigs clinic
https://www.tiktok.com/@sharniknighton?_t=ZN-8w4ej410tUc&_r=1
https://www.facebook.com/Sharniknightonacademy/
https://www.instagram.com/mesh_integration_education?igsh=MXEyNXVhcHlvZ2E5dw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr
Websites
https://www.sharniknightonacademy.com/
https://www.sharniknighton.co.uk/
ABOUT YOUR HOST — SHARNI KNIGHTON
I’m Sharni Knighton, the creator and host of Tell Her. I was inspired to start this podcast after meeting so many extraordinary ordinary women through my hair loss and wig clinic. I wanted to give these women a space to share their stories and help them realize that what they see as “ordinary” is truly extraordinary.
As an educator, I also train stylists in the hair loss industry around the world — and I’m passionate about showing them who these incredible women are. I believe you should only step into this work if you’re ready to truly help and connect with the women you serve.
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Tell Her - Extraordinary Ordinary Women
In Tell Her, I sit down with inspiring women, many of whom I’ve met as clients in my hair loss clinic, to explore their incredible…
Our conversations shine a light on the resilience and strength of ordinary women doing extraordinary things. From navigating health challenges to surviving domestic abuse, undergoing treatments, and balancing work amidst adversity, these stories reveal the courage and wisdom that often go unnoticed.
Join us for real, raw, and uplifting discussions that celebrate the beauty of perseverance and the power of shared experiences.