Telling Our Stories

Bishop Michael and Andy take on three listener questions on forgiveness and confession (whether it's better to forgive or be forgiven, how to forgive someone while still drawing a boundary, and why Catholics confess their sins to a priest) and land on why forgiveness starts with humility and means letting go of the hurt, not erasing the consequences.

Episode Highlights:

00:31 - Andy tries something new, opening with three listener questions, including one from Sara, a pastor's daughter, on forgiveness and boundaries

03:49 - Andy's take on forgiveness as shedding the layers we pile on, and the bishop's case for starting with an honest look at a broken world

08:47 - Thirty years of hearing confessions, and the spouses who come in to confess each other's sins

10:26 - Forgive or be forgiven? Why it begins with asking for forgiveness yourself

11:57 - “Not transactional, transformational,” and why the dishwasher keeps coming up

15:08 - Sara's question on boundaries: forgiveness means letting go of the hurt, not the consequences, and what expelling students taught the bishop about that

19:23 - The monkey, the vase, and the date: what refusing to forgive actually looks like

21:14 - Why forgiving and forgetting are two different things

22:16 - Why confess to a priest? Hearing God's forgiveness through a human voice, and why the hard part is the point

30:20 - Why sin is the least creative thing in the human experience, the seal of confession, and a last word from Andy's dad

About Your Hosts:

Bishop Michael is a longtime friend and mentor to Andy, with more than three decades of shared history between them. A bishop known for his straightforward, often funny take on faith, he brings decades of pastoral experience, from teaching religious studies to serving as a first responder to his own community, to every conversation on the show.

Andy is a businessman, husband, and father who co-hosts This Should Be Good, bringing the questions real people are actually asking into conversation with Bishop Michael. Equal parts curious and irreverent, he keeps the conversation grounded in the everyday realities of work, parenting, and trying to keep up.

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What makes Christmas in Davidson one of the Lake Norman area's most beloved holiday traditions?

In this episode of Telling Our Stories, Josh Johnson of Regency on the Lake sits down with Kim Fleming, Economic Development Director for the Town of Davidson; Dylan Mott, Community Engagement Partner with Novant Health; Emily Abbas, President of the Davidson Rotary Club; and Ruth Olsen, former President of the Davidson Rotary Club to talk about the people, businesses and nonprofits that bring Christmas in Davidson to life each year.

What began as a way for local businesses to stay open a little later for holiday shopping has grown into a signature Davidson event welcoming tens of thousands of visitors. At the heart of the celebration is the Giving Tree Village, where 60 beautifully decorated Christmas trees help shine a light on local nonprofits and give visitors an easy way to learn about and support their work.

Josh and his guests share the history behind the event, how the Giving Tree Village has grown over the years, and the many ways local businesses, sponsors and volunteers help make it possible. They also discuss what's new for Christmas in Davidson this year, including an expanded footprint into Sadler Square with outdoor Christmas movies and more ways to experience downtown Davidson during the celebration.

For Josh, the event has also become a personal connection between his two homes. Originally from North Carolina's High Country, he now supplies the Christmas trees for the Giving Tree Village, bringing a little piece of the mountains to his new home in Davidson.

If you’re new to the Lake Norman area or planning your first visit to Christmas in Davidson, this episode offers a look at the community spirit behind one of the town's favorite traditions.

Christmas in Davidson takes place December 3–5, 2026 from 6:00–9:00 p.m. each evening.

Learn more about the Giving Tree Village and find ways to support participating nonprofits at: www.GivingTreeVillage.com

At Regency On The Lake, we believe that strong communities are built through meaningful relationships and organizations that make a difference. That's why we're honored to highlight leaders who are creating positive change throughout North Carolina.

👋 About Regency on the Lake: We specialize in luxury homes, waterfront properties, and second homes across North Carolina. Our mission is simple: build meaningful relationships and deliver exceptional results.

📲 Ready to find your dream home? Visit us at https://onthelakenc.com/ to explore luxury listings and personalized real estate services.

Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share for more episodes of Telling Our Stories Podcast, where we celebrate the people, places, and experiences that make North Carolina's communities unique.

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What does it really mean to bet on yourself?

In this episode of Telling Our Stories, Josh Johnson of Regency On The Lake sits down with Emmy-winning journalist, global speaker, and entrepreneur Molly Grantham for an honest conversation about taking risks and building community in North Carolina.

After more than two decades as one of Charlotte's most recognizable news anchors, Molly made the difficult decision to leave the career she had spent her life building and start something entirely new. She shares the story behind that leap of faith, the lessons she's learned along the way, and why authentic relationships matter more than ever.

Josh also opens up about relocating to Davidson after Hurricane Helene, how the move shaped Regency on the Lake's next chapter, and why community has always been at the heart of both real estate and life.

Together, they discuss:

• Why "bet on yourself" is more than a motivational phrase
• Building meaningful community in Charlotte, Davidson, and Lake Norman
• Entrepreneurship, leadership, and embracing uncertainty
• Parenting, mental health, and the importance of honest conversations
• The inspiration behind Molly's new community platform, The Wave
• What makes North Carolina such a special place to call home

At Regency On The Lake, we believe that strong communities are built through meaningful relationships and organizations that make a difference. That's why we're honored to highlight leaders who are creating positive change throughout North Carolina.

Learn more about Molly's community: https://betonthewave.com

If you're passionate about community service or simply love hearing stories of people making an impact, this episode is filled with inspiration and heart.

👋 About Regency on the Lake: We specialize in luxury homes, waterfront properties, and second homes across North Carolina. Our mission is simple: build meaningful relationships and deliver exceptional results.

📲 Ready to find your dream home? Visit us at https://onthelakenc.com/ to explore luxury listings and personalized real estate services.

Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share for more episodes of Telling Our Stories Podcast, where we celebrate the people, places, and experiences that make North Carolina's communities unique.

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Hosted by Josh Johnson with Regency On The Lake, this episode of the Telling Our Stories Podcast features Brandon Lindsey, Co-Founder of Dream On 3, and Alisha Hamel, Program Director, for an inspiring conversation about creating unforgettable moments for children and young adults living with life-altering conditions.

Dream On 3 is a North Carolina nonprofit that helps families experience one-of-a-kind sports dreams and life-changing opportunities, bringing hope, joy, and lasting memories to those who need them most. Brandon shares the story behind founding the organization, while Alisha offers an inside look at how Dream On 3 brings these incredible experiences to life through the support of volunteers, donors, athletes, and community partners.

Throughout the conversation, Josh, Brandon, and Alisha discuss:

• The inspiring story behind the creation of Dream On 3
• How the organization grants once-in-a-lifetime sports experiences for children and young adults
• The impact these dreams have on families, volunteers, and entire communities
• The role local partnerships and community involvement play in making each dream possible
• Why serving others creates connections that last far beyond a single event

At Regency On The Lake, we believe that strong communities are built through meaningful relationships and organizations that make a difference. That's why we're honored to highlight leaders who are creating positive change throughout North Carolina.

Learn more about how to support Dream on 3 through Regency On The Lake in theCarolinas Business of the Year competition: https://connect.clickandpledge.com/Organization/dreamon3/Campaign/regency-on-the-lake-cboy

If you're passionate about community service or simply love hearing stories of people making an impact, this episode is filled with inspiration and heart.

👋 About Regency on the Lake: We specialize in luxury homes, waterfront properties, and second homes across North Carolina. Our mission is simple: build meaningful relationships and deliver exceptional results.

📲 Ready to find your dream home? Visit us at onthelakenc.com to explore luxury listings and personalized real estate services.

Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share for more episodes of Telling Our Stories Podcast, where we celebrate the people, places, and experiences that make North Carolina's communities unique.

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In this episode of Telling Our Stories Podcast, host Josh Johnson of Regency On The Lake sits down with Kim Wayne, Head Coach of Davidson College Women's Lacrosse, and Gayle Fulks, Head Coach of Davidson College Women's Basketball, for a conversation about leadership, building championship culture, and the unique community that makes Davidson, North Carolina such a special place to live.

Gayle reflects on coaching Charlise Dunn, the first woman in Davidson College history to be selected in the WNBA Draft, while Kim shares the behind-the-scenes story of Davidson Women's Lacrosse's historic 2026 A-10 Championship season and the culture that made it possible.

Kim and Gayle share what attracted them to Davidson College, how they develop student-athletes on and off the court and field, and why relationships, character, academics, and community are at the heart of their programs. Josh and the coaches explore how Davidson College serves as an anchor for the Davidson and Lake Norman communities, creating opportunities for connection through athletics, education, and service.

Whether you're a sports fan, parent, prospective student, or someone considering a move to the Lake Norman area, this episode offers a thoughtful look at the values that define both the college and the town.

In this episode, you'll hear about:

• Building a culture of leadership, accountability, and excellence in collegiate athletics
• Gayle Fulks’ experience coaching Charlise Dunn, the first women's basketball player in Davidson College history to be drafted into the WNBA
• Kim Wayne’s inside perspective on the teamwork, resilience, and championship culture that propelled Davidson Women's Lacrosse to its historic 2026 Atlantic 10 Championship
• Developing student-athletes for success beyond competition through academics, leadership, and mentorship
• The role Davidson College plays in strengthening the Davidson and Lake Norman communities
• Why relationships and community matter in coaching, athletics, and everyday life

Visit https://davidsonwildcats.com/ to learn more and get your game tickets!

👋 About Regency on the Lake: We specialize in luxury homes, waterfront properties, and second homes across North Carolina. Our mission is simple: build meaningful relationships and deliver exceptional results.

📲 Ready to find your dream home? Visit us at onthelakenc.com to explore luxury listings and personalized real estate services.

Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share for more episodes of Telling Our Stories Podcast, where we celebrate the people, places, and experiences that make North Carolina's communities unique.

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West Jefferson Office | 336-846-2484 | 9 E Main Street PO Box 827

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Hosted by Josh Johnson with Regency On The Lake, this episode of Telling Our Stories Podcast features Saj Thakkar, Head Football Coach at Davidson College, for a conversation about leadership, community, college athletics, and what makes Davidson, North Carolina such a special place to live.

Coach Thakkar reflects on his first year leading the Davidson Wildcats football program and shares the values that shape his team: connection, toughness, character, and relationships. Josh and Saj discuss how Davidson College athletes are encouraged to serve the community, excel academically, and build meaningful relationships that extend well beyond football.

The conversation also explores how Davidson College plays an important role in the greater Lake Norman community through youth programs and community partnerships. They discuss the college's commitment to academic excellence, the new Game Changers Field House, recruiting student-athletes who thrive both in the classroom and in competition, and why Davidson continues to attract families looking for a strong sense of community.

Whether you're a Davidson College alumnus, a football fan, considering a move to Davidson, NC, or exploring the Lake Norman real estate market, this episode offers a closer look at one of the people helping shape the next generation of leaders in the community.

Topics Covered:

• Davidson College Football
• Coach Saj Thakkar
• Leadership and team culture
• Student-athlete development
• Davidson College community
• Lake Norman lifestyle
• Davidson, North Carolina
• College football recruiting
• Community involvement

Visit https://davidsonwildcats.com/ to learn more and get your football tickets!

👋 About Regency on the Lake: We specialize in luxury homes, waterfront properties, and second homes across North Carolina. Our mission is simple: build meaningful relationships and deliver exceptional results.

📲 Ready to find your dream home? Visit us at onthelakenc.com to explore luxury listings and personalized real estate services.

Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share for more episodes of Telling Our Stories Podcast, where we celebrate the people, places, and experiences that make North Carolina's communities unique.

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Davidson Office | 704-310-6699 212 | S. Main Street Suites 315 & 316

West Jefferson Office | 336-846-2484 | 9 E Main Street PO Box 827

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In this episode of Telling Our Stories, host Josh Johnson of Regency On The Lake sits down with Chris Baucom and Brielle Barozzini of 100 Strong Productions to discuss their powerful documentary, Rising Above Helene, which chronicles the devastation, resilience, and ongoing recovery efforts following Hurricane Helene in Western North Carolina.

As someone with deep roots in Ashe County and North Carolina's High Country, Josh shares his own family’s experience living through the storm and reflects on the lasting impact Helene has had on mountain communities across the region. Together, they discuss the making of the documentary, the challenges of telling these stories respectfully, and the remarkable strength shown by local residents, first responders, business owners, and community leaders throughout the recovery process.

The conversation also explores what makes North Carolina special, from the mountains to the Lake Norman and Charlotte regions, including the sense of community and warm hospitality that continues to define the state. Chris and Brielle share insights from their work documenting communities across North Carolina and discuss how rapid growth is shaping the future of the places we call home.

Most importantly, this episode serves as a reminder that recovery from Hurricane Helene is ongoing. While Western North Carolina remains open for visitors, many communities continue rebuilding, and supporting local businesses remains one of the best ways to help the region move forward.

Watch the full Rising Above Helene documentary here: www.risingabovehelene.com

Topics discussed:

• Hurricane Helene recovery in Western North Carolina

• The making of the Rising Above Helene documentary

• Ashe County and High Country communities

• Community resilience and rebuilding

• North Carolina culture and hospitality

• Growth and change across North Carolina

• Small-town communities and local businesses

• Life in the mountains, Lake Norman, and Charlotte region

Whether you are interested in luxury real estate in Lake Norman, relocating to Davidson, entrepreneurship in North Carolina, or community driven leadership, this episode of the Telling Our Stories podcast offers valuable insight into how people and place come together.

👋 About Regency on the Lake: We specialize in luxury homes, waterfront properties, and second homes across North Carolina. Our mission is simple: build meaningful relationships and deliver exceptional results.

📲 Ready to find your dream home? Visit us at onthelakenc.com to explore luxury listings and personalized real estate services.

Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share for more episodes of Telling Our Stories Podcast, where we celebrate the people, places, and experiences that make North Carolina's communities unique.

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West Jefferson Office | 336-846-2484 | 9 E Main Street PO Box 827

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In this episode of Telling Our Stories Podcast, host Josh Johnson of Regency On The Lake sits down with Courtney Spear, Manager of the Davidson Farmers Market, to explore one of the most beloved community traditions in Davidson, North Carolina. Courtney shares the story behind the Davidson Farmers Market’s growth from just a handful of vendors to nearly 50 local farms and food producers serving thousands of visitors each Saturday. She discusses what makes the market unique, its commitment to supporting local agriculture, the dedicated volunteers who help make it possible, and the role the market plays in fostering the strong sense of community that has made Davidson such a sought-after place to live.

Josh and Courtney also talk about:

• Why the Davidson Farmers Market has become a destination for residents and visitors across the Charlotte region
• The market’s “food-first” philosophy and support of local farmers
• Fresh produce, baked goods, flowers, meats, dairy products, and allergy-friendly food options
• Live music, local vendors, and the weekly bell-ringing tradition
• The Davidson Farmers Market Cookbook and the stories behind its creation
• How community events, local businesses, and the farmers market contribute to Davidson’s unique quality of life

Whether you are interested in luxury real estate in Lake Norman, relocating to Davidson, entrepreneurship in North Carolina, or community driven leadership, this episode of the Telling Our Stories podcast offers valuable insight into how people and place come together.

👋 About Regency on the Lake: We specialize in luxury homes, waterfront properties, and second homes across North Carolina. Our mission is simple: build meaningful relationships and deliver exceptional results.

📲 Ready to find your dream home? Visit us at onthelakenc.com to explore luxury listings and personalized real estate services.

Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share for more episodes of Telling Our Stories Podcast, where we celebrate the people, places, and experiences that make North Carolina's communities unique.

[email protected]

Davidson Office | 704-310-6699 212 | S. Main Street Suites 315 & 316

West Jefferson Office | 336-846-2484 | 9 E Main Street PO Box 827

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Welcome to Telling Our Stories, a podcast by Regency on the Lake, where conversations go beyond real estate and into the people, ideas, and communities shaping how we live.

In this episode, Josh Johnson sits down with Sharon Hirsch, President & CEO of the Positive Childhood Alliance of North Carolina to talk about something that impacts all of us, whether we realize it or not, the role we play in shaping childhood.

April is Child Abuse Prevention Month, but this conversation takes a different approach. Instead of focusing only on what we want to prevent, they explore what we can actively create. The focus is on Positive Childhood Experiences (PCEs), the everyday moments, relationships, and environments that help kids feel safe, supported, and connected.

Together, they break down what PCEs are, why they matter so much for long-term health and well-being, and how simple, intentional actions can make a real difference. From families and schools to neighborhoods and community leaders, this is about showing how prevention starts with connection.

This conversation dives into:

What Positive Childhood Experiences (PCEs) are and how they differ from adverse experiences

Why positive relationships and supportive environments are foundational for lifelong well-being

What’s holding communities back from making these experiences more common

Practical, real-world ways people can show up for children and families

The role everyday spaces like schools, sports, and neighborhoods play in shaping childhood

It’s a conversation that brings it back to something simple but powerful, creating safe, stable, and supportive environments isn’t just a family responsibility, it’s a community one. And whether you’re a parent, neighbor, educator, or just someone paying attention, you have more influence than you think.

Whether you are interested in luxury real estate in Lake Norman, relocating to Davidson, entrepreneurship in North Carolina, or community driven leadership, this episode of the Telling Our Stories podcast offers valuable insight into how people and place come together.

👋 About Regency on the Lake: We specialize in luxury homes, waterfront properties, and second homes across North Carolina. Our mission is simple: build meaningful relationships and deliver exceptional results.

📲 Ready to find your dream home? Visit us at onthelakenc.com to explore luxury listings and personalized real estate services.

Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share for more episodes of Telling Our Stories Podcast, where we celebrate the people, places, and experiences that make North Carolina's communities unique.

[email protected]

Davidson Office | 704-310-6699 212 | S. Main Street Suites 315 & 316

West Jefferson Office | 336-846-2484 | 9 E Main Street PO Box 827

In this episode of the Telling Our Stories podcast, host Josh Johnson with Regency On The Lake sits down with Liz Brigham, Executive Director of the Hurt Hub at Davidson, for an in depth conversation about leadership, entrepreneurship, creativity, and community building in Davidson, Lake Norman, and the greater North Carolina region.

Liz shares insight into the mission of the Hurt Hub at Davidson, an innovation and entrepreneurship center dedicated to supporting founders, small businesses, creatives, and emerging leaders. Josh and Liz discuss how imagination, mentorship, and collaboration help transform ideas into lasting impact, and why intentional leadership plays a critical role in building strong communities and successful businesses.

Throughout the conversation, Liz reflects on her work connecting entrepreneurs and creatives across North Carolina, including her involvement with the Confluence Music Conference, a gathering that brings together artists, innovators, and community leaders. They explore how music, creativity, and storytelling contribute to vibrant local culture and economic growth, especially in towns like Davidson that value both tradition and forward-thinking development.

Josh brings the perspective of a luxury real estate broker serving Lake Norman, Davidson, Cornelius, and the North Carolina High Country, connecting the conversation back to place, lifestyle, and why people choose to live and invest in communities that prioritize creativity, walkability, and authentic relationships. The episode highlights why areas like Lake Norman continue to attract entrepreneurs and families seeking a high quality of life and a strong sense of community.

In this episode, you will learn more about:

1. The Hurt Hub at Davidson and its role in entrepreneurship and innovation
2. Leadership, creativity, and imagination in business and community growth
3. The impact of the Confluence Music Conference on creative culture
4. Living and working in Davidson and the Lake Norman real estate market
5. How community focused development supports long-term value

Whether you are interested in luxury real estate in Lake Norman, relocating to Davidson, entrepreneurship in North Carolina, or community driven leadership, this episode of the Telling Our Stories podcast offers valuable insight into how people and place come together.

👋 About Regency on the Lake: We specialize in luxury homes, waterfront properties, and second homes across North Carolina. Our mission is simple: build meaningful relationships and deliver exceptional results.

📲 Ready to find your dream home? Visit us at onthelakenc.com to explore luxury listings and personalized real estate services.

Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share for more episodes of Telling Our Stories Podcast, where we celebrate the people, places, and experiences that make North Carolina's communities unique.

[email protected]

Davidson Office | 704-310-6699 212 | S. Main Street Suites 315 & 316

West Jefferson Office | 336-846-2484 | 9 E Main Street PO Box 827

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