If you lead development work and you're tired of the grind, this nonprofit fundraising podcast episode is for you. Fundraising doesn't have to feel heavy. It can feel like joy.
In this episode, host Max Kringen sits down with Tesha McCord Poe, founder of Joy Raising, for a candid conversation about joyful fundraising, inclusive philanthropy, and donor engagement that actually builds relationships. 💛
Tesha is a former lawyer, banker, journalist, and chief advancement officer who now coaches leaders to raise more money with more people and more joy. She unpacks boundaries, belonging, ego, and the moment she realized she was excluding herself from the ask. ✨
You'll Learn
By the end, you'll know how to:
- Reframe fundraising as a relationship practice, not a performance
- Stop excusing yourself from asks where you belong in the room
- Build boundaries that protect your wellbeing and your team
- Prepare well enough to walk in with honest confidence
- Find points of connection with donors beyond wealth or status
- Choose joy as a daily, practiced leadership muscle
- Lead with courage even when the work feels heavy
Key Quote Highlights:
"If you have the capacity for joy right now, don't you dare keep it to yourself."
"Boundaries are the space between you and I that allows me to love us both."
Guest Bio
Tesha McCord Poe is the founder and CEO of Joy Raising, a consultancy helping mission-driven organizations raise more money with more people and more joy. She holds a JD/MBA and has served as a lawyer, banker, journalist, school administrator, and chief advancement officer. Tesha is a sought-after keynote speaker and coach known for her work in inclusive philanthropy and donor engagement. Learn more at https://joy-raising.com
⏱ Timestamps
00:00 – Welcome and how Max and Tesha met 02:30 – The meaning behind Tesha's name and middle name Joy 05:45 – From the Bronx to Barnard, and learning about access 09:15 – Choosing joy through profound personal loss 12:30 – Boundaries as love, not distance 16:00 – Why fundraising felt terrifying, and what changed 21:45 – The ask she excused herself from, and what it taught her
📌 Resources Mentioned
- Joy Raising: https://joy-raising.com
- Atlas of the Heart by Brené Brown
- The dash poem, the origin of Joy Raising's URL
- Connect with Tesha: [email protected]
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