Ten Kids Two Docs

Vaccines 101:A Pediatrician’s Guide to Immunization Basics Episode 55 S2E20:

Vaccines are one of the most talked-about—and misunderstood—topics in parenting today. We tackle vaccines head-on, not just as pediatricians, but as moms who have made these decisions for their own families.

Drawing from decades of clinical experience and personal stories, Sylvia and Vivian discuss why vaccines have been one of the most transformative advances in pediatrics, how vaccine safety is monitored, and how misinformation has shaped public perception over the last few decades.

This is an open, honest, and evidence-based conversation designed to help parents understand the why behind vaccines—so they can feel informed and confident in their decisions.

Resources:

VAERS - Vaccine Adverse Event Reporting System https://vaers.hhs.gov/

VSD - Vaccine Safety Data Link https://www.cdc.gov/vaccine-safety-systems/vsd/index.html

HHS Autism Announcement Fact Sheet  https://www.hhs.gov/press-room/autism-announcement-fact-sheet.html

Vaccines Don't Cause Autism. Why Do Some People Think They Do?  How a retracted study from the 1990s undermined trust in vaccines and led to a persistent myth.

https://publichealth.jhu.edu/2025/the-evidence-on-vaccines-and-autism

Murch SH, Anthony A, Casson DH, Malik M, Berelowitz M, Dhillon AP, Thomson MA, Valentine A, Davies SE, Walker-Smith JA Retraction of an interpretation Lancet. 2004;363(9411):750. 

Madsen KM, Hviid A, Vestergaard M, Schendel D, Wohlfahrt J, Thorsen P, Olsen J, Melbye M A population-based study of measles, mumps, and rubella vaccination and autism N Engl J Med. 2002;347(19):1477

Hviid A, Hansen JV, Frisch M, Melbye M Measles, Mumps, Rubella Vaccination and Autism: A Nationwide Cohort Study Ann Intern Med. 2019;170(8):513. Epub 2019 Mar 5. Fombonne E, Zakarian R, Bennett A, Meng L, McLean-Heywood D Pervasive developmental disorders in Montreal, Quebec, Canada: prevalence and links with immunizations Pediatrics. 2006;118(1):e139. 

DeStefano F, Bhasin TK, Thompson WW, Yeargin-Allsopp M, Boyle C Age at first measles-mumps-rubella vaccination in children with autism and school-matched control subjects: a population-based study in metropolitan Atlanta Pediatrics. 2004;113(2):259. 

Iqbal S, Barile JP, Thompson WW, DeStefano F Number of antigens in early childhood vaccines and neuropsychological outcomes at age 7-10 years Pharmacoepidemiol Drug Saf. 2013;22(12):1263. 

EPISODE CREDITS: Hosts - Sylvia Bank, MD and Vivian Carlin, MD

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00:00 Introduction to Vaccine Insights

00:58 Pediatric Changes Over 25 Years

02:23 Personal Decisions and Control as Parents

04:41 Convenience and Rewards for Immunization

07:06 Managing Vaccine Reactions and Fainting

09:07 Monitoring Safety with VAERS and VSD

12:49 How Vaccines Work and Historic Breakthroughs

15:46 Addressing Autism Concerns and Fraudulent Studies

21:00 Hope for the Future

Why Your Teen Pushes Your Buttons- The Parent-Child Mismatch in the Teenage Years Episode 54 S2E19:

Conflict with teenagers is common—but sometimes it’s not about behavior at all.

In this episode of 10 Kids, 2 Docs, pediatrician moms Dr. Sylvia Bank and Dr. Vivian Carlin explore the parent-child mismatch during adolescence. Through personal stories and professional insight, they discuss how personality differences, communication styles, and unmet expectations can create tension between parents and teens.

They share how recognizing a mismatch, stepping back when needed, and working as a parenting team can help preserve connection and protect long-term relationships—especially during the emotionally intense teenage years.

A reassuring and practical conversation for any parent navigating conflict with their teen.

Resources:  Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking

by Susan Cain 

EPISODE CREDITS: Hosts - Sylvia Bank, MD and Vivian Carlin, MD

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00:00 Introduction to the Adolescent Mismatch

01:30 Defining the Mismatch in Teens

02:29 Extroverted Parents vs Introverted Teens

05:49 Adjusting Expectations and Stepping Back

08:34 Communication Triggers and Academic Pressure

13:25 The Lead Parent Shift

17:32 The Brick Wall Analogy

20:50 Externalizing Stress and Long Term 

From Zero to Chaos: Dads Talk Parenting Under Pressure Meet Vivan's Husband Erik Episode 53 S2E18:

In this bonus episode of Ten Kids Two Docs, the husbands take the mic. Joseph Bank and Eric Carlin join pediatrician moms Dr. Sylvia Bank and Dr. Vivian Carlin for part two of the Husband Takeover, sharing their most stressful and formative moments in parenting.

From the shock of going from zero to one child, to the chaos of suddenly jumping from four kids to six through foster-to-adopt, these dads reflect honestly on pressure, exhaustion, teamwork, and problem-solving at home. The conversation explores how couples can navigate high-stress seasons of parenting without turning against each other—using intentional communication, shared problem-solving, and sometimes just letting a partner vent.

This episode is a candid, relatable look at parenting under pressure, teamwork in marriage, and why no one really knows what they’re doing until they’re in it together.

EPISODE CREDITS: Hosts - Sylvia Bank, MD and Vivian Carlin, MD

Special Guest - Joseph Bank and Erik Carlin

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00:00 Introduction and Welcome

00:45 Parents Under Pressure The Dad Perspective

01:23 The Toughest Transition Zero to One

02:40 Asymptotically Approaching Chaos

04:02 The Yellowstone Story Reaching the Threshold

05:25 Engineering Solutions to Parenting Problems

06:50 Collaboration vs Venting

08:15 The Parenting Apology and Ending the Judgment

10:10 Closing Remarks

Bonus Husband Take Over - Live With Pediatrician Mom Meet Sylvia's Husband Joe Episode 52 S2E17:

What happens when the husbands take over the mic? In this special Husband Takeover episode, the dads step in to share their honest perspective on parenting, co-parenting, and what it’s really like being married to pediatrician moms.  From navigating medical advice at home to balancing work, family, and modern fatherhood, this episode brings real talk, laughs, and insight you won’t want to miss.

EPISODE CREDITS: Hosts - Sylvia Bank, MD and Vivian Carlin, MD

Special Guest - Joseph Bank and Erik Carlin

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00:00 Introduction of the Special Guests

01:05 Husband Feedback on Podcast

05:54 Parents Under Pressure and Early Fatherhood

07:18 Father - Finding Independence and Confidence

08:52 Managing Expectations as a Parenting Team

10:35 Final Thoughts

Understanding the Mismatch with Your Child- You’re Not Doing It Wrong Episode 51 S2E16:

We discuss the parent child mismatch and how that can lead to clashing, butting heads, and worry about your toddler and young elementary school child.

EPISODE CREDITS: Hosts - Sylvia Bank, MD and Vivian Carlin, MD

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00:00 Introduction

01:02 Defining the Parent Child Mismatch

02:52 Personal Story The Teaching Struggle

04:53 Finding Solutions and Recruiting the Village

09:06 Impact of Trauma and Developmental Stages

12:49 The Parent as an Emotional Sponge

15:36 Introverts vs Extroverts at Social Events

18:32 When Personalities Are Too Similar

22:11 Encouragement and Closing

Strep Throat Again?! Breaking Down the Causes of Repeat Infections Episode 50 S2E15:

Why does my child keep getting strep throat?  Listen as our hosts describe the dreaded infection of Strep Throat.  We talk about what it is and how it is treated.  We also delve into the child that has recurrent strep throat and the possibility of being a strep throat carrier.

Resources: 

Group A Streptococcal Infections https://www.healthychildren.org/English/health-issues/conditions/infections/Pages/group-a-streptococcal-infections.aspx

EPISODE CREDITS: Hosts - Sylvia Bank, MD and Vivian Carlin, MD

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00:00 Introduction

01:20 What is Strep Throat?

03:29 Treatment and School Protocols

06:13 Identifying the Strep Carrier

11:54 Nuances of the Strep Carrier

14:49 The Value of Primary Care vs. Urgent Care

16:21 When to Worry and When to Wait

Inside Autism: Clinical Therapies & Treatment Options Explained Episode 49 S2E14:

We welcome back our special guest Child and Adolescent Psychiatrist Dr. Julia Jackson, MD.  Listen as she discusses the therapies and treatments of Autism including her perspective on Leucovorin and nutraceuticals.

Resources:

https://www.hcpediatricpsychiatry.com/

CANMAT - Canadian Network for Mood and Anxiety Treatments https://www.canmat.org/

EPISODE CREDITS: Hosts - Sylvia Bank, MD and Vivian Carlin, MD

Special Guest - Julia Jackson, MD

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00:00 Introduction & Meet Dr. Julia Jackson

01:46 Navigating Post-Diagnosis & School Support

03:17 School-Based Assessments & The ADOS Gold Standard

07:32 Applied Behavioral Analysis (ABA) Explained

09:48 Social Skills & Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

11:55 Emerging Research: Leucovorin (Folinic Acid)

16:34 Sensitivity to Side Effects

17:34 Recommended Supplements & Nutraceuticals

19:50 Closing Remarks & Advice for Parents

Bonus How to Create Meaningful Fall Traditions with Your Kids Episode 48 S2E13:

Happy Thanksgiving!  Listen as our hosts share their fall family traditions

EPISODE CREDITS: Hosts - Sylvia Bank, MD and Vivian Carlin, MD

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00:00 Introduction

01:04 Northeast Fall Traditions

02:08 The Spooky Texas Corn Maze

04:20 The Great Pumpkin Search

05:47 Post-Holiday Pumpkin Launching

08:07 The Power of Predictability

09:06 Thanksgiving Meals and Turkey Trots

10:41 Black Friday and New Traditions

High Functioning Autism - What Parents Need to Know Episode 47 S2E12:

We welcome back our special guest Child and Adolescent Psychiatrist Dr. Julia Jackson, MD.  Listen as she talks about her own personal experience raising a child with high functioning autism.  She describes the presentation of symptoms of neurodiversity, living with autism, and gives her parenting tips.

EPISODE CREDITS: Hosts - Sylvia Bank, MD and Vivian Carlin, MD

Special Guest - Julia Jackson, MD

Resources: https://www.hcpediatricpsychiatry.com/

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00:00 Introduction: The Parent Perspective

01:39 Blinders of a Parent Early Signs

03:19 Middle School and the COVID Transition

05:10 High Functioning Autism is Often Missed

08:05 Letting Go of Parental Guilt

11:04 Managing the Home Dynamic

16:09 Avoiding the Argument Trap

22:51 Prioritizing the Relationship 

Breaking Down Autism Diagnosis for Parents Episode 46 S2E11:

We discuss Autism Spectrum Disorder with a Child and Adolescent Psychiatrist, Dr Julia Jackson, MD.  We highlight the diagnostic criteria of Autism and ways that it can present.

EPISODE CREDITS: Hosts - Sylvia Bank, MD and Vivian Carlin, MD

Special Guest - Julia Jackson, MD

Resources: https://www.hcpediatricpsychiatry.com/

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00:00 Introducing Dr. Julia Jackson

02:41 The Physician as a Parent

03:54 Defining the Autism Spectrum

04:53 Core Criteria Social Communication Delays

07:05 Restricted and Repetitive Behaviors

10:52 Identifying High Functioning Autism

15:59 Subtle Red Flags and Pattern Recognition

18:25 When Should Parents Seek Help

19:24 Summary and Closing Thoughts