📍 Recorded LIVE at Southview Church – May 18, 2025

Modern culture is not neutral—it’s at war with God’s design for marriage, family, gender, and spiritual order.

In this unfiltered, live episode of TEN & TWO, recorded during a powerful Sunday gathering at Southview Church, we expose the 4 major cultural attacks on the family that are shaping (and shaking) Christian homes today. From the redefinition of identity and marriage to the idol of careerism, the epidemic of pornography, and the crisis of spiritual fatherhood—we draw a clear line between counterfeit cultural values and God’s unchanging truth.

🔥 What we cover in this episode:

1️⃣ God’s Definitions – Why marriage, gender, and roles aren’t up for redefinition.

2️⃣ The Higher Purpose – How careerism and self-fulfillment are crushing generational legacy.

3️⃣ Holy Relationships – Why purity still matters in a world addicted to lust.

4️⃣ The Authority of the Parent – Reclaiming spiritual leadership in a fatherless generation.

👊🏽 It’s time for believers to stop negotiating with Babylon and take a stand. These aren’t just social issues—they’re spiritual battlegrounds. We don’t fix families by agreeing with culture—we do it by returning to trust and obedience with God.

📖 Scripture Highlights:

Genesis 2:24 | Romans 1:26–27 | Philippians 2:3–4 | 1 Corinthians 6:18–20 | Deuteronomy 6:6–7 (Episode includes in-depth Scripture teaching on each cultural lie.)

📊 Real Stats. Real Talk. Real Freedom.

We break down current statistics on same-sex marriage, the pressure of work culture, the rise of porn in the Church, and fatherlessness in America—then contrast them with God’s Word.

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🛑 Don’t just watch culture shift—stand against it in your home.

Culture is shifting fast — but are these new family and relationship trends biblical? 🤔

In this episode, we break down 7 major cultural movements — from open relationships and FAFO parenting to the “couple goals” obsession online — and ask the hard question: Does this align with God’s design? 📖

Whether you’re navigating marriage, parenting, or dating, this conversation will help you discern truth from trends and stay rooted in a biblical worldview. 🙌

🔎 Topics we cover:

• Open Relationships & Polyamorous Parenting

• Oversharing Marital Problems Online

• The Decline of Marriage Among Young Adults

• FAFO Parenting Methods

• Weaponized Incompetence in the Home

• Digital Intimacy & Virtual Relationships

• The Pressure of “Couple Goals” on Social Media

✨ Join us as we pull back the curtain, look at the Word, and ask: Is That Biblical?

Forgiveness doesn’t mean they were right. It means you’re ready to heal.

Anger. Bitterness. Resentment.

We carry it in our hearts and it shows up in our relationships — especially the ones we love most.

In this episode, we’re diving into what forgiveness really is:

⚡ a tool for freedom

💔 a path to healing

🧠 and yes — it even helps your body recover too.

Whether you’re learning to forgive your spouse, yourself, or someone from your past — this one is for you.

Let’s get free together.

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Every parent wrestles with this question at some point: Am I doing a good job? The pressure to get it right can feel overwhelming, and it’s easy to slip into guilt, self-doubt, or comparison. In this episode of TEN & TWO, we unpack the two biggest factors that shape our view of parenting: our own upbringing 👶🏽➡️👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 and cultural expectations 🌎📲.

✨ Topics we cover:

✅ How your childhood impacts the way you parent 🏡

✅ Are you parenting from fear, overcorrection, or pressure? 🚦

✅ Breaking free from unrealistic cultural parenting standards 💡

If you’ve ever second-guessed your parenting, you’re not alone! Let’s have an honest conversation about what really matters in raising kids who love God and thrive in life. 💙

Conflict in marriage is inevitable, but how you handle it determines the health and strength of your relationship. In this episode of TEN & TWO, we dive into biblical principles for resolving disagreements in a way that builds your marriage instead of tearing it down.

🔹 Is fighting in marriage always bad?

🔹 What does it mean to “not let the sun go down on your anger”? (Ephesians 4:26-27)

🔹 When do you need a mediator or outside help?

🔹 How to recognize red flags before it’s too late

🔹 Practical rules for fighting fair—what works & what doesn’t

If you and your spouse struggle with conflict resolution, this episode will equip you with biblical wisdom and practical tools to fight fair and strengthen your marriage.

💬 What’s one rule you and your spouse follow when handling conflict? Drop a comment below!

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#MarriageMatters #FightFair #ChristianMarriage #BiblicalWisdom #HealthyConflict #MarriagePodcast #TENandTWO

Are we making life too easy for our kids? In a world of instant gratification, where everything is just a click away, many parents are struggling with entitlement in their children. In this episode of TEN & TWO, we break down:

✅ Signs your child might be entitled

✅ How over-giving and avoiding conflict can backfire

✅ The biblical approach to teaching gratitude & responsibility

✅ Practical steps to raise hardworking, content, and grateful kids

It’s time to shift from entitlement to empowerment! Don’t miss this conversation—LIKE, SHARE & FOLLOW for more real talk on parenting! 👏

#Parenting #Entitlement #RaisingKids #Gratitude #ChristianParenting #TENandTWO

🔥 NEW EPISODE – INTIMACY AGAIN! 🔥

We’re diving back into the conversation on biblical intimacy in marriage, and this time, we’re not alone! Special guests Pastor Rafael & Mia Saracual join us to bring wisdom, truth, and real talk about God’s design for intimacy.

💬 What does the Bible really say about s*x?

❤️ How can couples build deeper, God-honoring intimacy?

🚫 Breaking myths, awkward church silence, and cultural lies.

Don’t miss this raw, honest, and much-needed conversation! Listen now! 🎧✨ #Marriage #BiblicalIntimacy #TenAndTwoPodcast

“Let’s talk about it—REAL intimacy in marriage! 😳🔥 Why do so many Christian couples struggle with s*x and intimacy? Is it a taboo topic in the church, or are we just asking the wrong questions? In this episode of TEN & TWO, we dive into the raw, unfiltered truth about intimacy in marriage—spiritual, emotional, and physical. From misconceptions to deep connection, we’re breaking down the barriers that keep couples from experiencing the full blessing of intimacy as God designed it. Married? Engaged? Struggling? This one’s for you! Don’t miss this candid conversation that could change everything in your relationship!

On this episode, we get to hear from our friends John & Chris Blue, pastors and parents of 5 children. We learn some valuable advice from these seasoned parents/grandparents. They talk about their parenting struggles, the highs and lows, and what it looks like to trust Jesus with your children. Some true marriage/parenting nuggets. 

There are a ton of Marriage Misconceptions that we believe and act from. We walk into marriage thinking one thing and then experiencing something else. On this episode we discuss some wrong ideas about marriage as we tackle the top 5 misconceptions based off of the“All Pro Dad” list. Which ones do you believe? Which ones are you breaking from? Marriage is a blessing and we hope to inspire you to think that way too.