Summer is coming… but let’s talk about it.

Why do we dress the way we do? Are we truly dressing for ourselves—or are we dressing to be noticed, validated, and consumed by others? In this episode, we’re diving into the difference between dressing for the male gaze and dressing by God’s grace.

✨ What we cover in this episode:
✅ How the male gaze influences our dressing (without us even realising it)
✅ The truth about honouring God with our wardrobe
✅ Why modesty is NOT about restriction but freedom
✅ How to start dressing for God’s glory every single day

👑 Challenge of the Week:
Before you pick out your outfit each morning, ask God first. Pray: 'Lord, how do You want me to glorify You today?'


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🎶 Music: Glow by Scott Buckley 

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Girl, let’s talk. Have you been overcomplicating prayer? Feeling like your words need to be perfect before coming to God? Let that go. God is your Father, and He wants real, unfiltered, heart-to-heart conversations with you.

In this episode, we explore:
🔹 What it truly means for God to be our Father
🔹 How Jesus prayed—and why we should do the same
🔹 Why prayer builds trust—you can’t trust someone you don’t talk to
🔹 Breaking free from distractions & anxiety to sit in God’s presence
🔹 A call to prayer for young Christian girls in London—will you rise?

It’s time to stop drowning in distractions and start resting in God’s presence. Let’s build real intimacy with Him, one honest prayer at a time.

📩 Need prayer or encouragement? Email me at [email protected]

🎶 Songs included in this episode:
Glow – Scott Buckley
Fast Swan Dive – Fesliyan Studios

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Girl, let’s talk. You don’t have to have everything figured out right now. And that dream that seems too big? It’s not. The key isn’t having all the answers—it’s staying locked in, open, and committed to growth, even when the path isn’t clear.

In this episode of Fearless Fridays, we’re getting real about not settling for less, not shrinking yourself, and not playing it safe just because it feels easier. Sis, there’s more for you. The question is: are you willing to trust the process and step into it?

✨ We’re diving into:
✔️ Why it’s okay not to have all the answers yet
✔️ The power of staying committed and showing up—even when it’s hard
✔️ Expanding your mind to see bigger possibilities for your life
✔️ The inspiring story of Heidi Somers Guzman—how she pivoted, took risks, and walked into success

🎶 Background music: Glow by Scott Buckley & Fast Swan Dive by Fesliyan Studios

📩 Let’s stay connected!
Got thoughts on today’s episode? Need some encouragement? Email me at [email protected] or follow me for more!

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Too many of us struggle to say ‘no’ because we crave validation, fear rejection, or just don’t want to rock the boat. But here’s the truth: when you set boundaries, the right people will respect them, and the wrong ones will reveal themselves.

In this episode of Fearless Fridays, we’re breaking down why boundaries aren’t just about saying no but about standing firm in who you are as a child of God. 

I’ll be sharing my personal story of the one and only relationship I had at 13—what I learned, the mistakes I made, and how it all pointed me back to God’s truth. We’re diving into spiritual, emotional, and physical boundaries, plus how to confidently protect your peace in relationships, friendships, and life.

✨ Key Takeaways:
✔️ Why setting boundaries is an act of self-respect & obedience to God
✔️ Why many girls struggle with boundaries (and how to overcome it)
✔️ The power of saying ‘no’ without guilt
✔️ How to protect your faith, peace & purpose in every relationship
✔️ My personal story & lessons on boundaries

🔥 Call to Action:
Are you setting boundaries that honour your worth? Drop a 🙌 in the comments if you're committing to protecting your QUEEN ERA!

💌 Let’s Stay Connected:
📌 TikTok: @itsthatgirlvee
📩 Email: [email protected]
🎙 Spotify: Fearless Fridays with That Girl Vee

🎶 Background Music Credits:
🎵 #1 Glow by Scott Buckley
🎵 #2 Swan Dive by Fesliyan Studios

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Being That Girl goes beyond aesthetics, routines, and trends—it’s about building a life on a firm foundation.

In this episode of Fearless Fridays, we dive into what it really means to step into your Queen Era—beyond surface-level confidence—to a life grounded in purpose, faith, and resilience.

We’re talking dogged motivation, inner strength, and most importantly, having God as your core. Because without Him, it’s all sinking sand.

I’ll also be sharing the inspiring transformation of Sarah Jakes Roberts—how she moved from her broken girl era to walking fully in her purpose. If you're ready to become the best version of yourself, not just for the world but for God, this episode is for you!

✨ Key Takeaways:
✔️ What it really means to be 'That Girl'
✔️ Why your foundation in life matters (Matthew 7:24-27)
✔️ The power of surrendering your dreams to God
✔️ How Sarah Jakes Roberts stepped into her calling

🔥 Call to Action:
Are you building your life on the Rock or on the sand? If you’re ready to dedicate or re-dedicate your life to Christ, this is your moment. Let’s pray together.

💌 Connect with Me:
📌 Follow for more: TikTok @itsthatgirlvee
📩 Let’s chat: [email protected]
🎙 Listen on Spotify: Fearless Fridays with That Girl Vee

🎶 Music Credits:

Glow by Scott Buckley

Swan Dive by Fesliyan Studios


#ThatGirl #FearlessFridays #QueenEra #FaithOverFear #SarahJakesRoberts #SpiritualGlowUp #GenZForJesus

Welcome to Fearless Fridays Episode 1! In today’s episode, we dive into the ultimate Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) and how to overcome it. If you've ever struggled with the pressure of trying to keep up with everyone around you, this episode is for you!

Join me, That Girl Vee, as I share my personal story of how FOMO affected my friendships and self-worth when I first moved to the UK. 

I talked about the key steps I took to break free from this fear, including placing your heart before God, spending time in self-development, and embracing your heritage.

We’re learning to be fearless and build a God-kind of confidence that empowers us to walk confidently in who we are. Let’s break free from FOMO together and step into our true, fearless selves!

 Music in this video:

The beautiful background track "Glow" by Scott Buckley is licensed under the Creative Commons. 

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Stay delightful and keep shining!

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