That Husband Podcast

By That Husband Podcast

Husbands trying to know better so that we can do better

Hosted By Blaque Nubon

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January 21, 2026 (Re-upload) Why Are Married Christians Still Struggling With Sex? | Themba Tom Ntuli
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[S3] EPISODE 2: HAVE WE DEMONISED A GOOD THING?
In this episode, we slow the noise down and step into a conversation many husbands carry quietly but rarely articulate. What does connection really mean, not just physically, but spiritually, emotionally, and relationally? Through honest reflection and lived experience, we explore how true intimacy is far deeper than proximity or performance. It’s about being known, recognised, and met at a soul level, long before bodies come into play. This episode invites husbands to reconsider where connection begins, how it’s nurtured, and why it matters more than we often realize.

We also confront the stories many of us inherited about sex, marriage, and manhood, especially the ones that taught us to fear, suppress, or misunderstand desire. With humility and clarity, this conversation unpacks how silence, shame, and unspoken expectations can quietly erode intimacy in marriage. We reflect on how unlearning harmful narratives, practicing honest communication, and embracing tenderness are not signs of weakness, but acts of courage and leadership within the home.

At its core, this episode is a call to presence. To show up fully, for our wives, for ourselves, and for the covenant we’ve committed to. It reminds husbands that intimacy is not sustained by instinct alone, but by intentionality, kindness, and a willingness to grow. This is not a conversation about perfection, but about pursuit: choosing, again and again, to build bonds that are rooted in trust, truth, and love that lasts.

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1h 58min
January 21, 2026 Why Are Married Christians Still Struggling With Sex? | Themba Tom Ntuli
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[S3] EPISODE 2: HAVE WE DEMONISED A GOOD THING?
In this episode, we slow the noise down and step into a conversation many husbands carry quietly but rarely articulate. What does connection really mean, not just physically, but spiritually, emotionally, and relationally? Through honest reflection and lived experience, we explore how true intimacy is far deeper than proximity or performance. It’s about being known, recognised, and met at a soul level, long before bodies come into play. This episode invites husbands to reconsider where connection begins, how it’s nurtured, and why it matters more than we often realize.

We also confront the stories many of us inherited about sex, marriage, and manhood, especially the ones that taught us to fear, suppress, or misunderstand desire. With humility and clarity, this conversation unpacks how silence, shame, and unspoken expectations can quietly erode intimacy in marriage. We reflect on how unlearning harmful narratives, practicing honest communication, and embracing tenderness are not signs of weakness, but acts of courage and leadership within the home.

At its core, this episode is a call to presence. To show up fully, for our wives, for ourselves, and for the covenant we’ve committed to. It reminds husbands that intimacy is not sustained by instinct alone, but by intentionality, kindness, and a willingness to grow. This is not a conversation about perfection, but about pursuit: choosing, again and again, to build bonds that are rooted in trust, truth, and love that lasts.

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1h 58min
January 14, 2026 Can A Man Lead Even When His Wife Disagrees? | Pastor Martin Mgiba
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[S3] EPISODE 1: BEING THE HEAD IS COSTLY

This episode is a conversation between husbands who are still learning what it truly means to be married. We reflect on how many of us entered marriage well-intentioned but underprepared, carrying single-life rhythms, unchecked assumptions, and a shallow understanding of leadership, submission, and accountability. What we once labelled as “control,” we now begin to recognize as covenant responsibility. This episode names the quiet shock many men experience when marriage asks more of us than we expected — emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.

Together, we wrestle with the deeper work of husbandhood: building healthy systems, and intentionally shaping the culture of our homes. We explore what leadership really looks like beyond clichés, presence, protection, emotional provision, spiritual direction, and courage in moments of tension. We speak candidly about resistance, shame, past failures, dry seasons, and the temptation to seek fulfilment outside the home when marriage feels costly. This is not theory, it’s lived experience, marked by mistakes, resilience, repentance, and growth.

At its core, this episode is a call back to brotherhood and responsibility. A reminder that no man is meant to carry marriage alone, and that healing and strength often come through honest community with other men who call out greatness, not weakness. This conversation is for husbands who are wounded but willing, unsure but committed, and hungry to lead their families with humility, courage, and faithfulness. If you’ve ever felt the weight of marriage and wondered, “Am I doing this right?” — this episode is for you.

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2h 5min
December 10, 2025 What Happens When Men Stop Pretending & Tell The Truth? | Penson Mlotshwa, DJ Sabby & Zweli Dube
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[S2] EPISODE 47: THE GROOTMAN'S TABLE

In this episode, we sit down for a real and honest conversation about masculinity, what it means today, how society defines it, and how men actually experience it. Instead of reacting to loud cultural narratives, we slow things down and look at masculinity through the lens of everyday life: responsibility, identity, pressure, leadership, and the quiet questions men rarely get space to ask.

We break the conversation into three parts, starting with the mind, how men think, process expectations, deal with internal pressure, and navigate modern culture. From mental resilience to emotional awareness to the silent weight many men carry, we explore what a healthy thought-life looks like for men who want to grow.

Then we move to the soul and the body, unpacking purpose, character, spiritual grounding, physical well-being, and how these three areas shape one another. This is not a lecture, just men talking to men, trying to understand what it means to show up fully, faithfully, and intentionally in a world that often misunderstands men. Tune in, reflect, and take what you need for your own journey.

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2h 5min
December 03, 2025 I Risked Everything to Become the Man I’m Meant to Be — And She Had to Trust Me | Mosa Nyamande
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[S2] EPISODE 46: YOU CAN LEVEL UP

This episode is about the real journey of becoming men who refuse to settle for comfort when growth is calling. We dive into the moments that break us open, the decisions that reshape our identity, and the brave, often painful process of letting go of the boy so that the man can emerge. If you’ve ever felt stuck, unsure, or overwhelmed by the weight of who you’re trying to become, this conversation will find you exactly where you are.

This episode is a portrait of husbandhood in motion, of men wrestling with expectations, confronting old versions of themselves, and learning to lead not from ego but from purpose. Musa takes us into the heart of his story: the crisis that cracked him, the therapy that rebuilt him, the marriage that matured him, and the faith that steadied him when the ground beneath him shifted. Together, we reflect on how husbands can transform passive frustration into intentional influence, how identity gets reshaped in the presence of a strong partner, and how clarity often arrives not in the noise of hustle but in the quiet courage of decisive action.

And through it all, we return to the truth that guides this podcast: we are husbands who aren’t where we want to be, but certainly are not where we used to be. Men imperfect, failing forward, committed to knowing better so we can do better, for ourselves, our wives, and the families entrusted to us. Whether you're in a season of growth, a season of confusion, or standing at the crossroads of who you were and who you need to become, this episode will remind you that you are not alone, and that transformation, though costly, is always worth it.

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1h 36min
November 26, 2025 Do Women Really Want Men To Speak? Most Of Us Learn Manhood From Our Mother's Wounds | Dany Vambili
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[S2] EPISODE 45: HEARING A MAN

In this episode, we journey into the inner world of husbands who are trying to grow, heal, and show up better than the men who raised them. Danny joins Blaque for a deeply transparent conversation about the complexities of manhood, the weight of provision, and the quiet battles men fight long before anyone sees the cracks. From confronting generational cycles to redefining what it means to be healthy as a husband, this episode invites men to finally hear themselves in someone else’s story.

Together they peel back the layers of marriage, identity, faith and pressure, exploring moments where being a husband feels like carrying contradictions. They speak openly about anger that has no name, silence that was taught too early, and the exhausting expectation to be strong everywhere except at home. Their dialogue reaches into father wounds, money wounds, the tension between public respect and private struggle, and the deep need for safe friendships that hold men accountable to the husbands they want to become.

This is an episode for every man who has ever felt unseen while trying to lead, every husband who is trying to love from a place he is still learning to understand, and every couple navigating the uncomfortable but necessary work of growing together. Through stories of faith, failure, provision, boundaries and redemption, this conversation reminds us that perfect love does not come from perfect people, but from people willing to heal, willing to learn and willing to stay. This is a space for husbands who are not where they want to be, but are refusing to stay where they used to be.

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1h 43min
November 19, 2025 A Husband’s Wake Up Call: Why Presence Is the Strongest Form of Protection | Tokoloho TK Mokale
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[S2] EPISODE 44: REDEFINING PRESENCE

In this episode, we sit down for one of our most honest and soul-stirring conversations yet. TK opens up about his journey as a husband and father in a way that feels both familiar and deeply challenging as he reflects on what it means to grow into the kind of man who protects his home not only with provision but also with presence, tenderness, and intention. His story reminds us that marriage matures us, shapes us, and reveals us, and that the small choices we make every day slowly build the foundation our families stand on.

As TK recounts the beauty and weight of discovering that he and his wife were expecting twins, we hear a man wrestling with fear, excitement, and a fierce resolve to show up fully for his family. He shares how vulnerability, trust, and honest communication became the pillars that carried him and his wife through loss, new beginnings, and the unpredictable terrain of parenthood. His reflections invite every husband to rethink leadership as something deeper than authority, something rooted in service, emotional steadiness, and spiritual anchoring.

This conversation is for every husband who is trying his best to be better than yesterday, every man navigating the tension between who he was raised to be and who his family needs him to become. It is a reminder that growth is possible, that healing is ongoing, and that love becomes real when it is practiced in the everyday rhythms of presence, patience, and partnership. If you are a husband on your own journey of failing forward, learning forward, and loving forward, this episode will meet you right where you are.

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1h 26min
November 12, 2025 Before the Country Shutdown, Let’s Talk, Man To Man | Blaque Nubon
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[S2] EPISODE 43: THE SHUT DOWN

There are moments when a nation’s wounds demand more than words, they demand repentance and resolve. In this episode, I step into one of South Africa’s most urgent conversations, gender-based violence and the purple wave spreading across our country. What may look like a trend on social media is, in truth, a cry for justice, a cry that echoes through every home, every marriage, and every man’s heart. This isn’t about pointing fingers, it’s about asking the harder question, what am I doing to stop it?

This isn’t a conversation about marriage, communication, or compatibility, it’s about silence. The kind of silence that shelters abusers and isolates survivors. I share honestly about how good men often turn away, how faith calls us not to retreat but to confront, and how the gospel offers us a way back, not through guilt but through responsibility. Strength, I’ve learned, isn’t about domination, it’s about restraint, gentleness, and the courage to protect.

Through this reflection, I’m calling us as men to stand, not as spectators but as mirrors, mentors, and safe spaces. To listen to the cries that heaven hears, to start the healing where it must begin, in the heart of a man. Because when we rise with integrity, women can finally rest, not in peace beneath the ground, but in peace within this nation we’re trying to rebuild together.

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18min
November 05, 2025 Loving My Wife the Way My Father Loved My Mother Is Not As Easy As I Thought | Tumelo Sox Semenya
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[S2] EPISODE 43: THE WEIGHT OF ROLE MODELS

In this deeply reflective conversation, Blaque Nubon sits down with Tumelo, a husband molded by faith, shaped by his father, and stretched by love, to talk about what it really means to become the man your family can lean on. From the illusion of potential to the reality of presence, Tumelo shares the inner wrestle of a husband who grew up with a godly example and now faces the sacred pressure of raising the bar without losing his soul in the process.

They talk about the quiet war between provision and presence, about how the drive to build can sometimes rob you of the very home you’re building for. Tumelo opens up about lessons from his father, a man whose apologies were as strong as his convictions, and how that legacy both steadies and challenges him in marriage. This is a story about unlearning what even the “good things” taught us, and realizing that the work of being a husband is not about perfection but repentance.

For every man who’s trying to become the kind of husband his son can learn from and his daughter can trust, this episode is a mirror, tender, raw, and real. It’s about learning that potential means nothing until it’s lived out in love, that success means nothing without surrender, and that maybe, just maybe, knowing better is finally starting to look like doing better.

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1h 47min
October 29, 2025 Facing Infertility, My Secret Brother, And The Fight To Not Become My Father - Gregory Cassim
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[S2] EPISODE 42: WHEN FAITH IS TESTED

Marriage will test every part of a man, not to break him, but to reveal what’s real. In this episode of That Husband Podcast, Blaque sits down with Gregory Cassim for a raw, redemptive, and deeply personal conversation about fatherhood, faith, and the long road from brokenness to covenant.
From infertility and loss to the miracle of fatherhood, from growing up in the hood to leading a family and a church, Greg opens up about the unseen battles that shape a man’s character. They talk about what it means to be a covenant leader - a husband who protects, nourishes, and provides even when life feels like it’s falling apart.

This is not a conversation about perfection; it’s about presence. It’s about husbands who are learning to unlearn, fathers who are choosing to show up, and men who are breaking the cycles they were born into. It’s about grace, redemption, and the kind of love that doesn’t quit when it hurts.

So if you’ve ever wrestled with waiting, if you’ve ever wondered where God is in the silence, or if you’ve simply longed to be a better man, this one’s for you. Pull up a chair, lean in, and listen as Blaque and Gregory talk man to man about covenant, character, and what it truly means to be That Husband.

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1h 29min

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