In Episode 34 of That Podcast, we sit down with Mrs. Nolundi Mzimela, the wife of Pastor Wandile, for a powerful and honest conversation about green flags and red flags when choosing a spouse.

Choosing a life partner is one of the most important decisions you’ll ever make and yet so many people walk into relationships without knowing what to look out for. In this episode, we unpack the key indicators that reveal whether someone is a healthy, God-aligned partner or a relationship you need to reconsider.

We talk about:

• 🚦 Green flags that signal emotional maturity, character, and purpose
• 🚩 Red flags you should never ignore when dating or courting
• Faith, values, and alignment in relationships
• What many people overlook when choosing a spouse
• Wisdom for singles, those dating, and even married listeners

This is an eye-opening, honest, and necessary conversation that will help you make wiser relationship decisions and avoid costly mistakes.

Whether you’re single, dating, or preparing for marriage—this episode is for you.

Transformation doesn’t start with motivation it starts with decisions. In this episode of THAT PODCAST, we break down five intentional decisions that have the power to shift your direction, sharpen your focus, and redefine your year.

This conversation is practical, faith-centered, and deeply reflective, helping you move from good intentions to consistent action. Whether you’re resetting, refocusing, or rebuilding, these decisions are meant to guide you into growth, clarity, and forward momentum.

✨ In this episode, we discuss:

• Why small decisions lead to big life changes
• How faith and planning work together
• Building habits that support long-term growth
• Choosing discipline, alignment, and purpose over comfort

This episode is perfect for anyone ready to stop drifting and start living intentionally.

Counting the Cost: Preparing for the Life God Is Calling You To

Purpose is free but obedience is costly. In this episode of THAT PODCAST, we slow things down and take a hard, honest look at what it really means to count the cost of the life God is calling you to live.

This conversation challenges surface-level goal setting and invites you into deeper preparation, intentional planning, and spiritual maturity. We talk about sacrifice, discipline, consistency, and the uncomfortable decisions that often precede real growth and calling.

✨ In this episode, we discuss:

• What “counting the cost” truly means in real life
• Why calling demands preparation, not just passion
• The sacrifices no one talks about when pursuing purpose
• How to practically plan for the future God is leading you into

This episode is for anyone ready to stop dreaming vaguely and start preparing intentionally.

Comparison Complexities: You Feel Left Behind in Life

Comparison is subtle, emotional, and deeply personal and before you know it, it starts shaping how you see yourself, your progress, and your purpose. In this episode of THAT PODCAST, we unpack the hidden weight of comparison and why it so often leaves us feeling behind, inadequate, or unseen.

We talk honestly about comparing our real lives to other people’s highlight reels, how social pressure distorts timing, and why feeling “late” doesn’t mean you’re failing. This conversation is for anyone who’s ever wondered, “Why am I not where they are yet?”

✨ In this episode, we discuss:

• Why comparison steals joy and clarity
• The danger of measuring your journey against someone else’s outcome
• How social media intensifies the pressure to “keep up”
• Reclaiming peace, confidence, and purpose in your own timing

This episode is a reminder: you’re not behindyou’re becoming.

Excuses Are Expensive: Stop Paying the Price With Your Potential

Excuses don’t come cheap they cost time, growth, discipline, and purpose. In this episode of THAT PODCAST, we confront the subtle and not-so-subtle excuses that keep us stuck, delayed, and living beneath our God-given potential.

This is a wake-up call episode. We unpack why excuses feel safe, how they quietly sabotage progress, and what it actually takes to break free and move forward with intention. If you’ve been waiting for the “right time,” this conversation is for you.

✨ In this episode, we discuss:

• Why excuses are more dangerous than failure
• How comfort and fear disguise themselves as logic
• The true cost of procrastination and delay
• Practical steps to take responsibility and move forward

This episode isn’t about condemnation t’s about activation.

From Rap to the Pulpit: Culture, Music & Faith

🎙️ Featuring Gregory Cassim

What happens when passion, culture, and faith collide? In this episode of THAT PODCAST, we sit down with Gregory Cassim to explore a powerful journey from the world of rap and creative expression to the call of the pulpit.

This conversation unpacks how music shapes identity, how culture influences faith, and what it really means to surrender your gifts without losing your authenticity. Gregory shares his story with honesty, depth, and wisdom, challenging the idea that faith and culture must exist in opposition.

✨ In this episode, we discuss:

• The transition from rap culture to ministry
• How music can shape and sometimes challenge faith
• Navigating purpose without abandoning your God-given gifts
• Redefining what a calling can look like

This episode is for creatives, believers, and anyone wrestling with identity, purpose, and faith in a culture-driven world.

Kingdom Culture Is Not Church Culture

🎙️ With Pastor Brian Mhlanga

Many believers use the terms kingdom culture and church culture interchangeably—but are they really the same? In this episode of THAT PODCAST, we sit down with Pastor Brian Mhlanga to unpack a conversation that challenges assumptions and calls for deeper understanding.

We explore what kingdom culture truly means, how it differs from man-made church systems, and why confusing the two can limit spiritual growth and impact. This episode invites listeners to move beyond routines and into a lifestyle that reflects the values of God’s Kingdom in everyday life.

✨ In this episode, we discuss:

• The difference between kingdom culture and church culture
• How traditions can sometimes replace truth
• What it means to live kingdom values beyond Sunday
• Why kingdom culture is a lifestyle, not a program

This is a necessary conversation for anyone seeking authenticity, depth, and alignment with God’s purpose.

🎙️ Available now on all audio platforms.

Mental Health Is a Scam? | A Therapist Sets the Record Straight

🎙️ Featuring Sikhulile Ngobese

Is mental health really a “scam”… or have we misunderstood it? In this bold and necessary conversation, THAT PODCAST sits down with qualified therapist Sikhulile Ngobese to unpack one of the most controversial topics of our time.

We challenge common narratives, address misinformation, and bring clarity to what mental health truly is and what it is not. With wisdom, honesty, and professional insight, this episode creates space for truth, healing, and healthier conversations around emotional and psychological wellbeing.

✨ In this episode, we discuss:

• Where the “mental health is a scam” idea comes from
• The difference between real mental health care and harmful misconceptions
• How faith, culture, and mental health intersect
• When therapy helps, when it’s misunderstood, and why discernment matters

This episode is not about dismissing pain it’s about understanding it better.

How To Speak So People Listen | The Art of Communication

Communication is more than just talking it’s about connection, clarity, and impact. In this episode of THAT PODCAST, we dive into the art of communication and why so many messages are spoken but never truly heard.

We unpack how to communicate with intention, confidence, and wisdom whether in relationships, leadership, ministry, or everyday life. From understanding how you speak to why people stop listening, this conversation is practical, honest, and eye-opening.

✨ In this episode, we discuss:

• Why good intentions don’t always equal good communication
• Common communication mistakes that push people away
• How to speak with clarity, authority, and love
• The power of listening as part of effective communication

We’ve been told that "going solo" is the key to success but what if that’s a lie? In this episode of THAT PODCAST, we break down the myth of individualism and why true growth happens in strong, faith-driven communities. 🙌🏾

💡 We dive into:

✅ Why isolation is dangerous for your spiritual & personal growth

✅ The power of being part of a good community

✅ How to break free from the “lone wolf” mentality