To submit or not to submit? Men and women have debated this subject for decades, and opinions vary depending on who you ask.  Some folks think that so-called traditional gender roles require women to be submissive,  while others believe that women should be equal in their relationships. The question then becomes, what does it mean to submit?  Well, today, we are dipping our toe into the controversial topic of submission and what it means to us, as opposed to what society tells us it is.