That Was Us

On today’s episode of That Was Us, we’re diving into Season 6, Episode 7: Taboo. As the Pearsons gather for Thanksgiving, Kate and Toby confront lingering tension and Rebecca makes an important decision about who will care for her as her illness progresses.

* Their competitive nature and love of board games, especially Taboo

* Their own relationships with food growing up and how those relationships have changed as parents

* The challenges of navigating food and body image within families

* The complicated dynamics of spending Thanksgiving with family

* Rebecca choosing Kate to be in charge of her care if anything happens to Miguel, and Randall’s reaction

* Rebecca and Miguel’s hilarious and revealing game of Taboo

* Kate and Toby’s conflict over parenting and food

* The different Thanksgiving timelines, including Rebecca’s childhood experiences with food and body image

* Miguel telling Rebecca he needs to move to Houston and admitting that she’s his favorite person

* Rebecca realizing that her feelings for Miguel have changed

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The stars of This Is Us, Mandy Moore, Sterling K. Brown, and Chris Sullivan, dive back into the world of the Pearsons, reliving each episode and all the life lessons that came with it.

Executive Producers: Natalie Holysz and Rob Holysz

Creative Producer: Sam Skelton

Production Coordinator: Andrew Rowley

Video Editor: Todd Hughlett

Mix & Master: Jason Richards

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This week on That Was Us…another favorite segment of the pod, Chat Was Us! This time, we’re talking about something at the heart of so many This Is Us stories: marriage, partnership, and what it means to build a life together. And for this conversation, Mandy, Sterling, and Chris have brought along their spouses! Together, the six of them get candid about love, commitment, compromise, and all the ways a marriage evolves over time.

- Whether marriage was always something they imagined for themselves

- The memories they each hold onto from their wedding days

- What they remember most about the first year of marriage

- The ingredients they believe make for a successful marriage

- How you navigate the fact that two people can change dramatically over the course of a marriage

- The role compromise plays in a healthy partnership

- How having children can change a marriage

- The importance of continuing to choose each other through different seasons of life

- And a few fun marriage superlatives along the way!

And a friendly reminder, you can catch new episodes of That Was Us every Monday, a day early, exclusively on Hulu. Available on Spotify, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts on Tuesdays like usual!

That Was Us is produced by Rabbit Grin Productions. Music by Taylor Goldsmith and Griffin Goldsmith.

🍋 About the Show:

The stars of This Is Us, Mandy Moore, Sterling K. Brown, and Chris Sullivan, dive back into the world of the Pearsons, reliving each episode and all the life lessons that came with it.

Creative Producer: Sam Skelton

Production Coordinator: Andrew Rowley

Video Editor: Todd Hughlett

Mix & Master: Jason Richards

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On today’s episode of That Was Us, we’re diving into Season 6, Episode 6: Our Little Island Girl, Part Two. Beth steps into her calling as a mentor, Kevin faces the consequences of his choices, and the Pearsons reckon with the people and experiences that have shaped who they’ve become.

* The TV shows and movies they’re watching right now, including Furious, A Knight of the Seven Kingdoms, Widow’s Bay, Ted Lasso, and Good Luck, Don’t Die

* Their thoughts on Christopher Nolan’s The Odyssey, including Samantha Morton’s standout performance

* The mentors and teachers who shaped their careers and why teachers are so important

* Redefining what success can look like and why there’s no one path to a fulfilling life

* Beth finding her purpose at a dance academy

* Beth mentoring Stacy and helping her get back on her feet after a difficult performance

* Beth confronting her former dance teacher and making peace with her past

* Kevin confessing his infidelity to Sophie and the fallout that follows

* Beth’s future as a mentor and Stacy’s success as a dancer

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🍋 About the Show:

The stars of This Is Us, Mandy Moore, Sterling K. Brown, and Chris Sullivan, dive back into the world of the Pearsons, reliving each episode and all the life lessons that came with it.

Creative Producer: Sam Skelton

Production Coordinator: Andrew Rowley

Video Editor: Todd Hughlett

Mix & Master: Jason Richards

Headgum is an LA & NY-based podcast network creating premium podcasts with the funniest, most engaging voices in comedy to achieve one goal: Making our audience and ourselves laugh. Listen to our shows at https://www.headgum.com.

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This week on That Was Us, we’re joined in studio by Lyric Ross, who grew up before our eyes as Deja Pearson on This Is Us. From booking the role at just thirteen to navigating life and her career as a young adult, Lyric reflects on her years on the show, the challenges that shaped her, and the person she’s becoming beyond Deja.

• Getting her start as an actor in Chicago and the childhood moment that first sparked her love of performing

• Booking This Is Us at thirteen and Sterling’s memories of knowing she was the right person to play Deja

• The work ethic her mother instilled in her and learning to trust herself as a performer

• Cutting her hair for Deja and the complicated experience of navigating beauty, identity, and self-esteem as a young Black girl

• Her journey from struggling with low self-esteem to seeing her own beauty and finding confidence through her faith

• What it means to see herself as a child of God and how her faith has shaped her identity

• Working with Joy Brunson and Asante Black and the challenges and rewards of some of Deja’s most emotional storylines

• Why watching herself on screen is still one of the hardest parts of being an actor

• The qualities she admires in Deja, including her boldness, bravery, and self-assurance

• Navigating the transition from child actor to young adult and searching for more mature, challenging roles

• Continuing to build her career beyond This Is Us, including her role in Ironheart on Disney+

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🍋 About the Show:

The stars of This Is Us, Mandy Moore, Sterling K. Brown, and Chris Sullivan, dive back into the world of the Pearsons, reliving each episode and all the life lessons that came with it.

Executive Producers: Natalie Holysz and Rob Holysz

Creative Producer: Sam Skelton

Production Coordinator: Andrew Rowley

Video Editor: Todd Hughlett

Mix & Master: Jason Richards

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On today’s episode of That Was Us, we’re diving into Season 6, Episode 5: Heart and Soul. As Rebecca opens herself up to life after loss, Kate and Rebecca navigate a painful shift in their relationship, Kevin searches for the right path forward, and Randall learns how hard it is to let go of the people you love.

- Jon and Chris' scripted sci-fi audio podcast

- Chris Sullivan’s experience directing the episode and the “scaffolding” that came with directing a show he already knew so well

- The cast members who got the chance to direct or write during the final season

-The very important question: how do you actually pronounce “asterisk”?

- Rebecca’s speed-dating experiment

- Kate and Rebecca's fight and Ithe fallout that followed

- Kate confronting Rebecca about her illness and the fear of leaving her alone with the kids

- The meaning behind the episode’s title, “Heart and Soul”

- Kevin reuniting with Cassidy and the harsh truth she tells him

- The emotional final montage of Rebecca and Kate at the piano across three different stages of their lives

And a friendly reminder, you can catch new episodes of That Was Us every Monday, a day early, exclusively on Hulu. Available on Spotify, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts on Tuesdays like usual!

That Was Us is produced by Rabbit Grin Productions. Music by Taylor Goldsmith and Griffin Goldsmith.

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🍋 About the Show:

The stars of This Is Us, Mandy Moore, Sterling K. Brown, and Chris Sullivan, dive back into the world of the Pearsons, reliving each episode and all the life lessons that came with it.

Join your favorite family back in the living room to examine our past, cherish our present, and look to the future with new episodes of That Was Us every Tuesday.

Executive Producers: Natalie Holysz and Rob Holysz

Creative Producer: Sam Skelton

Production Coordinator: Andrew Rowley

Video Editor: Todd Hughlett

Mix & Master: Jason Richards

Headgum is an LA & NY-based podcast network creating premium podcasts with the funniest, most engaging voices in comedy to achieve one goal: Making our audience and ourselves laugh. Listen to our shows at https://www.headgum.com.

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This week on That Was Us, we’re excited to welcome director Chris Koch, who returns to the podcast to take us behind the scenes of some of This Is Us’ most memorable episodes. Joined by guest co-host Jon Huertas, Chris shares his journey from making Super 8 films to building a long creative partnership with Dan Fogelman, and reflects on directing everything from comedy to some of the show’s most emotional moments.

* Jon Huertas’ latest adventures, including farm life, directing, and his dreams of eventually owning a boat

* Chris Koch’s first experiences making films and how a love of Super 8 led him toward directing

* His unexpected path through advertising and branding at MTV, Nickelodeon, and Comedy Central

* His longtime creative partnership with Dan Fogelman and how it has evolved across multiple shows

* The differences between directing comedy and drama…and why the best lessons can come from both

* Some of Koch’s favorite and most challenging This Is Us episodes, including the family therapy and Vietnam sequences

* Memorable performances, on-set stories, and the importance of treating every member of a crew with kindness

* What he learned from working with the cast and crew of This Is Us and the advice he would give to someone hoping to build a long career in television

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🍋 About the Show:

The stars of This Is Us, Mandy Moore, Sterling K. Brown, and Chris Sullivan, dive back into the world of the Pearsons, reliving each episode and all the life lessons that came with it.

Join your favorite family back in the living room to examine our past, cherish our present, and look to the future with new episodes of That Was Us every Tuesday.

Executive Producers: Natalie Holysz and Rob Holysz

Creative Producer: Sam Skelton

Production Coordinator: Andrew Rowley

Video Editor: Todd Hughlett

Mix & Master: Jason Richards

Headgum is an LA & NY-based podcast network creating premium podcasts with the funniest, most engaging voices in comedy to achieve one goal: Making our audience and ourselves laugh. Listen to our shows at https://www.headgum.com.

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This week on That Was Us, we’re breaking down This Is Us Season 6, Episode 4: “Don’t Let Me Keep You.” As Jack says goodbye to his mother, Marilyn, he begins to discover the life she built after leaving his father and confronts how much of her story he never knew. In this episode, the hosts chat about:

* Sterling’s memories of staying up late with his mom and the importance of simply being present with the people we love

* How losing a parent can change the way we see them—not just as our parents, but as people with lives and stories of their own

* The complicated feelings that can come with grief, including regret over the time we didn’t have

* Why being fully present may be one of the greatest gifts we can give someone

* Jack arriving at Marilyn’s home and realizing how much he didn’t know about her life

* Meeting Mike, Marilyn’s boyfriend, and discovering the life she built after leaving Stanley

* Marilyn and Jack’s Sunday phone calls

* Jack finding the ice skates Marilyn bought for Kevin, Kate, and Randall

* Jack’s emotional eulogy and his realization that his mother had finally built a home of her own

* The meaning behind the episode’s title, “Don’t Let Me Keep You”

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🍋 About the Show:

The stars of This Is Us, Mandy Moore, Sterling K. Brown, and Chris Sullivan, dive back into the world of the Pearsons, reliving each episode and all the life lessons that came with it.

Executive Producers: Natalie Holysz and Rob Holysz

Creative Producer: Sam Skelton

Production Coordinator: Andrew Rowley

Video Editor: Todd Hughlett

Mix & Master: Jason Richards

Headgum is an LA & NY-based podcast network creating premium podcasts with the funniest, most engaging voices in comedy to achieve one goal: Making our audience and ourselves laugh. Listen to our shows at https://www.headgum.com.

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This week on That Was Us…we’re back with another Chat Was Us! This time, inspired by the many caregiving stories throughout This Is Us, we’re tackling a topic that touches millions of families: what does it really mean to care for someone? Joined by caregiving advocate and storyteller Lydia Storie, hosts Mandy, Sterling, and Chris explore the realities of caregiving, why seeing these experiences represented on screen matters, and how storytelling can help people feel less alone.In this episode, the conversation covers:

* The research behind This Is Us’s caregiving storylines and how they impacted viewers

* How seeing characters like Rebecca, Randall, Miguel, and Kate navigate care can open up conversations in our own lives

* Rebecca taking agency over her end-of-life planning

* Randall and Miguel’s honest conversation about needing a break from caregiving

* Kate’s experience as both a parent and a caregiver

* The importance of cultural authenticity in Miguel’s family story

* Why storytelling can sometimes be more powerful than education or traditional PSA campaigns

* The idea that there are more than 130 million people in the U.S. living in the thick of care

* How seeing your own experience reflected on screen can create a powerful sense of “I’m not alone”

* The parasocial connection audiences develop with characters—and why that can make conversations about care feel more personal

* How we can change the way we value aging, disability, caregiving, eldercare, paid leave, and care in our culture

https://learcenter.s3.us-west-1.amazonaws.com/caregiving_thisisus_lear_cag.pdf

Audience impact research from Norman Lear Center -- which analyzed how This Is Us S6 affected viewers' opinions and attitudes about care

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🍋 About the Show:

The stars of This Is Us, Mandy Moore, Sterling K. Brown, and Chris Sullivan, dive back into the world of the Pearsons, reliving each episode and all the life lessons that came with it.

Executive Producers: Natalie Holysz and Rob Holysz

Creative Producer: Sam Skelton

Production Coordinator: Andrew Rowley

Video Editor: Todd Hughlett

Mix & Master: Jason Richards

Headgum is an LA & NY-based podcast network creating premium podcasts with the funniest, most engaging voices in comedy to achieve one goal: Making our audience and ourselves laugh. Listen to our shows at https://www.headgum.com.

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This week on That Was Us, we’re breaking down Season 6, Episode 3: "Four Fathers." As Kevin adjusts to co-parenting, Randall faces the reality that Deja is growing up, and Kate and Toby struggle to stay connected amidst long distance. The episode explores parenthood, changing family dynamics, and the memories that stay with us long after the moment has passed.

In this episode, the hosts chat about:

They also break down the episode, including:

- Jack learning that his mother has died just as the day comes to an emotional close Randall teaching Deja to drive and accidentally hearing

- Malik's revealing text over Bluetooth

- Beth and Randall realizing Deja is growing up faster than they're ready for

- Kate and Toby's growing tension as long distance begins taking its toll -

- Toby's heartfelt proposal to buy a Green Egg smoker and create new family memories

- Kevin struggling with co-parenting after missing Franny's first steps

- Kevin turning to Cassidy as he wrestles with loneliness and finding his place

A special fan segment featuring listeners sharing the moment they first realized their child wasn't a little kid anymore

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🍋 About the Show:

The stars of This Is Us, Mandy Moore, Sterling K. Brown, and Chris Sullivan, dive back into the world of the Pearsons, reliving each episode and all the life lessons that came with it.

Executive Producers: Natalie Holysz and Rob Holysz

Creative Producer: Sam Skelton

Production Coordinator: Andrew Rowley

Video Editor: Todd Hughlett

Mix & Master: Jason Richards

Headgum is an LA & NY-based podcast network creating premium podcasts with the funniest, most engaging voices in comedy to achieve one goal: Making our audience and ourselves laugh. Listen to our shows at https://www.headgum.com.

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This week on That Was Us…we’re back with another Chat Was Us! This time, inspired by the many journeys of ambition and self-discovery in This Is Us, we’re tackling one big question: What does it really mean to be successful? From chasing dreams and career milestones to fulfillment, purpose, and legacy, Mandy, Sterling, and Chris reflect on how their definitions of success have evolved over the years.

In this episode, the hosts chat about:

* How their definitions of success have shifted from external achievement to personal fulfillment

* The difference between being successful and feeling successful

* Why our brains naturally fixate on failure and how encouragement can quiet the inner critic

* The role childhood competition, sports, and early ambition played in shaping their drive

* Fame versus fulfillment, and how public recognition differs from lasting happiness

* The career milestones that made them feel like they had finally ""made it""

* Why longevity, meaningful work, and the respect of your peers matter more than awards

* The artists and mentors who have redefined success through decades of purposeful careers

* Why passion (not money) is often the clearest path toward purpose

* How luck, preparation, and saying ""yes"" to opportunity all play a role in building a career

* Raising children to value effort, curiosity, and joy over simply winning

* The legacy they hope to leave behind and what a truly successful life looks like at the end

Plus, along the way, the conversation takes a few unexpected detours into childhood summers, Slurpees and hose water, youth sports, camp counseling, terrible self-talk, and an emotional compliment game that reminds the hosts just how much they mean to one another.

That Was Us is produced by Rabbit Grin Productions. Music by Taylor Goldsmith and Griffin Goldsmith.

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🍋 About the Show:

The stars of This Is Us, Mandy Moore, Sterling K. Brown, and Chris Sullivan, dive back into the world of the Pearsons, reliving each episode and all the life lessons that came with it.

Executive Producers: Natalie Holysz and Rob Holysz

Creative Producer: Sam Skelton

Production Coordinator: Andrew Rowley

Video Editor: Todd Hughlett

Mix & Master: Jason Richards

Headgum is an LA & NY-based podcast network creating premium podcasts with the funniest, most engaging voices in comedy to achieve one goal: Making our audience and ourselves laugh. Listen to our shows at https://www.headgum.com.

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