Wedding shaming is our new favourite internet-based hobby.

On two huge Facebook groups, tens of thousands of people regularly insult, laugh at, and argue about dodgy cakes, ill-fitting dresses, and themed engagement shoots. Their content frequently goes viral, whether they want it to or not.

Why are people really in these groups, and how harmful can stranger shaming be? Helen finds out.

Thanks to my contributors:

Jenn & Steven Van Elk - https://jennifervanelk.com/

Dr Cagle - https://twitter.com/lecagle

Emily Laidlaw - https://twitter.com/EmilyLaidlaw

Shell Robshaw-Bryan - http://www.thebohemianbride.co.uk/

You can listen to Jenn & Steven's podcast here http://www.weddedpod.com/. Or just search 'Wedded'.

Written and edited by - Helen McCarthy twitter.com/helenlmccarthy


Music by - Antti Luode www.anttismusic.blogspot.co.uk

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The big work question used to be "Do you live to work, or work to live?" Now, it's "Can you ever work hard enough?"

In February 2019, Atlantic staff writer Derek Thompson wrote a viral article about workism - that "work has morphed into a religious identity—promising transcendence and community, but failing to deliver."

How widespread and cult-like has this become? Helen speaks to a workplace wellness expert, those trying to define success, and a 'workism reformist', to find out.

You can read the original Atlantic article by Derek Thompson here bit.ly/2SUfNEZ

Thanks to my contributors:

Professor Sir Cary Cooper - twitter.com/ProfCaryCooper

Max Maher - bit.ly/2GyIC1D

Josh Mackey - www.dailydriven.com

Anna Lundberg - www.annaselundberg.com

Sam Spurlin - www.samspurlin.com

Hannah Kass

Listen to Anna's podcast, Reimagining Success - apple.co/2Yo0MgA

Read Anne Helen Peterson's Buzzfeed article, How Millennials Became The Burnout Generation - bit.ly/2F8ONJA

Written and edited by - Helen McCarthy twitter.com/helenlmccarthy


Music by - Antti Luode www.anttismusic.blogspot.co.uk

Episode sources - https://thatsacult.tumblr.com/post/627526238301487104/the-big-work-question-used-to-be-do-you-live-to

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Speak it into existence. Stay positive. Create the life you want.

The Law of Attraction might sound straightforward, but it's anything but. We've all heard of The Secret, but the Law of Attraction remains a bit of a cosmic mystery to most.

Helen hears the diverse perspectives of people who use it, and finds out if we need to understand it to believe in it at all.

Thanks to all the anonymous contributors.

Ginny Gane - ginnygane.com

Written and edited by: Helen McCarthy twitter.com/helenlmccarthy


Music by: Antti Luode www.anttismusic.blogspot.co.uk

All sources used (so you can do your own reading and research): https://thatsacult.tumblr.com/post/627412866971090944/speak-it-into-existence-stay-positive-create-the

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The social media influencer industry has exploded so much, we can't scroll through our timelines without bumping into them. We've gone from seeing them as a relatively harmless novelty, to criticising and regulating them, in just a few years.

Are they misunderstood artists and curators, or too busy flogging their diet products to care about anything other than the numbers?

#spon #ad

Thanks to my contributors:

Eadaoin Fitzmaurice - instagram.com/bandeadd

Cameron Phillips - instagram.com/cameronphillips

Michelle Elman - instagram.com/scarrednotscared

Emily van der Nagel - twitter.com/emvdn

Written and edited by: Helen McCarthy twitter.com/helenlmccarthy


Music by: Antti Luode www.anttismusic.blogspot.co.uk

All sources used (so you can do your own reading and research): https://thatsacult.tumblr.com/post/626976155869888512/the-social-media-influencer-industry-has-exploded

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If there's something missing in your life, or you're struggling to achieve your goals, you could always spend a lot of money on a very loud motivational seminar. That should get you going.

The motivation industry is huge, but like the diet industry, it sells a big dream.

What do the motivational junkies who've tried it all actually think? And can we really trust the industry's leading speakers to give us what we need?

Thanks to my contributors:

Kevin Durham - kevindurham.co.uk

Samuel Leeds

Larissa Faw - twitter.com/larissafaw

Jason Connell - jasonconnell.co

Written and edited by: Helen McCarthy twitter.com/helenlmccarthy


Music by: Antti Luode www.anttismusic.blogspot.co.uk

All sources used (so you can do your own reading and research): https://thatsacult.tumblr.com/post/626974284365152256/if-theres-something-missing-in-your-life-or

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What do women want? According to pick-up, they want someone dominant and assertive who’ll come up to them in the street and ask for their number outright.

Pick-up clearly has a flawed methodology. That hasn’t stopped some ‘gurus’ making a fortune out of it, and attracting hundreds of thousands of followers.

Does evolutionary science really support their brash advice? And do the coaches actually think they’re doing men some good?

Thanks to my contributors:

Kezia Noble (https://www.kezia-noble.com/)

James Tusk (https://project-tusk.com/)

Jon Sefcek

Russ

Also thanks to Peter Jonason and Joanna Wincenciak.

Written and edited by: Helen McCarthy twitter.com/helenlmccarthy


Music by: Antti Luode www.anttismusic.blogspot.co.uk

All sources used (so you can do your own reading and research): https://thatsacult.tumblr.com/post/626786311168196608/what-do-women-want-according-to-pick-up-they

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Star Wars. Sherlock. Supernatural. Their fans are many and - even if you don’t realise it - powerful.

In episode 6, Helen finds out how a BBC TV show can inspire an online witch hunt, what’s really going on with all this Star Wars drama, and why fanfiction should never be underestimated.

Written and edited by: Helen McCarthy twitter.com/helenlmccarthy


Music by: Antti Luode www.anttismusic.blogspot.co.uk

All sources used (so you can do your own reading and research): https://thatsacult.tumblr.com/post/626703172206051328/star-wars-sherlock-supernatural-their-fans-are

Contributors:


Addigni - http://addignisherlock.com/

Bina - https://221spn.tumblr.com/

Anna Julia - http://ahoyspn.tumblr.com/

Victoria - http://maximumkillshot.tumblr.com/

Henry Jenkins - http://henryjenkins.org/

Billy Proctor - https://twitter.com/Billy_Proc

Bronwen Thomas - https://twitter.com/onlinereaders1

CarrieLynn Reinhard - https://twitter.com/MediaOracle

Jessi Milestone - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaQXDLZoKomiCqjbXS0xH_Q

CarrieLynn’s book is on Amazon, just search ‘Fractured Fandoms’.

Henry Jenkins’ podcast is called ‘How do you like it so far?’ It’s on Apple Podcasts and his website.

For more about Johnlock, listen to the Decoder Ring podcast. It’s really good - https://slate.me/2tXRUxN

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Anti-vaxxers are some of the most hated people on the internet - depending on who you talk to. They don't like vaccinations, and they're pretty adamant about it. Pro-vaxxers don't like anti-vaxxers, and they're pretty adamant about it too.

Are pro-vaxxers always the 'good guys', peddling sound science and common sense? Or do both sides of this polarised argument have much more in common than they realise?

Written and edited by: Helen McCarthy twitter.com/helenlmccarthy

Music by: Antti Luode www.anttismusic.blogspot.co.uk

Sources used (for your own reading and research): https://thatsacult.tumblr.com/post/626691032659214336/anti-vaxxers-are-some-of-the-most-hated-people-on

Featuring:

Dr Dan Jolley - www.danieljolley.co.uk

Will Storr - www.willstorr.co.uk

You can find Will's book on Amazon, just search 'The Heretics'.

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BEFORE YOU LISTEN: Clean eating, diets, food restriction, and eating disorders are mentioned throughout. Please don’t listen to this episode if you find these topics difficult.

It’s got 36 million mentions on Instagram, and it’s got us cutting out dairy and gluten as if they’re poisonous. Clean eating has been fighting off the criticism it regularly receives and prevailing for the most part.

What are people really trying to ‘cleanse’ from? Is it possible to follow a clean eating diet without it dictating your self worth?

Written and edited by: Helen McCarthy twitter.com/helenlmccarthy

Music by: Antti Luode anttismusic.blogspot.co.uk

All sources used (so you can do your own reading and research): https://thatsacult.tumblr.com/post/626689821201612800/before-you-listen-clean-eating-diets-food

Hannah Gilroy - twitter.com/LastStopLunar

Sophie Medlin - sophiedietitian.com

Lorri Lancashire - instagram.com/recoverjoy_

Tass Labuzinski - instagram.com/headofbrand

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There's a group of (mainly) men on the internet who try and go for as long as possible without masturbating or watching porn. It's called NoFap, and for many, it's a form of profound self-improvement.

Are they deluded and too quick to self-diagnose? Or more progressive than the rest of us?

This episode obviously features conversations about some fairly x-rated topics, so don't listen if that's not your thing.

Written and edited by: Helen McCarthy www.twitter.com/helenlmccarthy

Music by: Antti Luode www.anttismusic.blogspot.co.uk

All sources used (so you can do your own reading and research): https://thatsacult.tumblr.com/post/626146503995670528/theres-a-group-of-mainly-men-on-the-internet

Dr David Ley - www.twitter.com/DrDavidLey

Keir Mailan - www.goo.gl/9zHWzT

Dr Joseph Gelfer - www.gelfer.net

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