that's where we're at

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  • 05: “we are a bit confused" part 1

    In this week’s episode we talk about sexual shame! Bel finally gets the chance to find out from Zoe and Jac all about their high school experience of the ‘No Apologies’ program, and how this has shaped their relationships with others and themselves. We also spiral into how we have questioned our own sexualities and why telling someone “you seem innocent” is extremely problematic.

    Trigger Warning: for rape. If you need help please reach out to the Rape & Domestic Violence Services Australia on 1800 211 028

    The links mentioned:

    An Ode to Melbourne - Maggie Zhou 

    An obituary for Melbourne in 2020 - Genevieve Phelan

    Happiest Man on Earth - Eddie Jaku 

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    53 min
  • 04: “yeah bro no wakkas”
    This week's episode Zoe asks the girls how being nice has become so toxic, why accepting and pursuing your goals unapologetically will help you accept yourself and live a life free of the fear of judgement. Listen in as we uncover why learning how to say “no” is the key to life.
    The links mentioned:
    Why You’re Attached to Being an Inferior Version of Yourself - Brianna Wiest
    Stop Being Nice, Start Being Kind - Yaholo
    How To Create Your Own Personal Philosophy If You’re Tired Of Everyone Trying To Tell You Who You Should Be - Jennifer Taylor Chan
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    50 min
  • 03: “what’s up with everyone and your boobs”

    In this week’s episode we talk about it all! We open up about navigating body confidence and fashion, and how we have learnt to be comfortable in our own skin suits. The girls also discuss society’s ideal of thinness and how people can be marginalised by these beliefs.

    Trigger Warning: eating disorders and suicide. If you need help please reach out to the Butterfly Foundation on 1800334673 or Lifeline on 131114

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    1 hr 2 min
  • 02: “I was gonna shave my legs for him”

    This week we spiraled into dating and self-love, and what this means in making meaningful relationships. Bel asks Jac and Zoe to help her unpack her dumb dating decisions, and we talk about all the things we have learnt from these experiences and why we are staying away from broke men. PERIOD.

    We talked about a few things, but these are our recommendations:

    Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel,

    Oprah's Podcast the episode called How to Make Love Last and

    Daniel Sloss Live Shows on Netflix the episode called Jigsaw.

    Let’s talk!

    DM us on instagram @thatswherewereatpocast or email us at [email protected]. We're also on Youtube, check us out.

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    52 min
  • 01: “she recruited me to be her friend”

    This week in our first episode we explore the origins of us! How Zoe’s overseas holiday led Jac and Bel to become friends through a DM slide, and how we overcame our first impressions of each other - spoiler: they weren’t great. We will unpack  our friendship and give you our advice on how we have managed to sustain our friendship.

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    44 min

About that's where we're at

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Welcome to our podcast “that’s where we’re at” by us Bel, Jac and Zoë. Join us as we figure out where we’re at on culture, relationships, faith, feminism, and anything else we want. We haven’t got it…