The 10 Year Marriage

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Cheating isn’t always about sex. In this brutally honest episode, we break down the uncomfortable truths around infidelity—from emotional affairs to unresolved insecurities, unmet needs, and the real reasons people cheat.

We explore why cheating is often a self-betrayal before it’s ever a partner betrayal, the role emotional disconnection plays in long-term relationships, and why truth-telling, boundaries, and regular renewal are essential in modern marriage.

Whether you've been cheated on, cheated yourself, or want to protect your relationship from silent drift, this conversation is packed with perspective-shifting insights.

In this episode, you’ll hear:
- Why cheating starts as an internal split, not a physical act
- Why unmet emotional needs are more dangerous than you think
- The red flags you might be ignoring before infidelity happens
- The difference between physical vs. emotional cheating—and why both matter
- How the “10 Year Marriage” model creates space for honest renewal and truth-telling
- Why the betrayed partner isn’t always innocent—and what accountability really looks like

This is one of those episodes that might trigger you—and that’s the point. The conversations you’re afraid to have? They’re the ones that save your relationship.

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Dave and Angie share a deeply personal story about Dave's return to his Long Island hometown after 13 years—and the profound realization that changed everything. What started as a trip to show their kids where Dave came from became a powerful lesson about growth, identity, and why you can't go back to who you used to be.

In This Episode

Dave's emotional journey returning to Long Island after 13 years
Why their kids' reaction wasn't what he expected
The moment Dave realized he was doing it for himself, not them
How growth changes your perspective on everything—including your past
The fantasy football test for relationship health
Why harboring resentment toward your former self is toxic
The parallel between outgrowing places and outgrowing people

Memorable Quotes
"You can't go back to that, right? But there's beauty in it because that made you who you were."
"If you don't change that perspective, you're just setting yourself up for failure."
"If a marriage is only looking backwards, you got some fucking problems."
"Some people die at 25 and live until 70."
"I didn't realize how much I was harboring resentment to myself... resentment of holding on to something that had run its course."

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Exploring Trust, Surrender, and Growth Through Equine Therapy

In this episode, we delve into the transformative power of equine therapy and its impact on both personal development and relationships. Sharing a recent experience at an equine therapy retreat in Oregon, we discuss how horses can mirror our emotions and behaviors, leading to profound insights and shifts. From the initial connection with the horses to facing challenges and breakthroughs, we highlight the importance of trust, surrender, and support in fostering growth and healing. We also emphasize the value of shared experiences in strengthening our marriage and the importance of integrating new learnings into daily life. This episode is a testament to the power of vulnerability, courage, and the journey of self-discovery.

What started as a weekend of slowing down turned into a deep dive into trust, surrender, personal growth, and what it truly means to support your partner through transformation.

From confronting discomfort in group dynamics to the life-altering moment Dave sat eye-to-eye with a 1,400-pound horse, this episode explores the emotional intensity and relational insights that come when you leave your comfort zone and do the work—together.

In this episode, you’ll hear:
🐴 How equine-assisted leadership cracked open emotional walls
❤️ Why supporting your partner’s breakthrough is sometimes more important than having your own
🧠 The exact moment Dave experienced full surrender (and how it changed his nervous system)
👥 What it really looks like to hold space for your spouse—especially when things get tense
⚡ How couples can turn conflict, discomfort, and emotional triggers into next-level intimacy
🧭 Why shared experiences (not shared chores) are the key to a connected, fulfilling marriage

Whether you’re craving deeper connection, navigating stress in your relationship, or curious about equine therapy and nervous system healing, this episode delivers truth, vulnerability, and practical takeaways.

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Lessons from a Teenager: Insights into Marriage and Personal Growth

What can a 13-year-old’s breakup teach us about emotional maturity, identity, and intimacy in adult relationships? In this deeply reflective episode, Dave and Angie Tina open up about watching their daughter navigate her first heartbreak—and how it mirrored patterns many adults still struggle with in dating, love, and marriage.

This episode isn’t just about parenting—it’s about partnership.
 It explores the difference between love and significance, the danger of losing yourself in relationships, and how emotional validation often disguises itself as love.

In this episode, you’ll learn:
🔑 How early relationships shape our sense of self-worth
❤️ Why we often confuse attention with connection
🪞 The hidden cost of seeking significance over love
🧠 What it really means to “lose yourself” in a relationship
🚩 The invisible patterns we carry from teenage love into adult marriage
💬 Why you can’t build a fulfilling relationship without first building you

Whether you’re a parent, a partner, or someone healing from past patterns, this episode invites you to reflect on what your relationships are truly rooted in—and whether they’re serving the love you want or the validation you’ve been chasing.

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Thriving as a Couple: How Clarity In Our Roles Unlocks Our Risk-Taking Abilities

In this episode, we delve into the dynamics of our relationship, emphasizing the importance of identifying the right roles in marriage and teamwork. We share personal anecdotes about our impulsive decisions, including leasing a Mustang horse, traveling to unfamiliar places, and transforming property investments. We discuss the necessity of having a shared vision and executing plans together while balancing individual strengths and weaknesses. Highlights include stories of buying and remodeling homes, traveling adventures, and our journey into RV life. We also touch on how we maintain our connection and support each other's dreams, providing insights into how couples can align their goals and roles for a thriving partnership.

From impulsive big moves (like horses, RVs, and real estate deals) to learning how to play to each other’s strengths, they reveal how high-performing couples stay aligned—even when their styles clash.

This episode is for couples who dream big, fight hard, and are learning how to build something extraordinary without losing themselves—or each other—along the way.

In this episode, you’ll learn:
💬 Why your marriage needs a strategic plan (just like your business does)
🧠 How to identify your unique roles—visionary, integrator, supporter, finisher
🔥 Why faith, speed, and structure matter in building a shared life
🤝 How to avoid resentment by honoring your partner’s strengths (and limitations)
📌 What it means to “get the right people on the bus—but in the right seats”

Whether you're a couple navigating business, parenting, or just trying to stay connected through life’s chaos, this episode will hit home.

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Reimagining the American Dream: Living with Purpose and Breaking Free from Societal Norms

The Midlife Awakening...

In this thought-provoking episode, we delve into the concept of purpose and alignment in life and relationships.

Reflecting on the sudden death of a well-loved dentist, we explore the fleeting nature of life and question conventional ideas of success and the American Dream. We discuss the importance of living authentically, challenging societal norms, and forging our own paths. The conversation also touches on the midlife awakening many individuals and even America as a whole are experiencing, highlighting the necessity of continuous growth and redefining what happiness and success mean in modern society. Emphasis is placed on the transformational power of community, nature, and passion, and the potential risks and rewards of pursuing a purpose-driven life, especially within a marriage.

This episode is packed with rich insights and calls to action for those ready to break free from the confines of traditional expectations and live a more meaningful and connected life.

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Maintaining Intimacy in Marriage: Avoiding the Roommate Trap.

Is your marriage starting to feel more like a roommate situation than a romantic partnership? In this raw and honest conversation, Dave and Angie dive deep into what it really takes to create a fulfilling relationship—one built on intimacy, honest communication, and intentional time together.

In this episode, we delve into the critical topic of marital intimacy and the pitfalls of becoming mere 'roommates' with your spouse. We explore the implications of drifting apart in marriage, sharing real-life examples and personal experiences. Our discussion covers the importance of prioritizing your relationship, maintaining physical and emotional closeness, and addressing potential issues head-on. We stress the significance of spending quality time together, having open conversations, and ensuring that your marriage continues to grow. We also highlight the challenges of balancing individual pursuits with maintaining a connected and fulfilling partnership. Join us for this candid conversation on how to keep the spark alive and build a lasting, loving relationship.

We explore the early warning signs of emotional drift in marriage, from sleeping in separate rooms to only talking about kids, work, and to-do lists. You’ll learn how to reconnect with your partner, rebuild intimacy, and shift from managing life together to truly living it side by side.

In this episode:

• How to talk to your partner when things feel disconnected
• The danger of "marriage autopilot" and how to break the cycle
• Why quality time is the key to emotional and physical intimacy
• The uncomfortable truths behind sexless marriages
• What it means to prioritize your relationship—before it’s too late

Whether you’re newly married or 15 years in, this conversation will help you get honest about where you are and what’s next. If you want a thriving, connected, purpose-driven marriage, press play.

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marriage podcast, how to talk to your partner, marriage intimacy, relationship communication, emotional intimacy, married sex life, quality time in marriage, relationship fulfillment, how to reconnect in marriage, stop being roommates, healthy marriage habits, love after kids, long-term relationship advice, conscious relationship growth

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Risking It All: The Path to True Growth and Unapologetic Living

In this episode, we dive into why we continually risk comfort and certainty in both business and marriage to pursue true growth and fulfillment.
We explore the idea of triggering conversations on our podcast, discuss the personal growth journey that comes from vulnerability and communication, and contemplate the importance of risking what we have to reach for what we truly want.
We share insights on breaking routines, moving beyond the zone of excellence to the zone of genius, and the importance of innovative thinking for personal and professional success.
This candid discussion touches on everything from business success and financial risks to deepening relationship connections and the challenges of parenthood.
Join us as we ponder whether we're willing to risk it all to truly have it all.



Marriage
Commitment
Relationships
Love / Love Relationships
Money and finances
Parenting
Sexual connection / Intimacy / Seduction

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Exploring Intimacy and Sex Life in Modern Relationships

How often are you having sex? Do you wish it was more often?

In this episode, we dive deep into discussions around intimacy, sexual frequency, and the impact of modern distractions on relationships. We explore how often couples are really having sex, the truth behind these numbers, and what it means for the health of a relationship. We also discuss societal shifts, the role of spontaneous versus planned sex, and the influence of pornography. In addition, we cover the psychological aspects of sex, the importance of intimacy, and strategies for maintaining a vibrant sex life despite the challenges of modern life, like digital distractions and hectic schedules.

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Navigating Jealousy and Insecurities in Relationships

In this episode, we dive deep into the complexities of jealousy and insecurities within relationships.
We discuss personal experiences of feeling trapped and the fear of being hurt, addressing how past relationships and family dynamics contribute to these emotions.
By exploring the difference between jealousy and being territorial, we uncover the hidden escape routes and self-sabotaging behaviors that can arise.
Through candid conversations, which is something we have had to work on, we highlight the importance of communication, self-reflection, and showing up for oneself to foster trust and connection. We share insights on how these dynamics have been transformed in our marriage, emphasizing the significance of choosing each other and navigating discomfort for growth.

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