The 3 Circles Living Podcast

Anyone can call themselves a leader. Anyone can talk about their vision, values, and integrity. But what actually makes someone worth following? Is it their title, their charisma, their success or something deeper?

What is leadership? Why is leadership so desperately needed? And why does 3 Circles Living create a different kind of leader?

Today, we want to ask a really simple question:

What's one little thing that's taking something away from your life and what little thing could you exchange it with?

Because maybe changing your life doesn't require a massive overhaul.

Maybe it starts with a tiny exchange.

In this part 2, we talk about the cost of trying not to mess up, who we are trying to impress, what roles your worth and identity play, and what really happens when you mess up. 

Have you ever tried so hard not to mess something up that you completely forgot to enjoy it?

You’re working so hard to get it right. Say the right thing. Make the right decision.

Be the perfect mom. Be the perfect partner. Deliver at work. Make the business successful.

Not disappoint anyone. Not look stupid. Not fail. And from the outside, it might look like ambition. It might look like dedication. It might look like you have incredibly high standards.

But sometimes, underneath all of that effort, there’s something else happening.

You’re not actually moving toward something. You’re desperately trying to avoid something.

You’re trying not to mess up. Not to disappoint. Not to be judged.

Not to prove that maybe you’re not as capable as everyone thinks you are.

And the problem is that when your entire focus becomes not fucking it up, you can end up living in a constant state of pressure.

You’re performing—but you’re not necessarily present.

So today, we’re talking about performance.

The pressure to get it right. The fear of failure. The exhaustion of trying to be everything to everyone.

And what happens when your self-worth becomes connected to how well you perform.

Who do you trust?

Not who says they’re trustworthy. Not who has the title, the credentials, the following, or the perfect story.

Who has actually earned your trust?

In this episode, we’re diving into something that influences almost every decision we make—but that we rarely stop to examine: trust.

We talk about blind trust, track records, words vs. actions, incentives, trusting someone’s character vs. their expertise, and perhaps the most important one: learning to trust yourself without being afraid to question yourself.

Because the goal isn’t to trust everyone. And it isn’t to trust no one.

It’s to develop the wisdom and discernment to know the difference.

True trust isn’t blind.

So… who has earned YOUR trust?

What if thinking about death could actually help you live a better life?

In this episode, we explore the uncomfortable—but incredibly freeing—idea that our time is limited. We don't know how many days we have, but we do know that we don't have forever. So what happens when we stop treating time like it's unlimited?

We talk about relationships, health, work, regret, gratitude, presence, and the things we spend our precious time worrying about that may not actually matter. This isn't an episode about death—it's an episode about living fully while we have the opportunity.

A reset can be simple: It doesn't have to be complicated or life disturbing. Listen in to what is possible. 

You can’t control everything that happens in life but you can control what you do next.

In this episode, we explore the power of choice and the difference between living at the mercy of your circumstances and taking ownership of your response. From unexpected challenges and difficult people to setbacks, fear, and the things we simply cannot change, we discuss where we may be giving away our power and how small, intentional choices can completely change the direction of our lives.

Because while you may not always get to choose what happens to you, you can choose what happens next.

What if the biggest thing holding you back isn't your circumstances but your blind spots? In this episode, we explore why self-awareness is the foundation of personal growth, healthier relationships, stronger leadership, and lasting success. We discuss why honest self-reflection is so difficult, how our identity shapes our decisions, and practical ways to become more intentional in every area of life.