Divorce mediation can save you time, money, and emotional stress. Learn how divorce mediation works, why mediation matters, and how to divorce with dignity and peace.

If you’re facing divorce, this episode walks you through exactly why divorce mediation may be the smartest first step you take. As an attorney, mediator, and life coach, Lesa shares how divorce mediation helps couples avoid court battles, reduce legal costs, and protect their kids while keeping their dignity intact.

You’ll learn the 3 powerful reasons divorce mediation works better than litigation — plus the 3 big decisions you should make before filing paperwork so you feel prepared instead of overwhelmed.

This is real, compassionate guidance for women and families who want to do divorce differently — calmer, smarter, and with less damage.

Because midlife isn’t your crisis… it’s your comeback.

Timestamps:

(00:00) Welcome + why divorce feels so heavy

(02:10) Why Lesa returned to mediation after stepping away

(04:05) What a divorce mediator actually does (and how it’s different from attorneys)

(06:30) Reason #1: Mediation saves time

(08:12) Reason #2: Mediation saves money

(09:45) Reason #3: Mediation protects your peace and dignity

(12:20) The 3 decisions to make before starting divorce

(13:00) Dividing assets: homes, 401(k)s, pensions explained

(18:40) Maintenance/spousal support basics

(22:15) Child support + parenting plans

(25:30) Why mediation is critical for co-parenting

(28:10) Parenting plan course + free masterclass

(30:00) Encouragement for high-conflict or difficult co-parenting situations

(32:20) Final thoughts: doing divorce with dignity + where to get help

Key Takeaways:

• Divorce mediation helps you avoid costly court battles

• You can save thousands of dollars by reaching agreements together

• Calm communication leads to better long-term co-parenting

• Decide finances, income/maintenance, and parenting plans early

• Divorce doesn’t have to be a war — it can be handled with dignity

Guest Bio:

Lesa Koski is an attorney, divorce mediator, life coach, and host of Doing Divorce Different. With decades of legal and mediation experience, she helps women and families navigate divorce with clarity, confidence, and compassion. Her mission is simple: help people protect their peace, their finances, and their kids while creating a healthier next chapter.

Resource Links:

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