I couldn’t believe it. Today a stranger asked me to sleep with her.  I share ● My response to this first time event in my life ● How my wife responded to the event ● Dissect the story and what could have happened. Notes: What do you think? Email me at [email protected] Follow me on […]

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Notes: What do you think? Email me at [email protected] Influence by Robert Cauldini Follow me on Twitter and Periscope: @itsalexbarker Join Our Facebook Community Rate and Review the Show (send me an email and I’ll send you a book of your choice!) Subscribe on iTunes Join our Newsletter Music provided by the generous and awesome […]

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Don’t become Anakin Skywalker ­ – don’t become an absolutist:  trying to get rid of everything. The body will recoil and backlash at you for making such a drastic change Find the ONE Thing ­ look for the one thing that consistently breaks your change, maybe it’s Facebook or ice cream Tag the Tiger ­ […]

● Rather than telling someone what to do (and have them do it begrudgingly), this question motivates the person to take action ● Use this question whenever you’re faced with a challenge to motivate a co­worker, a spouse, a child, or a client ● If used properly, you’ll discover what truly motivates people to take […]

Money Rules:  Here are 4 habits on money that we live by: ● Take It Away ● Give Gifts ● Pay Yourself First ● Apply the 2-week Rule Notes: What do you think? Email me at [email protected] Dave Ramsey James Altucher – The 1% Rule Follow me on Twitter and Periscope: @itsalexbarker Join Our Facebook Community […]

My wife (Megan) and I chat about ● How to encourage a partner who doesn’t support your change ● Am I crazy for pursuing an exhibitionist lifestyle? ● My one star review on iTunes and how to deal with haters Notes: What do you think? Email me at [email protected] Follow me on Twitter and Periscope: […]

Story of when I was influenced by others Who are you trying to mimic? Is it realistic change or impossible and unsatisfying? Are your goals someone else’s? What is it that you truly desire? Focus on ONE thing, others will come from it. Today’s episode is a rude awakening for me. I hate to share […]

What we need the most is often what we resist the most @itsalexbarker Notes: What do you think? Email me at [email protected] The No Complaining Rule by Jon Gordon Follow me on Twitter and Periscope: @itsalexbarker Join Our Facebook Community Rate and Review the Show (send me an email and I’ll send you a book […]