I logged back into social media briefly, not to make a statement, not to debate—just to check something I’d been tagged in. But while I was there, I came across a post that stopped me cold. It claimed that any man who wants to wear a dress or live as a woman must have a mental illness. Thousands of comments followed—some supportive, many cruel, and far too much hate.
I couldn’t scroll past it.
Having had my own direct relationship with the Creator—not through institutions, not through billion-dollar churches, but through lived experience, healing, and proof that changed my life—I felt a responsibility to speak. Not to attack, not to virtue-signal, but to bring some truth, context, and humanity back into a conversation that’s become mean, reactive, and deeply unbalanced.
In this episode, I share insights from my own life: decades in hospitality and kitchens where diversity wasn’t a theory, it was everyday reality. Gay men, lesbians, trans people, people transitioning in both directions—all working side by side. I explain how I became a straight friend to many of them, simply by seeing the human being first. Not the label. Not the identity. Just the person.
I also touch on some recent discoveries I’ve made around consciousness, biology, DNA, and what I call “glitches in the system”—not as a judgment, but as a way to understand why identity and sexuality can be complex, fluid, and deeply personal for some people.
At the core of this podcast is a simple truth: cruelty is never wisdom. Pack mentality isn’t thinking. And attacking people you don’t understand doesn’t make you right—it just makes you loud.
We’ve entered a new age—the age of integrity. And in that age, dehumanising language, lazy hate, and division have no place. This episode is an invitation to pause, reflect, and remember that before anything else, we are all human beings.