What does it mean to be grateful for the gift of life while still grieving the pain of feeling unwanted?
In this powerful episode of The Abort Ignorance Montana Podcast, Tanaia sits down with Eric Hutch, a pastor, adoptee, husband, father, grandfather, and author, to talk honestly about adoption, identity, belonging, loss, and the lifelong questions that can come with being adopted.
Eric shares his personal adoption story, his journey of reuniting with his birth family, and the complicated emotions that came with discovering more about where he came from. His story holds a profound tension: gratitude that his birth mother chose life, alongside the grief of knowing he was placed for adoption and wrestling with what it meant to feel unwanted.
Eric’s nearly 30 years of experience in pastoral leadership, counseling, and marriage and family ministry have shaped his passion for helping people understand their stories and find healing. He currently serves as Marriage and Family Pastor at Harvest Church in Billings, Montana. He and his wife, Shari, have been married for 37 years and have four sons and four grandsons.
Eric is also the founder of Gravitas Leadership Institute and a Townsend Leadership Program Director, equipping leaders to grow in both character and competency. His own adoption and reunion journey inspired his 2026 memoir, 38 Septembers, which explores identity, belonging, loss, and the healing power of discovering one's story.
This conversation explores the beauty and complexity of adoption—and what it means to affirm the value of life while making space for the grief, loss, and difficult emotions that can exist alongside gratitude.
Listen to Eric Hutch’s story of adoption, reunion, faith, identity, and the profound truth that every life has dignity, purpose, and potential.
Find More From Eric Hutch At:
• Book – 38 Septembers: From Hidden Roots to Sacred Reunion
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0GK57KN8J/?bestFormat=true&k=38%20septembers%20eric%20hutch&ref_=nb_sb_ss_w_scx-ent-bk-v2_k0_1_13_de&crid=2G5PDLJYRWOF7&sprefix=38%20septembers
• Speaking/Leadership Coaching and Development – [email protected]
• Relationship MasterClass Seminars – [email protected]
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