The Addict’s Advocate Podcast

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  • Reflections on a year of sobriety with Dan Fulop - Furlano - Episode 51 - The Addict's Advocate

    In this episode of The Addicts Advocate, Dusty Dean speaks with author Dan Fulop Furlano about addiction, recovery, and the deeper emotional work behind sobriety.

    Dan shares the story behind his book Sincerely Delusional, describing how a pivotal return to Divided Sky inspired him to write an open letter to people still struggling and eventually turn it into a memoir about waking up, staying awake, and learning to live with life on life’s terms.

    Together, they explore the difference between white-knuckling sobriety and building emotional sobriety, the role of trauma and unresolved pain, and why addiction is often a human issue rather than just a substance issue. The conversation also touches on triggers, relapse, identity, family, and the power of vulnerability, compassion, and support in lasting recovery.

    This is an honest, hopeful conversation for anyone affected by addiction, whether personally or through someone they love.

    Key topics

    Dan’s path to sobriety and the treatment experience that changed his life

    How a sober music festival helped inspire the book Sincerely Delusional

    Why recovery is really about waking up and staying awake

    The difference between white-knuckling sobriety and building emotional sobriety

    Why family, work, and daily routines all need attention after treatment

    How to support someone who may be starting to recognize they have a problem

     

    0:01 Introducing Dan Fulop Furlano and the story behind the conversation

    03:19 - Hitting bottom, entering treatment, and finding emotional sobriety
    12:08 - Learning to observe thoughts and feelings instead of obeying them
    23:12 - Triggers, relapse risk, and why awareness matters
    45:09 - Returning to social life, rebuilding relationships, and supporting others
    47:25 - “Who am I without this?” and learning to be yourself
    49:05 - The emotional cycle of drinking and temporary relief
    51:44 - How sobriety affected family, work, and close relationships
    55:10 - “I’ll be okay even if” versus “I’ll be okay if”
    1:04:30 - Where to find Sincerely Delusional and closing thoughts

    Find Dan's book here and reach him at his website at www.sincerelydelusional.com

    https://www.instagram.com/danielfulopfurlano/

    https://a.co/d/08majwji

    https://www.audible.com/pd/Sincerely-Delusional-Audiobook/B0HCPVHVDY?eac_link=z5DAbe6Cctxb&ref=web_search_eac_asin_1&eac_selected_type=asin&eac_selected=B0HCPVHVDY&qid=acnxsKnzN1&eac_id=130-0390952-0369437_acnxsKnzN1&sr=1-1

     

     

     

    1 hr 4 min
  • A Gen Z perspective on addiction, sobriety, and mental health with TikToks @Bae.lie - Episode 50 - The Addict's Advocate
    In this episode, Dusty Dean and Baelie discuss the multifaceted journey of sobriety, emphasizing the importance of fitness, community support, and mental health.
     
    Baelie shares her personal story of addiction and recovery, highlighting the challenges of triggers, the role of therapy, and the impact of shame versus guilt.
     
    They explore the nature of addiction as a disease and the common mistakes that can lead to relapse.
     
    sobriety, addiction, recovery, mental health, fitness, therapy, community support, relapse, trauma, personal growth
     
    Chapters
    00:00 Introduction to Addiction and Recovery
    02:46 Bailey's Journey to Sobriety
    05:34 Triggers and Challenges in Recovery
    08:06 The Role of Community and Support
    10:43 Understanding Shame and Guilt in Recovery
    13:25 The Importance of Therapy and Self-Reflection
    16:01 The Impact of Trauma on Addiction
    18:17 Navigating Relationships in Sobriety
    20:53 The Role of Nutrition and Healthy Living
    23:27 Final Thoughts on Recovery and Hope
    25:21 The Battle Within: Addiction and Clarity
    27:46 Relapse: Understanding the Triggers
    31:11 The Disease of Addiction: A Deep Dive
    34:18 Empathy and Responsibility in Addiction
    37:09 Finding Joy in Sobriety: The Journey Ahead
    40:37 Awareness and Resources: A Call to Action
    41 min
  • Psychedelic healing and sobriety with Ashley Elizabeth, sobriety coach - Episode 49 The Addict's Advocate

    In this episode of The Addict's Advocate, host Dusty Dean engages with Ashley Elizabeth, a sobriety coach and advocate for psychedelic healing. They discuss their personal journeys with addiction and recovery, highlighting the importance of individualized approaches to sobriety.

    Ashley shares her experiences with ADHD, substance abuse, and the transformative role of psychedelics in her healing process.

    The conversation delves into societal pressures, the challenges of maintaining relationships during recovery, and the significance of setting personal boundaries. Both speakers emphasize the need for compassion, intentionality, and the courage to redefine personal joy and success beyond societal norms.

    Takeaways:

    Recovery is a personal journey; what works for one may not work for another.

    Psychedelics can play a transformative role in healing when used with intention.

    Societal pressures often contribute to addiction and recovery challenges.

    Setting personal boundaries is crucial for maintaining sobriety.

    Compassion and understanding are key components of the recovery process.

    Redefining personal joy and success beyond societal norms is empowering.

    Maintaining relationships during recovery can be challenging but necessary.

    Intentionality in recovery practices leads to more effective healing.

    The journey of sobriety involves continuous learning and adaptation.

    Support systems and community play a vital role in successful recovery.

    Ashley Elizabeth, sobriety coach

    Tiktok - SacredRecovery

    IG - RebelBeyondSobriety

    Website - www.beyond-sobriety.com

    Chapters:

    00:03:00 Personal Journeys with Addiction

    00:09:00 The Role of Psychedelics in Healing

    00:15:00 Societal Pressures and Recovery

    00:21:00 Setting Personal Boundaries

    00:27:00 Compassion and Intentionality in Recovery

    00:33:00 Navigating Relationships During Recovery

    00:39:00 Redefining Personal Joy and Success

    00:45:00 The Importance of Support Systems

    00:51:00 Continuous Learning in Sobriety

    00:57:00 The Impact of Societal Norms on Addiction

    01:03:00 Intentional Healing Practices

    01:09:00 Closing Thoughts and Future Outlook

    1 hr 18 min
  • Wake Up with Marci podcast host Marci Hopkins talks addiction recovery - Episode 48 - The Addict's Advocate

    In this episode, Dusty Dean and Marci Hopkins explore the complexities of addiction and recovery, highlighting the importance of community, medical support, and personal growth.

    They share their personal experiences with sobriety, the challenges faced during the first 30 days, and the significance of understanding triggers and coping mechanisms.

    The conversation highlights the role of family dynamics in addiction and the transformative power of 12-step programs.

    Ultimately, they encourage listeners to break the stigma surrounding addiction and seek help.

    Takeaways

    1. Addiction is a complex disease that affects the mind and body.

    2. The journey to sobriety involves breaking cycles of chaos and finding clarity.

    3. Medical assistance in detox is crucial for safe recovery.

    4. Family dynamics play a significant role in addiction and recovery.

    5. Understanding triggers is essential for long-term sobriety.

    6. The 12-step program can provide a supportive framework for healing.

    7. Surrendering to the process is a vital step in recovery.

    8. Building a new foundation in sobriety requires self-awareness and effort.

    9. Community support is invaluable in the recovery journey.

    10. Breaking the stigma around addiction is necessary for healing.

    #alcoholicsanonymous #alcoholismawareness #sobrietyjourney #podcast #empowerment

    Marci Hopkins, Podcast Host and Author

    WEBSITE https://wakeupwithmarci.com/

    INSTAGRAM https://www.instagram.com/wake_up_with_marci/

    YOUTUBE  @wakeupwithmarci 

    PRE ORDER WAKE UP YOU"RE NOT BROKEN https://www.amazon.com/Wake-Up-Youre-Not-Broken-ebook/dp/B0FVP899QH?ref_=ast_author_dp&th=1&psc=1

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    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction to Recovery Journeys

    02:38 Transitioning from TV to Podcasting

    05:17 The Importance of Medical Detox

    08:16 Family Dynamics and Addiction

    10:58 Understanding Addiction and Genetics

    13:48 The Role of 12-Step Programs in Recovery

    19:24 The Journey to Surrender

    23:46 Facing the Consequences

    26:42 The Path to Recovery

    29:38 Tools for Sobriety

    34:34 Understanding Triggers

    38:40 Empowering Others Through Experience

    43 min
  • A Truly Wild Ride and Story of Sobriety with Ian Fee - Episode 47 - The Addict's Advocate

    In this enlightening conversation, Dusty Dean and Ian Fee delve into the multifaceted journey of sobriety, sharing personal stories of addiction, the importance of community, self-care, and the transformative power of gratitude.

    They discuss the challenges of recovery, the significance of forgiveness, and the impact of generational patterns of addiction.

    The dialogue emphasizes the significance of open communication in relationships and the impact of positive influences in fostering a supportive environment for recovery.

    Ian shares insights from his book, 'Wild Ride to Sobriety,' and his program 'Make It Great,' highlighting the importance of making a positive impact on oneself and others.

    Takeaways

    1. Sobriety is a journey that requires community support.

    2. Forgiveness is essential for healing and moving forward.

    3. Setting boundaries is crucial for self-care in recovery.

    4. Gratitude can transform your perspective on life.

    5. Relationships improve significantly after achieving sobriety.

    6. Understanding triggers is key to maintaining sobriety.

    7. Personal growth is a continuous process in recovery.

    8. It's important to communicate openly with loved ones.

    9. You can make a positive impact on others through small acts of kindness.

    9. The journey of sobriety can inspire others to seek change.

    makeitgreat.me

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ian-fee-6391b112/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/Make-It-Great/100034784122106/ Link to Book: https://www.amazon.com/Wild-Ride-Sobriety-Transformation-Oblivion/dp/B0DHYR1YST/

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    1 hr
  • Wisdom from 27 years of sobriety - Episode 46 - The Addict's Advocate

    In this heartfelt episode of "The Addicts Advocate," host Dusty Dean welcomes guest Tom Kaminsky (TikTok's La_Tommy_K) to share his inspiring journey of sobriety. From the depths of addiction to the triumphs of recovery, Tom opens up about his personal struggles, the pivotal moments that led to change, and the ongoing challenges of maintaining sobriety. Together, they explore the power of community, the importance of self-awareness, and the role of faith in overcoming addiction.

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    Introduction and Background (0:00 - 5:00) Dusty Dean introduces the episode and guest Tom Kaminsky. Tom shares his background and initial struggles with addiction.

    The Turning Point (5:01 - 15:00) Tom recounts the critical moment that led him to seek help. Discussion on the importance of anniversaries and milestones in recovery.

    The Road to Recovery (15:01 - 30:00) Tom describes his experiences in detox and rehab. The role of family support and community in his journey.

    Life in Sobriety (30:01 - 45:00) Tom talks about the challenges and rewards of living sober. Insights into maintaining balance and avoiding complacency.

    Wisdom and Reflections (45:01 - 60:00) Tom shares lessons learned and advice for others on the path to recovery. The importance of staying teachable and helping others.

    Closing Thoughts (60:01 - End) Final reflections from Dusty and Tom. Plans for future check-ins and continued support. 

    #SobrietyJourney #AddictionRecovery #CommunitySupport #TheAddictsAdvocate

    1 hr 12 min
  • Reconnecting the homeless with society through Miracle Messages - Episode 45 - The Addict's Advocate

    In this episode, Dusty Dean hosts Mary and Astara from Miracle Messages⁩  an organization dedicated to supporting individuals experiencing homelessness. They discuss the complexities of homelessness, the importance of relational health and support, and the various programs offered by Miracle Messages, including #reunification services and community outreach. Personal stories highlight the impact of these initiatives, emphasizing the need for compassion and understanding in addressing homelessness, addiction recovery, and mental health. The conversation concludes with a focus on building bridges between communities and the future direction of Miracle Messages.

    CONTACT INFO:

    Website: miraclemessages.org

    https://www.facebook.com/miraclemessages/

    Instagram at miraclemessages

    Takeaways

    1. Miracle Messages has been around for 10 years, focusing on relational support for the homeless.

    2. Homelessness is often misunderstood; many individuals are not addicts or mentally ill.

    3. Connection and support are crucial for individuals experiencing homelessness.

    4. The organization offers programs like reunification services and Miracle Friends.

    5. Personal stories illustrate the profound impact of these programs on individuals' lives.

    6. Building bridges between the housed and unhoused communities is essential.

    7. Compassion and empathy can help destigmatize homelessness and addiction.

    8. Hope is a vital component in the recovery process for those experiencing homelessness.

    9. The future of Miracle Messages includes expanding their reach and services.

    10. Community involvement and awareness are key to addressing homelessness effectively. 

    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction to Miracle Messages and Its Mission

    02:23 Understanding the Homelessness Crisis

    07:43 Miracle Messages Programs and Their Impact

    12:26 Building Connections and Community

    17:40 Challenges and Solutions in Reunification

    22:12 Future Directions and Advisory Council

    26:42 Final Thoughts and Call to Action

    28 min
  • Recovering from a recent relapse - Caleb's story continues - Episode 44 - The Addict's Advocate

    In this heartfelt episode, host Dusty Dean welcomes back Caleb Seitz to discuss his journey through addiction, relapse, and recovery. Caleb shares candid insights into his struggles, the turning points in his sobriety, and the lessons learned along the way. Together, they explore the importance of self-care, the power of community, and the daily commitment to staying sober.

    Key Points:

    Caleb's experience with relapse and the challenges of maintaining sobriety.

    The role of family support and community in recovery.

    Insights into the mental and emotional aspects of addiction.

    Caleb's new life in the oil fields and how it supports his sobriety.

    The importance of taking recovery one day at a time.

    Quotes:

    "A winner is a loser who tried one more time." "I'm not drinking today. Ask me tomorrow, and I'll tell you the same thing."

    #Sobriety #RecoveryJourney #AddictionAwareness #MentalHealth

    Tune in to hear Caleb's inspiring story and learn how resilience and determination can lead to a brighter future. Subscribe now for more powerful stories of recovery and hope.

    30 min
  • Turning pain into purpose with Micah's Hugs - Episode 43 - The Addict's Advocate

    In this episode, Dusty Dean speaks with Micah and Michelle Sawyer about their journey through grief after losing their son to a fentanyl overdose. They discuss the impact of addiction on families, the importance of empathy and community support, and the founding of their nonprofit, Micah's Hugs, which aims to help others facing similar struggles. The conversation highlights the need for understanding mental health issues about addiction and the importance of changing societal perspectives on these topics.

     

    Support Micah's Hugs!

    micahshugs.org

    Facebook.com/MICAHHUGS

    Instagram: micahs_hugs

    Tik tok: micahs.hugs

    Twitter or X @HugsMicah

    Takeaways

    Micah lost his son to fentanyl, which was devastating.

    He was a star athlete and popular, hiding his struggles.

    Addiction can consume families, leading to overwhelming grief.

    Micah's Hugs was founded to help families in similar situations.

    Empathy is crucial in addressing addiction and grief.

    Community support can help navigate the grieving process.

    Mental health issues often accompany addiction.

    Patience is essential in the grieving process.

    Breaking the stigma around addiction is necessary.

    Addiction should be viewed as a health issue, not a crime.

    Chapters

    00:00 The Journey of Grief and Healing

    09:25 Empathy and Understanding in Addiction

    18:35 Creating a Legacy: Micah's Hugs and Community Support

    27:53 Navigating Grief: Support and Connection

    27:53 Breaking the Silence on Addiction

    29:15 Understanding Guilt and Denial

    31:28 The Impact of Family Dynamics

    33:31 The Mental Health Connection

    36:55 Compassion and Recovery

    37:12 The Importance of Processing Grief

    38:08 A Different Approach to Drug Addiction

    40:29 The Role of Education in Prevention

    43:23 Hope for Change in Society

    45 min
  • 18 month sobriety check in with Tiktok and Instagram's SoberAFJeff - Episode 42 - The Addict's Advocate
    In this conversation, Dusty Dean and Jeff discuss their journeys in sobriety, celebrating milestones, navigating triggers, and the importance of spiritual growth. They explore the impact of relationships on recovery, the challenges of complacency, and the role of dopamine in addiction. The discussion emphasizes the need for self-care and personal growth while maintaining a supportive community.
     
    Takeaways
    • Relapses can serve as strong reminders of growth.
    • Triggers can come from unexpected memories and situations.
    • Spiritual awakening is a key aspect of recovery.
    • Relationships can change, but true friends support sobriety.
    • Complacency in recovery can lead to negative behaviors.
    • Dopamine regulation is crucial in addiction recovery.
    • Self-care is essential for maintaining sobriety.
    • Engaging with the community can enhance recovery efforts.
    • Chapters
      00:00 Celebrating Sobriety Milestones
      02:51 Navigating Triggers and Stress in Sobriety
      05:40 The Spiritual Journey in Recovery
      08:19 Understanding Addiction and Spiritual Experiences
      10:49 The Impact of Relationships on Sobriety
      13:23 Recovery Fatigue and Finding Balance
      16:17 The Struggle with New Addictions
      18:52 The Importance of Community in Recovery
      21:40 Self-Care and Personal Growth in Sobriety
      24:29 Looking Ahead: Future Plans and Goals
      32 min

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