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What happens when parents follow the rules, communicate clearly, and still aren’t heard?

In this episode of The Advocate, Dr. Kristi Love continues the conversation sparked by her interview with Dr. Yanique Rolingson, digging deeper into the difference between communication and true understanding in school-family relationships.

Through a real parent’s story, this episode centers the child’s experience and explores how rigid policies, when applied without empathy, can unintentionally harm students and exclude families. Dr. Love examines what advocacy can look like in real life: sometimes quiet, sometimes strategic, and sometimes simply choosing your child in the moment.

This episode also challenges schools to reflect honestly on access. From morning events that unintentionally exclude working families, to practical solutions like virtual meetings, recorded PTA sessions, live-streamed events, and flexible engagement models, Dr. Love highlights ways schools can move beyond good intentions toward responsive, equitable practice.

You’ll also hear a powerful Title I school example that proves what’s possible when schools design engagement with families, not just for them.

This conversation is for:

• Parents navigating school systems
• Educators and leaders committed to equity
• Anyone who believes children deserve to be seen, valued, and protected

As you listen, you’re invited to reflect:

• Are we mistaking parent absence for disengagement?
• Who is burdened by our policies?
• And what changes when understanding comes before compliance?

Because communication without understanding is just noise.
 But understanding- that’s where advocacy begins.

🎧 Next episode preview: A mother and educator shares her journey navigating school spaces with her son who has autism, a conversation about judgment, love, and the power of truly understanding a child.

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In this episode of The Advocate, we slow down and reflect on what it truly means to teach, lead, and serve with purpose in a season of exhaustion and noise.

This thoughtful conversation explores teaching as a calling, the emotional weight educators carry, and how burnout often shows up not because teachers don’t care, but because they care deeply. We discuss discipline as communication, the power of being seen, and how one caring adult can change the trajectory of a child’s life.

We also examine the disconnect between schools and families—why parents often feel intimidated in school spaces, how miscommunication fuels frustration on both sides, and what it looks like to move from conflict to partnership. Through real stories and lived experience, this episode highlights the importance of trust, intentional communication, and advocacy rooted in relationship rather than reaction.

This episode is for educators who feel stretched thin, parents who want to speak up but aren’t sure how, and anyone who has ever questioned whether the work they’re doing still matters. It’s a reminder to pause, reflect, and reconnect with your why, because purpose doesn’t disappear just because the work gets hard.

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What happens when we slow down long enough to actually listen to children?

In this episode of The Advocate Podcast, Dr. Kristi Love unpacks a powerful social media post that sparked strong reactions and uses it as an entry point into a deeper conversation about communication, authority, and emotional development.

Allowing children to explain themselves is often misunderstood as permissiveness or loss of control. Dr. Love challenges that narrative, clarifying that letting a child speak does not mean removing boundaries, surrendering authority, or excusing behavior. It means teaching a skill.

Drawing from lived experience, generational context, and school-based realities, this episode explores:

• Why many adults struggle to let children explain themselves
• How fear-based parenting and survival strategies show up as silence
• The difference between validation and agreement
• Why assuming children are lying shuts down honest communication
• How lack of voice at home often leads to discipline issues at school
• Why adult accountability, including apologizing when we’re wrong, models integrity and trust

This episode is especially for parents, educators, and school leaders who want to raise and teach children who can advocate for themselves without aggression, speak without fear, and disagree with respect.

Because advocacy isn’t about being loud. It’s about being intentional.

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In this episode, we confront a hard truth in education: what happens when discipline becomes a substitute for development. Too often, students, especially those from historically marginalized communities, are punished for behaviors that are actually cries for support, understanding, and growth. We unpack how zero-tolerance policies, exclusionary practices, and adult-centered control can derail academic progress and damage students’ sense of belonging.

Through real-world insights and a culturally responsive lens, this episode challenges educators, school leaders, and families to rethink behavior—not as defiance to be managed, but as communication to be understood. We explore what it looks like to shift from punishment to purpose, from control to connection, and from compliance to care. If we truly want to develop whole children, we must ask: Are our discipline practices helping students grow, or simply pushing them out?

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In this foundational episode, Dr. Kristi N. Love, educator, advocate, and mother of 2 , shares the personal and professional experiences that led her to create The Advocate Podcast.  Drawing from over 20 years of teaching and leading across diverse school settings, she reflects on the mindset shift that transformed how she understands children, discipline, and advocacy.  Her dual lens as both an educator and a parent offers insight into how families can navigate school systems and advocate effectively for their children. 

This episode explores how misaligned expectations, punitive discipline, and inequitable systems impact children, families, and educators, and why advocacy must always center child development, culture, and humanity.

In this episode, you’ll hear about:

• Why Dr. Love nearly left the education profession—and what helped her stay
• The critical mindset shift
• How culturally responsive teaching, trauma-informed practices, and SEL transformed her perspective
• What effective leadership, accountability, and support look like in schools
• How inequitable systems show up for families, especially during moments of crisis
• Why The Advocate is a space for parents, educators, and leaders seeking clarity, reflection, and change

This episode is not about blame. It’s about responsibility.

Whether you’re a parent navigating school systems, an educator feeling overwhelmed, or a leader committed to growth, this conversation sets the foundation for understanding what advocacy truly means.

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Join Dr. Kristi N. Love, educator and advocate, as she introduces The Advocate: Amplifying Voices. Challenging Systems. Prioritizing Children. In this trailer, hear why the podcast exists, how social media inspired her mission, and how she helps parents, educators, and leaders center children, embrace restorative practices, and hold schools accountable. New episodes release weekly on Wednesdays—tune in, join the conversation, and share. 

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