In this episode we dig a LOT deeper, Trista sits down with her life partner, CJ, for an honest conversation about one of the biggest decisions anyone makes: choosing the right person to build a life with. Together, they dig into the questions couples often skip, the ones that matter far more than chemistry, fun, or excitement.

Trista and CJ share their real experiences navigating values, communication, conflict, ambition, lifestyle alignment, and the deep conversations that ultimately determine whether a relationship is built to last. From religion and politics to family expectations and emotional safety, they unpack what truly creates a supportive, peaceful, long-term partnership.

Whether you're dating, engaged, or already married, this episode will help you reflect on your relationship with clarity and confidence — and understand why love alone is never enough.

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For the most part, bridesmaids make the wedding planning journey more fun, but what happens when they don’t?  Let’s be honest, the bridesmaid drama can be real and sometimes things can get complicated. 

In this episode, Trista, Sierra, and Aaliyah get real about the most common challenges brides face with their bridal party. They cover money conversations, timeline struggles, dress disagreements, communication breakdowns, and everything in between. After listening to this episode, you’ll walk away with practical tips to protect your peace, pre-planning tips to avoid potential disasters, and advice on how to create a bridesmaid experience that feels supportive an not stressful.

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This week, we’re diving deep into one of the most important decisions in wedding planning: finding the perfect venue. In this episode, we discuss the real issues you should be focused on when searching for your venue, along with some crucial questions that need to be asked in order to make sure your venue is just right for you. 

We also have a special guest joining us, representatives from The Camby Hotel.  As industry experts with insider with extensive venue experience, our guests share behind-the-scenes knowledge that couples rarely get access to. Their perspective adds even more clarity on how venues operate, what couples should prepare for, and how to confidently compare different spaces.

Whether you’re newly engaged or already touring venues, this episode will help you avoid surprises, stay informed, and choose a venue that aligns perfectly with your vision, your budget, and your wedding-day priorities.

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This week on The Aisle, Trista sits down with her powerhouse team, Aaliyah and Sierra from BTS Event Management, for an honest and hilarious conversation about what it truly takes to be a great wedding planner. From the boss’s perspective to the planner in the field, they share the qualities, habits, and behind-the-scenes realities that separate good planners from truly exceptional ones.

Expect candid stories, moments of laughter, and a few spicy truths about client management, event-day chaos, and the mindset it takes to thrive in luxury weddings. Whether you’re a bride to be looking to hire a planner, an aspiring planner or a seasoned pro, this one’s packed with insight, inspiration, and a whole lot of personality.

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This week on The Aisle, Trista sits down with influencer, entrepreneur, and soon-to-be bride Carolyn Estephany — who also happens to be engaged to NFL player Sterling Shepard. Carolyn opens up about the many important layers to her life — motherhood, business, content creation, and now wedding planning.

She shares the sweet details of her proposal story, her vision for the big day, and how she’s staying grounded and intentional through it all. Trista, Sierra, and Carolyn talk about what the early stages of wedding planning really look like behind the scenes, how to juggle public life and private moments, and what it means to design a wedding that reflects you.

It’s real, raw, and full of inspiration for anyone planning a wedding while chasing big dreams.

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This week on The Aisle, Trista sits down with former BTS bride Nina Hill, who opens up about life after the wedding from continuing to build a thriving career alongside her husband to navigating the emotional and physical journey of growing their family.

Nina shares her honest reflections on how marriage is like after the big day, what she’s learned about partnership, and how she continues to find balance between ambition, goals and family.

Plus, Trista dives into an important topic for all brides in the thick of planning: embracing change. Whether it’s a shift in your design vision, your budget, your wedding party, or even your own priorities, she shares real advice on how to stay grounded and enjoy the process, no matter what changes come your way.

Tune in for a heartfelt, inspiring conversation that reminds us weddings are just the beginning of a much bigger love story.

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In this episode of The Aisle, Sierra returns from an unforgettable experience at New York Bridal Fashion Week, giving us an inside look at the trends, designers, and standout collections that stole the show. From service, stand out moments,  and wow bridal fashion statements, Sierra shares her firsthand experience from the front rows and saying yes to the dress of NYC’s most stylish week.

Then, Trista, Sierra, and Aaliyah dive deep into a hot topic in the luxury wedding world: guest attire and event standards. The trio explores what it really means when a couple requests “black tie” — and why the guest experience, service level, and overall ambiance must rise to meet the elegance of ballgowns and tuxedos.

This candid conversation pulls back the curtain on what it takes to produce an event that truly feels cohesive from the attire to the overall setting— and why intentionality, service, and details need to all be inline in order to create an unforgettable celebrations. 

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In this episode of The Aisle, Trista dives into one of the most talked-about (and controversial) topics in the wedding world — price transparency. Joined by the founders of Tulle Together, a platform dedicated to helping couples and vendors navigate real wedding costs, we unpack what transparency really means in an industry known for wide price ranges and many variables.

From venue fees and and so many variables that go into custom pricing, this conversation explores why wedding costs vary so much, how planners and vendors can educate clients without devaluing their work, and why clarity builds trust on both sides of the aisle.

Whether you’re a bride trying to set a realistic budget or a wedding pro navigating pricing conversations, this episode offers fresh, honest insight into how the industry can evolve with more openness, education, and collaboration.

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In this episode of The Aisle, Trista chats with Charlotte, co-founder of Alice Mushrooms, about how functional mushrooms can naturally support mental health and stress relief during wedding planning.

Charlotte breaks down the benefits of mushrooms like Lion’s Mane, Reishi, and Cordyceps, and how they help with focus, energy, and emotional balance — all essential for brides, planners, and anyone juggling a busy season.

Tune in to learn simple ways to incorporate adaptogens and natural wellness into your daily routine so you can feel calm, clear, and confident on your way to “I do.”

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In this episode of The Aisle, we’re pulling back the curtain on two sides of wedding day magic.

First Trista and the ladies of BTS dive into the real leadership role of a wedding planner. We talk candidly about how we “drive the ship”,  when to step in and redirect, when we let small things go, and how to balance advocating for our clients without being pushy or salesy. You’ll also hear our honest take on helping couples understand when it’s worth investing more to protect the end result and when to save their money.

Then, Trista sits down with Risa Kostis, a bridal stylist and professional Day-of Dresser, who shares what it’s really like to help brides feel confident, supported, and flawless as they step into their gown. From last-minute fixes to calming nerves, you’ll hear why having a Day-of Dresser can make all the difference on your wedding day.

Whether you’re a bride planning your big day or a wedding professional looking for insider perspective, this episode is packed with valuable lessons on leadership, communication, and the artistry behind creating unforgettable weddings.

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