The Alienator's Chess Game

The alienator is a psychological pyromaniac.   Whether it is explosions or tiny flames, they are trying to set fires in every area of the target parent's life.  Putting out all of these infernos often distracts the target parent from the good moments and the healthy people in their life.  This can indirectly cause the spark in the new relationship to fade, and now your new relationship is being ruined by the same person who ruined the last relationship.  Stephanie Sylvia Costello, relationship expert, discusses strategies to help target parents take care of their new relationship in the midst of this alienation firestorm.   Make block sure you block their move and protect your current King (Queen).  Checkmate!

The alienator chess game keeps target parents caught in what feels like a constant life and death game of dodgeball.  The constant manipulation and allegations sweep in, to the point you feel you are stuck in a conflict cyclone, that is destroying all areas of your life.  If we let the alienator do this to our life-they win.  We cannot let that happen.   We have a counter move that- Compartmentalize the Conflict.  Listen to Episode #9 of The Alienator's Chess Game to find out how you can make this your next move to protect yourself in the Alienator's Chess Game and work towards rescuing the parent-child bond.  Checkmate!

In Parental Alienation, it feels like an attack from all directions and you are not even sure what to tackle first.  Kristoffer has been enduring parental alienation for the past six years. He has used his skills to objectively evaluate what is the first step a target parent should take in this process and how to effectively navigate that first step.

Alienators are mean people.  Mean people are not happy people.  Do not let them steal your joy.  It is another one of their tactics to steal your child's mind.  In this episode, we discuss how you can become titanium when the alienator is using words as weapons.

When our children's minds are being kidnapped from us, it can cripple us emotionally.   Rachel Strivelli, Emotional Personal Coach gives us three techniques to help us create emotional balance and show up mentally healthy for our children.  

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Do you ever feel alone in what are you experiencing with Parental Alienation?  Despite the overwhelming feelings of loneliness PA causes, there are so many parents experiencing the exact same nightmare.  It is like the alienators all use the same playbook.  Matthew has experienced the alienation and the trials and tribulations of going through court.  He has thoroughly educated himself to help himself through the process and he shares his knowledge with us; including how alienated parents can tell their story when asked.  

If you are dealing with a toxic co-parent there is no doubt he/she has been an obstacle when it comes to getting things done for your child or being able to participate in your child's activities.  Toxic Relationship Specialist and author of Becoming Toxic Person Proof, Sarah K.Ramsey discusses her technique "around the house" on how you can get around the obstacle your toxic co-parent puts in your way!  

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Badmouthing is the #1 Play the alienator's use, but what do we do when we are not sure if badmouthing is occurring because our child is shutting down?  The same thing we would do if our child was shutting down for any reason at all.  We get them to open up!  But this has to be done very strategically or it will only cause our child to double down on the shutdown.  Listen to Episode #3: Conquering the Shutdown to find out how you can strategically respond to the child shutdown.

It has been reported this occurs in 80% of divorced families; with some well-intentioned parents doing it unintentionally.  Join us to find out the alienators' #1 play and learn how to identify it and the counter strategy you can use to counter their move, ultimately strengthening the bond between you and your child.  CHECKMATE!

Welcome to the first episode of The Alienator's Chess Game Podcast!  In this episode, we explore what Parental Alienation is, who can be an alienator, and who can be the target of the alienator.   I discuss the mission of the podcast and the motivation to rise up and make it happen.  Last, we identify the very first strategy we need to use in order to rescue the parent-child bond and accomplish the podcast's mission.  Thank you for listening!