This week’s solo episode is for the girls who believe in main character moments and holiday flings that raise your standards. I’m sharing the story of an American boy who turned a simple online connection into one of the most unforgettable experiences of my life.

From VIP strip club rooms (yes, that bucket list item got ticked off) to mocktail dates, fashion compliments, and just the most emotionally intelligent, drop-dead gorgeous man I’ve ever met — this was a fantasy. A movie. A moment. And yes, American Boy by Estelle hits differently now.

Tune in, darling because it’s giving “not my man, but definitely my standard.