In this episode, I discuss the difference between being a gold digger and simply having standards. I speak on why dating for funds and not for fun becomes essential once you’re in your mid-twenties and beyond.

This one’s for the girls who know it’s no longer cute to entertain struggle love. We get into setting boundaries, expecting provision and care — emotionally, financially, and mentally — and why questions like “What do you bring to the table?” are a red flag. If a man isn’t a solution, he’s the problem.

Disclaimer:

Please note, I was twisting and turning in bed while recording this, so there are moments where the sound fluctuates — but thank goodness, you can still hear me clearly!

This week’s solo episode is for the girls who believe in main character moments and holiday flings that raise your standards. I’m sharing the story of an American boy who turned a simple online connection into one of the most unforgettable experiences of my life.

From VIP strip club rooms (yes, that bucket list item got ticked off) to mocktail dates, fashion compliments, and just the most emotionally intelligent, drop-dead gorgeous man I’ve ever met — this was a fantasy. A movie. A moment. And yes, American Boy by Estelle hits differently now.

Tune in, darling because it’s giving “not my man, but definitely my standard.

Chris Danny is the energy plug behind some of the wildest nights in the city. From DJing and hyping to commanding every room he steps into, he’s built a name through pure hustle. In this episode, we get into the real side of nightlife—the pressure, the sacrifices, the mindset, and the moments that made him. Loud, honest, and full of fire.

In part two, we explore the other side of heartbreak—the moment when love still lingers, but the relationship is over. A breakup may feel like an ending, but it’s not the end of you. It’s a rebirth, a reset, and a chance to embrace something new, something fresh, and something better. Letting go is never easy, but sometimes, it’s exactly what you need to step into the next, brighter chapter of your life.

There’s a difference between breaking up when you’re over someone and breaking up while you’re still in love. One feels like freedom, the other? Like heartbreak in slow motion. In this special two-part series, I sit down with my very first guest, M, to unpack the emotional weight of letting go when your heart isn’t ready. In Part 1, we dive into the pain, the confusion, and the struggle of moving forward while still holding on. Stay tuned for Part 2 next week, where we explore the other side—when the love is gone, and the breakup feels like a relief. You don’t want to miss this!

This is my start to this journey with you all.