The Amicable Divorce Network Podcast

In this episode of the Amicable Divorce Network Podcast, host Tracy Ann Moore-Grant sits down with Joerika Stitt, Illinois-based attorney, certified mediator, and collaborative divorce professional, for one of the most honest conversations we've had about what traditional litigation actually does to families and why there is a better way.

Joerika brings a perspective that is truly one of a kind. Before becoming a lawyer, she spent nearly a decade as a psychiatric social worker. She then built her legal career at Prairie State Legal Services doing legal aid work for domestic violence survivors. And then she went through a decade-long divorce herself. She has seen this system from every possible angle, and what she has to say about it will stop you in your tracks.

In this episode you'll learn:

• Why Joerika's own divorce lasted 10 years — and what she wishes she had known going in
• How the court system is structurally designed to be adversarial, and why that is actively harmful to families
• What a "status hearing" actually is, why you keep having them, and why your lawyer bills you every single time
• How lawyers can — intentionally or not — create and escalate conflict between parties
• Why even "winning" in court often leaves clients emotionally and financially depleted
• The real timeline and cost difference between a litigated divorce and an out-of-court process
• Why AI-generated divorce agreements almost never hold up in court
• What limited scope representation is and how it can help if you can't afford full representation

💻 Work with Joerika at joerika.com
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In this episode of the Amicable Divorce Network Podcast, host Tracy Ann Moore-Grant sits down with ADN board member, coaching chair, and certified life coach Nicole Comis for an honest, hopeful conversation about what comes after divorce — and how to stop reacting to life and start intentionally creating it.

Nicole works with people at every stage of the divorce journey, but her real passion is helping people on the other side — the ones who have made it through and are now asking the question nobody prepared them for: who am I now, and what do I actually want?

This is one of the most human episodes we've recorded. If you're feeling stuck, scared, resentful, or just not sure what's next — this one is for you.

In this episode you'll learn:

• Why forgiveness is not about the other person — it's about freeing yourself
• How "marinating" in anger and resentment keeps you in partnership with your pain instead of your future
• The difference between a life coach, divorce coach, health coach, and business coach — and which one you actually need
• Why the best decisions in divorce come from vision and values, not fear and scarcity
• The Whole 30 mindset lesson that will change how you think about your divorce journey
• How to identify the "negative advocates" in your life — even when they love you deeply
• Why simply making one phone call to a coach could change everything

💻 Work with Nicole at nicolecomis.com — free discovery sessions available
🌐 Find Nicole and other vetted coaches at amicabledivorcenetwork.com
🌐 Divorce resources for clients at divorceamicably.com

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In this episode of the Amicable Divorce Network Podcast, host Tracy Ann Moore-Grant sits down with ADN board member, amicable ambassador, and certified family law paralegal Cassi Brown for a candid, practical conversation about what really goes on behind the scenes of your divorce case and exactly what you can do to make the process smoother, faster, and less expensive.

Cassi brings seven and a half years of strictly family law paralegal experience to the table, and she's seen it all.

The banker's box dumped on the desk, the client who posts vacation photos while claiming financial hardship, and the 20 phone calls a week that have nothing to do with the case. She's sharing her top five tips so you don't have to learn the hard way.

Find Cassi Brown in the ADN Member Directory under Georgia at amicabledivorcenetwork.com

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In this episode of the Amicable Divorce Network Podcast, host Tracy Ann Moore-Grant sits down with Chloe Oudiz, divorce coach, founder of Divorce Differently, and ADN Amicable Award winner, for a conversation that most people never think to have.

Should you tell your employer you're going through a divorce?

It sounds simple, but the answer is more nuanced than you might think. Chloe breaks down the stigma, the statistics, and the very real professional risks of staying silent and gives practical, thoughtful guidance on how to navigate this conversation with confidence.

Work with Chloe at divorcewithchloe.com and book a free consultation call🌐 Find an amicable divorce professional near you at amicabledivorcenetwork.com🌐 Divorce resources for clients at divorceamicably.com

In this powerful episode of the Amicable Divorce Network Podcast, host Tracy Ann Moore-Grant sits down with Lisa Johnson and Chris Barry, high conflict divorce strategists and founders of Been There Got Out, to discuss their new book When Your Ex Turns the Kids Against You — and the very real, very painful issue of parental alienation.

Lisa and Chris work daily with clients they describe as battling their own personal terrorists through the family law system — and in this conversation, they pull back the curtain on what alienation actually looks like, how it starts, and what parents can do to protect their children and themselves.

💻 Find Lisa & Chris at beentheregotout.com |

📧 [email protected] | [email protected]

📚 When Your Ex Turns the Kids Against You — available on Amazon

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Can EMDR Therapy Help You Heal Through Divorce?

In this episode of the Amicable Divorce Network Podcast, host Tracy Ann Moore-Grant sits down with licensed clinical social worker and mediator Will Smith of the Atlanta Marriage and Mediation Clinic to explore one of our most-read blog topics ever EMDR therapy and its powerful role in divorce recovery.

Will breaks down what Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) actually is, how it works with your nervous system, and why it may be one of the most effective tools available for people stuck in grief, anger, or trauma during or after divorce. He shares a compelling real-life success story and explains the difference between "Big T" and "Little T" trauma and why both matter in the divorce process.

In this episode you'll learn:

• What EMDR is and how the light bar therapy works
• Why divorce can be a form of trauma (even without violence)
• How EMDR helps "unstick" painful memories so you can think clearly and move forward
• How many sessions to expect and what to look for in a qualified EMDR therapist
• How co-mediation and flat-rate divorce packages are changing the game for amicable divorces

💻 Find Will Smith at atlmmc.com or atlantaemdr.org

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In this episode, host Tracy Moore Grant sits down with family law attorney Hannah Hembree Bell to discuss the intricacies of navigating divorce, with a special focus on empowering women.

✨ What You’ll Learn:

• Hannah’s inspiring journey into family law
• The critical importance of financial independence during divorce
• Emotional challenges and practical advice for women considering divorce
• Common pitfalls to avoid and tips for preparing for life after divorce

Hannah shares invaluable insights from her personal experiences and offers essential resources to support women throughout this journey.

For more empowering content and resources, follow us on Instagram: @divorceamicably.

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Divorce isn’t just emotional, it’s financial. And the decisions made during this transition can impact your future for decades.

In this episode of the Amicable Divorce Network Podcast, host Tracy Moore-Grant sits down with Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® Michelle Muhammed to unpack the critical financial choices couples face during divorce — and the costly mistakes many people don’t realize they’re making.

They discuss:

• Why hiring a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA®) can dramatically change outcomes• Common misconceptions about dividing retirement accounts, real estate, and investment assets• The hidden long-term risks of DIY divorces and rushed settlements• Why “50/50” doesn’t always mean equal — or financially smart• How an amicable approach can protect both parties’ long-term financial stability

Michelle shares practical insights on evaluating settlement options, avoiding common financial traps, and making informed decisions that align with your future goals — not just short-term emotions.

Whether you are navigating divorce personally or professionally, this episode offers essential guidance on protecting your financial future and making confident, informed choices.

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In this episode of the Amicable Divorce Network Podcast, host Tracy Ann Moore-Grant sits down with intimacy coach Jen MG for an honest, thoughtful conversation about intimacy during—and after—divorce.

Together, they explore how aging, evolving desires, emotional shifts, and life transitions can reshape intimacy in ways many people aren’t prepared for. Jen shares why self-reflection and honest communication are essential, especially for individuals redefining themselves after divorce, and offers practical guidance for rebuilding intimacy with clarity, confidence, and intention.

Whether you’re navigating divorce, supporting clients through it, or reimagining connection in a new chapter of life, this episode offers grounded insight and compassionate perspective on creating fulfilling relationships post-divorce.

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In the first episode of Season 3 of the Amicable Divorce Network podcast, host Tracy Ann Moore-Grant speaks with co-parenting coach Jay Skibbens about the complexities of co-parenting after divorce.

They discuss the emotional challenges faced by parents, the importance of setting boundaries, and the need for child-focused decision-making.

Jay shares his personal journey and insights on navigating co-parenting dynamics, emphasizing the significance of understanding emotions and expectations.

The conversation also touches on the impact of labels like 'narcissism' in co-parenting relationships and offers practical tips for managing triggers and fostering healthier communication.

You can find more from Jay on IG:

@jayskibbens

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