Follow me on instagram or book a free consultation call on my website!https://www.instagram.com/theantioptimisttherapist/https://theantioptimisttherapist.com/In this episode of the Anti Optimist Therapist Podcast, I discuss the importance of committed action in our lives, emphasizing that true growth stems from finding meaning in our suffering. I share personal stories, including reading to my daughter despite fatigue and juggling numerous books for the pure joy of reading. I highlight the values of commitment, not for external validation, but for self-alignment and personal fulfillment. I encourage listeners to take small, meaningful actions today, driven by their own values and choices, regardless of external approval. I conclude with an invitation to my 12-week group program, The Fulfillment Formula, designed for high-achieving women seeking deeper meaning beyond anxiety and achievement.00:00 Introduction to the Anti Optimist Therapist Podcast00:23 The Bedtime Story Dilemma01:29 The Importance of Committed Action01:41 Struggles with Personal Commitments02:27 Intrinsic Motivation and Personal Values03:39 The Joy of Reading05:22 Historical Figures and Their Unique Rituals07:13 Challenge Yourself with Small Actions07:36 Final Thoughts on Values and Commitment08:01 Closing Remarks and Program Information

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In this episode of the Anti Optimist Therapist Podcast, I discuss the importance of committed action and values-driven living. I share personal anecdotes about reading to my daughter, exercising, and reading books for enjoyment, emphasizing that actions aligned with personal values often lack visible rewards but are crucial for personal growth. The episode encourages listeners to make choices based on their values, not efficiency or external approval. I also highlight historical figures like Nietzsche, Benjamin Franklin, and David Goggins to illustrate the significance of values-driven actions. The episode concludes with a call to action for listeners to commit to one small but meaningful task, reinforcing that the act of choosing and doing is what truly matters.00:00 Introduction to the Anti Optimist Therapist Podcast00:23 The Bedtime Story Dilemma01:29 The Importance of Committed Action01:46 Struggles with Consistency and Self-Trust02:27 Intrinsic Motivation and Personal Values03:39 The Joy of Reading05:22 Historical Figures and Their Unique Rituals06:27 David Goggins and Pushing Limits07:13 Call to Action: Embrace Your Choices07:36 Final Thoughts and Program Information

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In this episode of the Anti Optimist Therapist Podcast, I explore the power of committed action and values-driven choices in everyday life. I share personal stories about reading to my daughter and my own challenges with maintaining commitments like exercising. I emphasize the importance of doing what matters because it matters, without seeking external validation or measurable results. I discuss the concept of acting in line with one's values and share examples from historical and contemporary figures who embody this principle. Listeners are encouraged to make small, meaningful choices that align with their values, fostering a life of authenticity and fulfillment.00:00 Introduction to the Anti Optimist Therapist Podcast00:23 The Bedtime Story Dilemma01:29 The Importance of Committed Action01:41 Struggles with Consistency and Self-Trust02:27 Intrinsic Motivation and Personal Values03:39 The Joy of Reading05:22 Historical Figures and Their Unique Rituals07:05 Challenge Yourself with Small Actions07:36 Final Thoughts on Values and Commitment08:01 Conclusion and Program Information

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In this episode of the Anti Optimist Therapist Podcast, I share the importance of committing to actions that align with our values. Through personal anecdotes, I discuss the challenges of maintaining commitments, like reading to my daughter every night and sticking to health routines, despite daily obstacles and temptations for convenience. I emphasize that living a values-driven life involves making choices that matter to us, even without external validation. I use examples from notable figures like Nietzsche, Benjamin Franklin, and David Goggins to illustrate how true commitment looks from the inside out. This episode encourages listeners to start small by committing to actions that they choose simply because they matter, without the need for reasons or approval from others.

00:00 Introduction to the Anti Optimist Therapist Podcast

00:23 The Bedtime Story Dilemma

01:22 The Importance of Committed Action

01:41 Struggles with Personal Commitments

02:27 Intrinsic Motivation and Personal Values

05:22 Embracing Unconventional Rituals

07:10 Taking Small but Meaningful Actions

07:36 Final Thoughts and Program Information

Follow me on instagram or book a free consultation call on my website!https://www.instagram.com/theantioptimisttherapist/https://theantioptimisttherapist.com/In this episode of the Anti Optimist Therapist, we explore the concept of 'Self as context,' a key idea from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). I share personal anecdotes illustrating how our minds create anxious narratives and how we can learn to observe our thoughts without being consumed by them. The episode emphasizes the importance of recognizing that we are not the voice in our heads but the ones who hear it, creating space to navigate our mental and emotional landscapes more compassionately. We also discuss the upcoming group program, the Fulfillment Formula, aimed at helping high-achieving women overcome anxiety, guilt, and perfectionism. Stay tuned for next time, where we'll delve deeper into making decisions amidst mental noise.00:00 Introduction to the Anti Optimist Therapist00:18 Morning Mental Chatter00:59 Anxiety and Unrealistic Fears01:55 Understanding Self as Context02:19 Prison Experience and Presence03:29 Dealing with Grief and Self-Blame04:28 Lessons from Early Clients05:20 The Observing Self and Historical Wisdom06:32 The Power of Noticing Thoughts07:14 The Fulfillment Formula Program07:52 Conclusion and Next Episode Preview

Follow me on instagram or book a free consultation call on my website!https://www.instagram.com/theantioptimisttherapist/https://theantioptimisttherapist.com/In this episode of the Anti Optimist Therapist, we explore the concept of 'The Power of Giving Up.' Contrary to conventional wisdom, giving up isn't about failure; it's about gaining clarity through acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT). I share a personal story of how embracing creative hopelessness during a chaotic day led to a moment of genuine connection with my daughter. We also discuss powerful examples, from the life-saving decision of a smokejumper to the groundbreaking research of Marie Curie, to illustrate how surrendering control opens the door to new possibilities and truths. For those feeling stuck in overthinking, guilt, and perfectionism, I introduce my group program, 'The Fulfillment Formula,' designed to help high-achieving women live meaningfully by focusing on values over fear. 00:00 Introduction to The Anti Optimist Therapist00:43 The Concept of Creative Hopelessness01:00 A Personal Story of Letting Go02:14 The Wisdom of Surrender03:24 Historical Examples of Creative Hopelessness05:41 Applying Creative Hopelessness in Life06:07 Invitation to The Fulfillment Formula Program06:53 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Follow me on instagram or book a free consultation call on my website!https://www.instagram.com/theantioptimisttherapist/https://theantioptimisttherapist.com/In this episode of the Anti Optimist Therapist, we explore the idea that trying to feel better can sometimes keep us stuck in pain. Drawing on acceptance and commitment therapy, we discuss how avoidance of pain only deepens it, using real-life and historical examples to illustrate the point. Instead, embracing our pain and being willing to experience it can lead to genuine relief and personal growth. The episode also introduces the Fulfillment Formula, a 12-week therapy group designed to help high-achieving women overcome anxiety, guilt, and perfectionism by focusing on living a meaningful life.00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview00:30 The Trap of Avoiding Pain01:13 The Quicksand Metaphor02:08 Historical Example: Neville Chamberlain03:35 Modern Avoidance Tactics05:05 The Cost of Avoidance05:45 Lessons from Abraham Lincoln07:12 Acceptance and Willingness08:19 Group Program: The Fulfillment Formula09:06 Conclusion and Next Episode Preview

Follow me on instagram or book a free consultation call on my website!https://www.instagram.com/theantioptimisttherapist/https://theantioptimisttherapist.com/In this episode of 'The Anti Optimist Therapist,' we explore the idea that pain is an indicator of what we deeply care about. Drawing wisdom from acceptance and commitment therapy and real-life stories of resilience and courage, we discuss how pain can serve as a compass guiding us toward our values. Rather than viewing pain as something to avoid, we examine how embracing it can lead to a more meaningful life. Through my personal experiences and the stories of notable figures such as Malala, Oprah, Harriet Tubman, and Mother Teresa, we reflect on the paradox of human existence: to care deeply is to risk hurt, yet it is also the path to a fulfilling life.00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview00:33 Understanding Pain and Its Significance01:53 Personal Reflections and Metaphors03:17 Stories of Resilience and Courage04:02 Personal Story and Insights08:10 Reflection and Call to Action09:06 Program Invitation and Conclusion

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Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/theantioptimisttherapist/In this episode of the Anti Optimist Therapist Podcast, we dive into the concept of the inner critic, or the 'conceptualized self' as defined in acceptance and commitment therapy. We explore how this inner voice, built from our past experiences and societal expectations, can become a commanding and shaming force that distorts our perception of ourselves. I share a personal story to illustrate the pressures of maintaining an outward appearance of having it all together. We discuss notable figures like Steve Jobs and Anne Hathaway, who struggled with their public personas. The episode concludes with practical tools for defusing this inner critic, such as naming the voice in your head and rephrasing negative self-stories to create space and freedom. You're reminded that you're not your thoughts or roles, but the observer who has the power to choose and begin anew.

00:00 Introduction to the Anti Optimist Therapist Podcast

00:42 Understanding the Inner Critic

01:45 Personal Anecdote: The Pressure to Appear Perfect

02:40 The Inner Dictator and Comparison

03:34 Real-Life Examples of Struggle

04:19 Tools to Manage the Inner Critic

05:52 Final Takeaways and Conclusion

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In this episode of the Anti Optimist Therapist Podcast, host April explores the concept of cognitive fusion, where thoughts entangle with our identity and dictate our actions. Drawing on Viktor Frankl's experiences in Auschwitz and comparing them with modern metaphors like radio broadcasts and backpacks. April elucidates the importance of recognizing and distancing oneself from automatic, often negative thoughts. By practicing cognitive diffusion, one can better navigate life's challenges, focus on what truly matters, and regain personal agency. Join us for more insights into blending optimism and realism each week.

00:00 Introduction to the Anti Optimist Therapist Podcast

00:49 Understanding Cognitive Fusion

01:33 The Story of Victor Frankl

03:22 The Inner Narrator and Its Influence

03:49 Metaphors for the Mind

06:50 Practical Exercises for Thought Diffusion

07:23 Final Thoughts and Conclusion